Cancer man pushes me away

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by moo234 on Sunday, April 9, 2017 and has 2 replies.
This cancer guy is my first boyfriend. We've been together for more than a year till he cut me off.

Actually in a year we broke up for few times and then back together. Everytime we break up its always him being wishy washy about our long distance relationship, about our differences,and sometimes he even said he wasn't sure if he loved me or not. When we back together, he's completely different, being super sweet guy, saying I love you all the time but when we break up, he always pushes me away.

This time we had a big fight and we broke up. I realized my mistake and I asked for apology.

At first he said that he still want to try again but later on he said he's tired and didn't want to continue cause I always gave him cold shoulder, ignoring, our distance (we had a long distance relationships) sucks too.

Usually when we broke up, whenever I send him a text he would always reply. Eventho he still pushed me away like asking me to move on, etc.

This time, when I sent him a text, he didn't reply at all.

I was just soooo confused cause right before we had a big fight, he still hugged me and said how much I meant to him (cause I was the only one that care about him this much - his ex left him for another guy) and how much he loved me, we had a lot of plan together such as visiting his family for thanksgiving, moving to the same city, etc.

What should I do? I really love him and think he's the one.
Go for him... I m in a relationship with a cancer man.. (shared a long distance relationship with him for 2 years).. they are really hard to be dealt with but really worth it..

It needs patience to be with a cancer man. Mine too broke up many times n whenever we got back together he acted really sweet..

Lately a similar situation I faced with him.. we fought.. he broke up and didn't reply to my text... I called him texted him for few days.. n den he talked and said that I don't want anything.. I knew that he loves me. So I told him to "take some more time, but remember that I really love u"... we met like frnds for a month but he said that he doesn't want to be together again.. and aftr few days he asked me for a movie, and we went and there it all sorted without discussing anything...

So go for him.. keep talking to him like a friend..don't force things on him.. he will come back by himself.. because he is just angry and needs some time.. ?? good luck..