Cancer man won't open up :(

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by NaniRo on Tuesday, January 6, 2015 and has 3 replies.
I've been dealing with this cancer guy since July and we've had quite a few ups and down (him being mad at me because of something I said) but we still want to be in each other's lives. I can't seem to get him to open up. If something happened that upset him he won't talk about it, he won't share certain things that happen in his life and I usually find out about it via social media. I must say, this time around, he's not as lovey dovey towards me as before. Idk if he's lost trust in me or needs time, but I would think if he did he would be done with me. I know I love him and he loves because of certain behaviors, but I don't know how to get us back on track. Any advice guys? Thanks!
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Do you ask him or wait for him to tell you?
Ask him which? About why he's upset or what's going on in his life? If I can tell he's upset about I'll ask him if he's OK. He'll say he pissed but refused to elaborate. He only says I'll be ok. I don't ask about things in his life because I wouldn't know they're happening Sad