Cancer man/Pisces me. So hard to understand. Breakup advise needed
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Melloball on Sunday, December 25, 2016 and has 9 replies.
Met this Cancer man online. We met and we exploded. I've never felt so swept off my feet. It was almost unreal. It was an incredible 2 months of my life. It was short but it seemed like it was much longer than that. At the very beginning of the relationship we started out with total honesty from me. I thought doing that will create trust and I am who I am.
I am a giver. Well I'm a Pisces.
I gave him everything a woman can ever give to a man. He told his family about me. Not his kids yet. That was to come later. I met his colleagues. He met my kids. It truly believed he loves me and I do love him back. The chemistry is fairy tale like.
My Christmas present for him was to cater to his entire staff at his place. I executed it with grace and perfection. I worked on it for an entire week of baking and cooking.
He left me the day after the party.
Saying he wasn't ready for a committed relationship. That I would want him to be with me in a couple of years and he won't be ready to at that time. That we are in different parts of life and love isn't enough.
Right before the holidays. He left me. Right after I slaved away for the party.
I don't think the breakup was planned. We made reservations for New Years. We booked a place for New Years.
He was still playing an app game with my daughter a couple days before break up.
I'm confused. Felt used.
He bought Christmas presents for me and my children. I gave them all back the next day he left me. I'm not a charity case.
It's been a week since the break up.
I deleted him from Facebook. I never texted or called or emailed.
Learned about this no contact rule
I never heard from him.
Help!!! Any advises will be greatly appreciated.
I am upset. Anger is gone. I miss him. Not sure if he will be back. He was adamant about the break up
I am a giver. Well I'm a Pisces.
I gave him everything a woman can ever give to a man. He told his family about me. Not his kids yet. That was to come later. I met his colleagues. He met my kids. It truly believed he loves me and I do love him back. The chemistry is fairy tale like.
My Christmas present for him was to cater to his entire staff at his place. I executed it with grace and perfection. I worked on it for an entire week of baking and cooking.
He left me the day after the party.
Saying he wasn't ready for a committed relationship. That I would want him to be with me in a couple of years and he won't be ready to at that time. That we are in different parts of life and love isn't enough.
Right before the holidays. He left me. Right after I slaved away for the party.
I don't think the breakup was planned. We made reservations for New Years. We booked a place for New Years.
He was still playing an app game with my daughter a couple days before break up.
I'm confused. Felt used.
He bought Christmas presents for me and my children. I gave them all back the next day he left me. I'm not a charity case.
It's been a week since the break up.
I deleted him from Facebook. I never texted or called or emailed.
Learned about this no contact rule
I never heard from him.
Help!!! Any advises will be greatly appreciated.
I am upset. Anger is gone. I miss him. Not sure if he will be back. He was adamant about the break up
Met someone else or the ex came back. Sorry
Sorry about that Pisces lady. There is always alot of unspoken things between Cancer's and Pisces and it always arises in problems that shouldn't be there.
Honestly deep down he could have been really moved by you and your giving nature but might be afraid to get attached in a level where he REALLY is. This could also just be a test to see if you really love him. Cancers will act like things are over in order to see if we really meant that much. You should just take some of his words as bluffing and him hoping you see through it.
Honestly deep down he could have been really moved by you and your giving nature but might be afraid to get attached in a level where he REALLY is. This could also just be a test to see if you really love him. Cancers will act like things are over in order to see if we really meant that much. You should just take some of his words as bluffing and him hoping you see through it.
Posted by SofiaV87could be that as well, an ex that you were really into can cause people to give up on the the current person they are involved.
Met someone else or the ex came back. Sorry
Posted by TheCanBullknowing his moon we will know for sure.
He used you
Posted by HighTide100%Posted by SofiaV87could be that as well, an ex that you were really into can cause people to give up on the the current person they are involved.
Met someone else or the ex came back. Sorryclick to expand
Well i know the connection between cancer and pisces can be crazy, felt that. You shouldn't even ask yourself or others why he did this, because no matter what anyone says you'll never know 100% one he does, maybe he told you the truth maybe not, but the thing is now, you're not together anymore. I'd say find something to love, i'm not talking about the person, i'm talking about the activity, doing something, find something that you love so much, the thing that feeds you so much, that you don't even notice the shit that you're missing out on, throw yourself fully to that activity, invest in yourself. Love isn't the only thing in relationship, if there's no trust, no respect and no understanding you shouldn't go back to relationship like that. He left you, you should have enough self respect to walk away from such a person.Think of this relationship like it was an investment in yourself, that man isn't going to bother you again, he's not going to hurt you again and he didn't really did anything good for y , you invested and got rid of the bad person from your life, sure you sacrificed 2month's but others sacrifice 20-30years and go part ways, keep your head held high.
Thank you everyone for your input. Moving on is hard. But it is what it is. There's hope in me but you're right it's better to let go. If someone loves you they will never hurt you. 
Posted by MelloballIf someone loves you, trusts you and respects you they would never leave, people hurt you, but the right ones don't leave you, they work with you, the flaws and everything, they talk, they discuss things rather than argue, that's the difference, people discuss to get to know things and the best thing to do while arguing is ego thing that wants to prove he's wrong, he doesn't care about the truth, to much fixated on himself.
Thank you everyone for your input. Moving on is hard. But it is what it is. There's hope in me but you're right it's better to let go. If someone loves you they will never hurt you.
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