Cancer man got arrested

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by aquaglass on Tuesday, July 24, 2018 and has 19 replies.
Things has been going good lately, till his phone went off last Thursday.

Then on Saturday, i got an email from him asking me for my phone number.

He called and told me that he went to jail for two days but now he got released on bail but still has to attend the court this Friday.

After the call, i searched on the internet and found news about him for large drug arrest. It appeared on tv too.

We still talking constantly. Things actually has been better than ever this year, he told his parents and family about me and they approved me. They willing to be a sponsor and offer their place for me to stay if i want to go to the US. But then, shit happened.

What kind of drugs? First offense?
Posted by heliumfiasco

What kind of drugs? First offense?
Pot
Just a pot bust. Shouldn't even happen in the years to come. Marijuana is quickly becoming legalized all over the US. Don't trip over some pot. Seriously the tamest thing he possibly could be busted for "drug" wise. He's probably a great grower if he's a Cancer. I love how great these men are with plants!
Posted by OneKnight

It's normal for Cancers to get arrested.
Rudeeeee LOL
Posted by AbbyNormal

Just a pot bust. Shouldn't even happen in the years to come. Marijuana is quickly becoming legalized all over the US. Don't trip over some pot. Seriously the tamest thing he possibly could be busted for "drug" wise. He's probably a great grower if he's a Cancer. I love how great these men are with plants!
He is a grower and has been doing it for almost 10 years now. I can tell he's good with it though.
Posted by AbbyNormal

Just a pot bust. Shouldn't even happen in the years to come. Marijuana is quickly becoming legalized all over the US. Don't trip over some pot. Seriously the tamest thing he possibly could be busted for "drug" wise. He's probably a great grower if he's a Cancer. I love how great these men are with plants!
Tell that to the person that paid for his bail, he still has to appear in court (if he doesn't there will be a warrant for his arrest + the person that paid the bail bondsman will be liable for the balance owed; probably have his/her wages garnished). Believe you me, I watch Judge Judy.

For OP, sounds as if you're "non nonchalant" about this. Are you a mail order bride? Sponsor? You're obviously not a U.S. citizen and awaiting said "sponsor" Good call on this dude being your "sponsor" the gates are wide open for you to come thru.

Good luck.

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Love,

Eva
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Posted by AbbyNormal

Just a pot bust. Shouldn't even happen in the years to come. Marijuana is quickly becoming legalized all over the US. Don't trip over some pot. Seriously the tamest thing he possibly could be busted for "drug" wise. He's probably a great grower if he's a Cancer. I love how great these men are with plants!
Tell that to the person that paid for his bail, he still has to appear in court (if he doesn't there will be a warrant for his arrest + the person that paid the bail bondsman will be liable for the balance owed; probably have his/her wages garnished). Believe you me, I watch Judge Judy.

For OP, sounds as if you're "non nonchalant" about this. Are you a mail order bride? Sponsor? You're obviously not a U.S. citizen and awaiting said "sponsor" Good call on this dude being your "sponsor" the gates are wide open for you to come thru.

Good luck.

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Love,

Eva
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He got a lawyer and everything is handled well now. I sure am not a mail order bride.

We've been into each others for 6 years. Lol. Smh 😅

It is just, if he wants to marry me just like he said, there are documents that we need to provide for a K1 visa. So i can get married and move there and we don't have to be in a long distance shit anymore.

The thing is. He doesn't have any employment documents or bank accounts or such because he works in marijuana industry.

So, to make things easier for the relocation process and since his parents support us to be together, he said that either his mom / dad is possibly to be the one who helps us with the sponsorship documents and such.

I have my own job, and i can work from anywhere i want. I don't really need them to support me financially whatsoever. It's just for the legal process thing.

We have talked about him being the one who moved in to my country, but for some reasons it would be easier and better if it's me to relocate there, job and skill wise.
Posted by ASCoppVenus

This is not a normal situation but ok.
Sure not. It's a hell kinda situation
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Posted by aquaglass

Posted by ASCoppVenus

This is not a normal situation but ok.
Sure not. It's a hell kinda situation
Yeah. I guess, just look after yourself and be careful?
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Will do, thank you! I won't make any big decision (married, relocating) before we meet again in person. It has been a while since our last.

