Cancer man, does he like me or just friends?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Stargurl on Tuesday, January 16, 2018 and has 18 replies.
I need help.

Met this cancer man in September for business, i was official through it all stating the reasons why i called and messaged it was strictly business. Hellos and enquiries here and there until November when things changed, he called me to talk about the business plan and we talked for 2 hours.

I tried to go back to business in chats but he would offer to call and we would talk about different things. In December we got closer, we would talk weekly but it would be for long and I’m so comfortable with him. We have spoken about family, friends, parents and a lot more. Well this month we’ve gotten even closer and now we talk every other day and he messages and calls a lot. We’ve talked about exes, family backgrounds and much more, yes we live in different cities so its tough meeting up and he hasn’t asked that yet although he’s said if i come into town we could go out with his friends. I don’t know if he likes me or he’s just being a good friend. We’ve both admitted that whole “you’re the only one who manages to keep me on the phone this long” thing
He likes you but he's married
Posted by saggurl88
He likes you but he's married
LMAOOO!!!

he better not be, he mentioned he wasn’t
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by saggurl88
He likes you but he's married
The sign most prone to undercover douchebaggery. I have quite a few Cancer male friends and even acquaintances, who confide in me for no reason at all about their emotional cheating. They're always developing crushes or falling in love with ANY woman that is kind to them. Kindness is often confused with love for these special children of God.

I like Cancer men. Every cancer dude I knew and know took care of me, but I feel sorry for any woman that dates them. You will be cheated on emotionally. Guaranteed!

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You will be cheated on emotionally, ouch! You sound so sure about this. Although I don’t think he’s married though, with the depth of our conversations I’d have probably picked up on something

Posted by edgelord
@nikkistar lol
I saw this and immediately laughed at the responses.

Posted by aquarius09
Posted by saggurl88
He likes you but he's married
The sign most prone to undercover douchebaggery. I have quite a few Cancer male friends and even acquaintances, who confide in me for no reason at all about their emotional cheating. They're always developing crushes or falling in love with ANY woman that is kind to them. Kindness is often confused with love for these special children of God.

I like Cancer men. Every cancer dude I knew and know took care of me, but I feel sorry for any woman that dates them. You will be cheated on emotionally. Guaranteed!

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So he falls for you and if you kind to him - he will cheat on you emotionally?

Does it make ANY sense???
Posted by Stargurl
Posted by saggurl88
He likes you but he's married
LMAOOO!!!

he better not be, he mentioned he wasn’t
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Men usually don’t ‘mention’ they are married...to the women they pursuing.

But he invited you to spend time with his friends...not bad! Just ask him before or after sex? Lol

He’s interested and enjoys talking to you. I think it’s pretty obvious
Posted by pinkbird03
He’s interested and enjoys talking to you. I think it’s pretty obvious
He just hasn’t said anything to make me think he’s interested, if anything he might say something and then ignore or play on it, He’s acting like he’s taking his time and watching and i am too
Posted by Stargurl
Posted by pinkbird03
He’s interested and enjoys talking to you. I think it’s pretty obvious
He just hasn’t said anything to make me think he’s interested, if anything he might say something and then ignore or play on it, He’s acting like he’s taking his time and watching and i am too
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Cancers do love attention, but they only seek it from those they are interested in. So the longer it lasts, the more interested he is. Anything more than a month is a good sign. However, if you notice anything close to cold behavior, then it’s used to keep distance so he doesn’t feel like he’s giving you the wrong impression. At this point he may even use words to tell you if you aren’t catching onto his hints.

Posted by Gemitati
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by saggurl88
He likes you but he's married
The sign most prone to undercover douchebaggery. I have quite a few Cancer male friends and even acquaintances, who confide in me for no reason at all about their emotional cheating. They're always developing crushes or falling in love with ANY woman that is kind to them. Kindness is often confused with love for these special children of God.

I like Cancer men. Every cancer dude I knew and know took care of me, but I feel sorry for any woman that dates them. You will be cheated on emotionally. Guaranteed!

So he falls for you and if you kind to him - he will cheat on you emotionally?

Does it make ANY sense???
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Lol

Why are so cancer men hated on though
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Stargurl
Posted by saggurl88
He likes you but he's married
LMAOOO!!!

he better not be, he mentioned he wasn’t
Men usually don’t ‘mention’ they are married...to the women they pursuing.

But he invited you to spend time with his friends...not bad! Just ask him before or after sex? Lol

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He’s not married at least for the few months I’ve known and been talking to him. Funny enough he hasn’t spoken about sex yet

Posted by Stargurl
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by saggurl88
He likes you but he's married
The sign most prone to undercover douchebaggery. I have quite a few Cancer male friends and even acquaintances, who confide in me for no reason at all about their emotional cheating. They're always developing crushes or falling in love with ANY woman that is kind to them. Kindness is often confused with love for these special children of God.

