I met this guy roughly 8 months ago. We had insane chemistry the first time we hung out (after a drink because I was shy and so nervous). We both knew we were dating other people blah blah but we were still seeing each other. When we hang out, it is very casual but very comfortable and we absolutely enjoy being together. Actually, it's downright blissful. 4 months down the line he mentioned something about being friends.. but I assumed, based on the context of the conversation, that we would already be friends no matter what happens; I look at building an amazing friendship is the greatest foundation to build a relationship from and I know Cancer men generally are the same way. I didn't realize until recently that he meant that he turned me into an FWB after a hiccups of plans one night. I asked him directly and he said that we have huge sparks in every aspect but not in a relationship way; our chemistry with friendship, and chemistry with affection and sex is "on fire", but he doesn't think we would ever be in a relationship. And that it's not me or anything I do.....and it has nothing to do with my weight (i'm in the middle of a huge weight loss journey). He told me I'm a catch, I'm soo amazing and self-less, beautiful, giving, kind. And that he will do anything to keep me in his life even if it's just friends without physical contact. He said that I'm not just a hook-up, and I'm not just a friend.. He considers me as one of his close friends which he doesn't have a lot of. I can't understand how someone can be so loving and passionate towards me, the way he holds me and wraps his arms around me at night and stares at me and kisses my forehead. And, we don't even have physical contact every time we see each other. I know that he is not over his ex, who is probably the first girl he ever has fallen for, and he feels like he is not in a good position in life. He opens up to me on such deep level and I feel his hurt and his pain. To close it out, everything he wants in a woman, he describes me. We were even a 99% match on the site we met on. Kinda funny to think about but it is that blissful around each other. I'm just utterly confused. I never have pressured him for a relationship nor am I demanding of one or desperate to be in one. I was just letting things flow and be in the moment with him. All this only came out because of a massive hiccup that happened with plans recently and I asked him what was the deal. My question is...do C
