Cancer man possessive but doesn't like you?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Piscesbabyyygemcrazy on Wednesday, May 29, 2024 and has 6 replies.
I really feel like I'm going mad trying to figure out whats going on with this cancer man. (Im a Pisces women)

I go to this bar often, this new guy started working there. Super sweet, cute, charming. We would talk all the time when I went in. Started to flirt harder and Harder. He finally asked for my number but never used it. We made-out once.

He would asked me to hang out when his shift ends then cancel MINS before it was over saying hes busy.(Everytime time! (5x)) He would ask me all the time and say why don't I text him? When I tried, he would keep it very VERY short or just like the message. THEN when I see him again he just ask "why don't you text me? "🫠

This went on for months, So eventually I moved on, cause I don't chase or like mind games. We are still friends but i accepted he just doesnt like me. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Only EVERYTIME I start to flirt or talk to someone he would jeopardize it instantly, IN ANYWAY HE COULD! Well I start dating/talking to a mutual friend we had. We'd all hang out but he would be Deliberately And Belligerently possessive! LITERALLY pushing people out the way to sit or lay with me, it was very uncomfortable for all of us! When I told him he doesn't even want me so what are you doing? You missed your chance! He said he's just been busy and wants to hang out when he has time.

It's sooooo confusing! He's my friend but idk why put so much effort to keep people away from me and you had your chance and never did anything with it! We have the same friend group so I'm bound to see him. The jealous and possessiveness is wild for someone YOU don't Want 🙃 I never been through something like this
Lol have you asked him why he hasn't asked you out yet?

Cuz if he is bulldoging you he is very interested in you or atleast feels strongly enough to be protective.

I know that might sound wierd to woman, but it's a real thing with guys. It's primal shit.


Lmao I dare you to find out from him why he hasn't asked you out! In private mind you.

Its cancer so you have to cox it out of him rather then go straight to the point. Ask questions and etc. Especially him interupting conversations with other men. Don't say possesive or any other negative words, just interrupting your conversations. Be curious and ask, because it may not be what you think it is!


Lol trust me, the answer to your questions will be very enlighting to you.

lol he's got you doing the crabwalk.


We need placements. When is his birthday?
Is he gengis khan?
Damn. I thought I had another one for my cancer man left me post

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