I like Cancer men. Every cancer dude I knew and know took care of me, but I feel sorry for any woman that dates them. You will be cheated on emotionally. Guaranteed!

So he falls for you and if you kind to him - he will cheat on you emotionally?

Does it make ANY sense???
Lol

Why are so cancer men hated on though
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I don’t know. Still waiting for that answer.

Join me in waiting...lol
Posted by Stargurl
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Stargurl
Posted by saggurl88
He likes you but he's married
LMAOOO!!!

he better not be, he mentioned he wasn’t
Men usually don’t ‘mention’ they are married...to the women they pursuing.

But he invited you to spend time with his friends...not bad! Just ask him before or after sex? Lol

He’s not married at least for the few months I’ve known and been talking to him. Funny enough he hasn’t spoken about sex yet

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Hopefully he is just a nicest guy! Have fun...
Thought I’d just post here instead of a new thread.

So we have been talking for two months and he’s finally said he likes me.

Haaa finally!

But the downside now is, he wants to call me every second and every day it’s a bit annoying. Do cancer men do this ?

How do i regulate this, I’m starting to feel a bit trapped. Yes I like him but i need the challenge.

I need space to breathe.
Posted by Raakac
Posted by Stargurl
Thought I’d just post here instead of a new thread.

So we have been talking for two months and he’s finally said he likes me.

Haaa finally!

But the downside now is, he wants to call me every second and every day it’s a bit annoying. Do cancer men do this ?

How do i regulate this, I’m starting to feel a bit trapped. Yes I like him but i need the challenge.

I need space to breathe.
Talk to him about it, people should be able to openly talk what they need from one another in relationship, tell him you like him, but you also have things to do, you chose him because you're free to do so and he shouldn't be insecure or scared about it. Try to talk to his emotions the way he'd understand, about the things you do and you're passionate about, about the space you need to make emotions and the bond stronger between you, just open up, if he likes you he'll understand you, our empathy is strong
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You have a point, we’re trying to talk openly about a lot of other things. Just a bit worried about the way he’ll take it , because once i had work early and didn’t pick up the phone as i was asleep and then he text me saying I don’t want to talk to him.

Just don’t know how cancers handle people that aren’t so mushy with their feelings

Posted by Stargurl
Thought I’d just post here instead of a new thread.

So we have been talking for two months and he’s finally said he likes me.

Haaa finally!

But the downside now is, he wants to call me every second and every day it’s a bit annoying. Do cancer men do this ?

How do i regulate this, I’m starting to feel a bit trapped. Yes I like him but i need the challenge.

I need space to breathe.
That's definitely normal lol. My Cancer does this even when he's at work he calls just to sit on the phone, he calls at night if we're not staying with each other just to fall asleep and wake up on the phone lol. I find it cute probably because of my Pisces moon but it can get a bit much. I had a few serious things going on yesterday and just couldn't talk at the moment that he had gotten off of work and wanted to call so I told him about it and let him know I'd call in a bit and he still got offended and his feelings were hurt. We talked about it and I'm sure it hurt his feelings but he's more appreciative of the communication so talk to him about it don't tell him you need space because you'll get more space than you'd like haha but let him know the times you'd be able to talk
Posted by xoxscorpio
Posted by Stargurl
Thought I’d just post here instead of a new thread.

So we have been talking for two months and he’s finally said he likes me.

Haaa finally!

But the downside now is, he wants to call me every second and every day it’s a bit annoying. Do cancer men do this ?

How do i regulate this, I’m starting to feel a bit trapped. Yes I like him but i need the challenge.

I need space to breathe.
That's definitely normal lol. My Cancer does this even when he's at work he calls just to sit on the phone, he calls at night if we're not staying with each other just to fall asleep and wake up on the phone lol. I find it cute probably because of my Pisces moon but it can get a bit much. I had a few serious things going on yesterday and just couldn't talk at the moment that he had gotten off of work and wanted to call so I told him about it and let him know I'd call in a bit and he still got offended and his feelings were hurt. We talked about it and I'm sure it hurt his feelings but he's more appreciative of the communication so talk to him about it don't tell him you need space because you'll get more space than you'd like haha but let him know the times you'd be able to talk
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Lmao at get more space than you’d like. I’d figured.

He’s so sensitive, this one time i got him to explain something openly and he was like he felt drained.

I think letting him know when to talk is ideal and my best bet so far, because it feels suffocating already and I’m inclined to maybe step back a bit he hasn’t asked me to be anything to him yet and i want to go slow.