And not before i visit his family there. I plan to go to the US for a short trip, hopefully this year with tourist visa and without any sponsorship. He said he gonna take me to his family.

Plus he needs to meet my family first before we really do it. So yeah it's not gonna be an overnight decision, but he has been wanting it so bad.
Call me a prude but why in the hell would you consider a drug dealer as a potential partner. Is it really that bad out there.
Posted by tiki33

Call me a prude but why in the hell would you consider a drug dealer as a potential partner. Is it really that bad out there.
I thought so too myself! And it's devastating to think about really, but he is getting out of the business now. I'd like to just see how things going, i'm not in hurry to marry anybody here. It's him who talked about it.

I'd give him a chance if he proves that he is out of that business soon. But if he is not, no girl. I probably love him much, but i will move on.

Thank you for the thought!
As someone who just had a family member get arrested for something way worse than growing pot... and family membets who have been arrested on drug charges....there are a few things you need to consider:

This is a felony in most states, marijuana is still illegal federally. Growing it is worse then a simple possession.

What does this mean? Well, he had bond. Which means he now has a bonds man on his tale. Ever hear of bounty hunters? If he misses a court date or tries to skip out for any reason, he is going to have a bounty hunter after him.

The lengthy legal battle doesnt just happen in the court room. There are other things that happen before and after that need to be done. Fees to be paid. Etc.

If he does get convicted there is jail time. He will loose certain rights he once had now that he is a convicted felon. He will also have it on his permanent record that will effect him getting a job.

These are all things to consider before you up root yourself to move to a different country for him now.

Posted by nanobot

Its just pot
Yes, pot isn't a big deal but the legal shit storm and the fall out from it all is what is going to suck. It's sad.
Posted by aquaglass

Posted by EvatheDiva52

Posted by AbbyNormal

Just a pot bust. Shouldn't even happen in the years to come. Marijuana is quickly becoming legalized all over the US. Don't trip over some pot. Seriously the tamest thing he possibly could be busted for "drug" wise. He's probably a great grower if he's a Cancer. I love how great these men are with plants!
Tell that to the person that paid for his bail, he still has to appear in court (if he doesn't there will be a warrant for his arrest + the person that paid the bail bondsman will be liable for the balance owed; probably have his/her wages garnished). Believe you me, I watch Judge Judy.

For OP, sounds as if you're "non nonchalant" about this. Are you a mail order bride? Sponsor? You're obviously not a U.S. citizen and awaiting said "sponsor" Good call on this dude being your "sponsor" the gates are wide open for you to come thru.

Good luck.

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Hug cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
He got a lawyer and everything is handled well now. I sure am not a mail order bride.

We've been into each others for 6 years. Lol. Smh 😅

It is just, if he wants to marry me just like he said, there are documents that we need to provide for a K1 visa. So i can get married and move there and we don't have to be in a long distance shit anymore.

The thing is. He doesn't have any employment documents or bank accounts or such because he works in marijuana industry.

So, to make things easier for the relocation process and since his parents support us to be together, he said that either his mom / dad is possibly to be the one who helps us with the sponsorship documents and such.

I have my own job, and i can work from anywhere i want. I don't really need them to support me financially whatsoever. It's just for the legal process thing.

We have talked about him being the one who moved in to my country, but for some reasons it would be easier and better if it's me to relocate there, job and skill wise.
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GOOD LUCK LITTLE ONE.

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Hug cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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Posted by tiki33

Call me a prude but why in the hell would you consider a drug dealer as a potential partner. Is it really that bad out there.
I thought so too myself! And it's devastating to think about really, but he is getting out of the business now. I'd like to just see how things going, i'm not in hurry to marry anybody here. It's him who talked about it.

I'd give him a chance if he proves that he is out of that business soon. But if he is not, no girl. I probably love him much, but i will move on.

Thank you for the thought!
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Bad time to quit the buisness. Pot industry is blowing up.
Posted by aquaglass

He doesn't have any employment documents or bank accounts or such because he works in marijuana industry.



I want to carry his babies , what a hunk 😍😍😍
I did a Google search, and found an image of him from jail.

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Posted by Effortless

I did a Google search, and found an image of him from jail.

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Omg 😂😂😆