Cancer man, does he want to be friends, fwb, or date??

Posted by GhostX
My first post was poorly written in a rushed manner so I hope to explain this better and as short as possible.

I am a Scorpio woman who got asked on a date by a Cancer man. When we met for coffee we got along great, had a lot of things in common both positive and negative. The negative being that we both have shitty ex's. After coffee and walking around we both still had our day completely free so he asked if I wanted to just hangout at his place. For a good 3 hours we talked and he asked asked me what I am looking for, I explained to him how I'm not seeking a relationship but I'm not against it either. That I am am looking for a connection with a person based on friendship and loyalty. He agreed that its his view as well, a new person in his inner social circle that he can trust and rely on. As the date went on he was very open to me about his family life. He was very sweet an kept complimenting me on my personality and looks, as the date went on he completely caught me off guard when we were talking. He said " I apologize if I am invading your space but you are so cute" and he kissed me on the forehead. Not a quick forehead kiss but a long one, we stood like that for a while and he kept his face close to mine. Then he broke the silence by saying, "I don't want to weird you out and you don't have to if you don't wanna, but do you want to cuddle?"

Another caught of guard moment, but in the spur of my awkwardness I said "Uh yeah sure, I don't mind". So we cuddled on the couch and watched a movie, no frisky business of any kind just literal cuddling. Fast forward past more talking and laughing and it was time for me to go home since it was boarding on 5pm. Before I let he said how he really enjoyed his time and would love to hangout with me again. He also said " I realize that you said you were looking for friendship and I'm ok with that, I wouldn't want to force you into anything you don't want. So I'm fine with being friends, but when we do hangout again if I happen to do anything that your not comfortable with let me know and I'll stop" Then we hugged and it was the same as the forehead kiss, longer than usual. So my confusion is wondering what did he mean by he didn't want to force me into anything I didn't want? Is he talking about dating? Or a fwb situation? I'm also confused cause when we were chatting he was saying how he hates when people are not upfront and his example was if someone wanted to just be fwb they should be upfront about it. So why is he not being upfront?

Posted by GhostX
My first post was poorly written in a rushed manner so I hope to explain this better and as short as possible.

I am a Scorpio woman who got asked on a date by a Cancer man. When we met for coffee we got along great, had a lot of things in common both positive and negative. The negative being that we both have shitty ex's. After coffee and walking around we both still had our day completely free so he asked if I wanted to just hangout at his place. For a good 3 hours we talked and he asked asked me what I am looking for, I explained to him how I'm not seeking a relationship but I'm not against it either. That I am am looking for a connection with a person based on friendship and loyalty. He agreed that its his view as well, a new person in his inner social circle that he can trust and rely on. As the date went on he was very open to me about his family life. He was very sweet an kept complimenting me on my personality and looks, as the date went on he completely caught me off guard when we were talking. He said " I apologize if I am invading your space but you are so cute" and he kissed me on the forehead. Not a quick forehead kiss but a long one, we stood like that for a while and he kept his face close to mine. Then he broke the silence by saying, "I don't want to weird you out and you don't have to if you don't wanna, but do you want to cuddle?"

Another caught of guard moment, but in the spur of my awkwardness I said "Uh yeah sure, I don't mind". So we cuddled on the couch and watched a movie, no frisky business of any kind just literal cuddling. Fast forward past more talking and laughing and it was time for me to go home since it was boarding on 5pm. Before I let he said how he really enjoyed his time and would love to hangout with me again. He also said " I realize that you said you were looking for friendship and I'm ok with that, I wouldn't want to force you into anything you don't want. So I'm fine with being friends, but when we do hangout again if I happen to do anything that your not comfortable with let me know and I'll stop" Then we hugged and it was the same as the forehead kiss, longer than usual. So my confusion is wondering what did he mean by he didn't want to force me into anything I didn't want? Is he talking about dating? Or a fwb situation? I'm also confused cause when we were chatting he was saying how he hates when people are not upfront and his example was if someone wanted to just be fwb they should be upfront about it. So why is he not being upfront?

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