Cancer man...wtf?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Gemitati on Wednesday, February 14, 2018 and has 56 replies.
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Well...

That’s what I need right now is problem with another man!

Cancer is traveling for his business weekly. He used to make an effort to see me right before he is going to airport to fly to frigging AZ, Utah, OK...

Happens that he is getting so much business now that he said ‘life takes me everywhere but your way...but I promise I’ll see you as soon as I am back home...’

Keeps texting. Reporting on his achievements and while waiting for late dinners at the restaurants...

Today! Oops!

Been sick. Came from a doctor and read all of our messages thinking of you.

Sweetie...I don’t know when I am going to beenback home. Schedule is crazy. Never seen it happened!

I know you need more. Keep looking. I am just not able to keep up with what I promised. Feeling guilty but you do what you have to do...

Like what? We aren’t married to divorce! Just shocked!

It happened once before and he backed up with ‘sorry, been stressed out...all good’...

Thanks! I am just popping my eyes!

Want to yell at him but really...I am a Scorpio camp survivor!

Thanks to him! So I sent nice text but I want to boil him and eat him with beer!

Lmao...what’s that shit?
Posted by PeanutPunch
Ghosted by a make believe Cancer...

At least your neurosis respects the canonical rules.
What? Lmao?

Can you just be real and say what you saying so I can understand? Thanks!
Ok. That’s seriously fucked up. I am happy but...

Happy valentines love. (All other sweet bullshit) and hope soon our paths will cross again...

I sent nice message back...

WTF? Really?
Posted by ManInTheMoon
Yo pusi stank. We habe gud nose frum liek ateing fuud n'shiet. He smelt it frum the moon.
why did that make me laugh - too much sausage ?
Sounds like you come off as needy and you text him too much, and he doesn't have the time deal with it.

In other words, you ain't a priority yet.
Cancer man left me thread for you gem. Almost there lol.
Posted by nikkistar
Sounds like you come off as needy and you text him too much, and he doesn't have the time deal with it.

In other words, you ain't a priority yet.
Agree. I did purposely sent him more than he could read.

Then he sat and read it. And said wow!

Can’t deal with it...

It was fucking last night!!!

This morning he comes back?

I am not used to not knowing where my place is!!! I almost want Scorpio back! 😂😂😂
Posted by Argentum
Cancer man left me thread for you gem. Almost there lol.
Yes! And he is back...
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by nikkistar
Sounds like you come off as needy and you text him too much, and he doesn't have the time deal with it.

In other words, you ain't a priority yet.
Agree. I did purposely sent him more than he could read.

Then he sat and read it. And said wow!

Can’t deal with it...

It was fucking last night!!!

This morning he comes back?

I am not used to not knowing where my place is!!! I almost want Scorpio back! 😂😂😂
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Personally, I would hate being with anyone that needed constant communication all the time. lol

That's why my boyfriend and I work, cause he doesn't expect me to text him 24/7. lol
Posted by ManInTheMoon
Yo pusi stank. We habe gud nose frum liek ateing fuud n'shiet. He smelt it frum the moon.
I am sorry for your inability to pick a clean woman. Maybe you need to invest in custom made nose plug?
Posted by NelsonSacramento
Makes me remember my cancer father, even just 1 month away from his 3rd or 4th wife (dunno already)

he couldn't be alone so he was with another woman on grandma house.

Since he knows i don't care a crap about him he didn't feel bothered that much.
You just have the most happy stories, always.
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Posted by nikkistar
Posted by NelsonSacramento
Makes me remember my cancer father, even just 1 month away from his 3rd or 4th wife (dunno already)

he couldn't be alone so he was with another woman on grandma house.

Since he knows i don't care a crap about him he didn't feel bothered that much.
You just have the most happy stories, always.


For Gemitati i don't mind.
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by ManInTheMoon
Yo pusi stank. We habe gud nose frum liek ateing fuud n'shiet. He smelt it frum the moon.
I am sorry for your inability to pick a clean woman. Maybe you need to invest in custom made nose plug?
https://vocaroo.com/i/s1SYiwKzkdP9
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And a silver tape! Though now I think you need a butt plug as well because when you burp with silver tape on your mouth - you will definitely fart...so...

Wait! You live with smelly bitches so go ahead, burp, fart and shit on a middle of your bed...sorry🤮

Discuisting moron...
Posted by Taniwha
What the fuck am I reading?
You reading a post in Dxp - public forum...
I mean are you really shocked tho?

You fucked him raw within 48hrs of meeting him....

Your married...

Did you really think it was leading somewhere? He’s gonna string you along with these texts until he’s back in town and can dick you down again. This is a smash and dash. Nothing more.
Posted by LadyNeptune
I mean are you really shocked tho?

You fucked him raw within 48hrs of meeting him....

Your married...

Did you really think it was leading somewhere? He’s gonna string you along with these texts until he’s back in town and can dick you down again. This is a smash and dash. Nothing more.
You saying things to me like I don’t know!

Lmao

And if you think man will waste his time on texting me Daily about his family and work and he sees me as his ho - you are dumbass...but I told you that before.

Bite me!
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
I mean are you really shocked tho?

You fucked him raw within 48hrs of meeting him....

Your married...

Did you really think it was leading somewhere? He’s gonna string you along with these texts until he’s back in town and can dick you down again. This is a smash and dash. Nothing more.
You saying things to me like I don’t know!

Lmao

And if you think man will waste his time on texting me Daily about his family and work and he sees me as his ho - you are dumbass...but I told you that before.

Bite me!
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Yep, stringing you along until he can hit it next. I never said anything about you being his ho...but since you brought it up... yep.
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Posted by LadyNeptune
I mean are you really shocked tho?

You fucked him raw within 48hrs of meeting him....

Your married...

Did you really think it was leading somewhere? He’s gonna string you along with these texts until he’s back in town and can dick you down again. This is a smash and dash. Nothing more.
You saying things to me like I don’t know!

Lmao

And if you think man will waste his time on texting me Daily about his family and work and he sees me as his ho - you are dumbass...but I told you that before.

Bite me!
Yep, stringing you along until he can hit it next. I never said anything about you being his ho...but since you brought it up... yep.
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How is dumping someone twice per months is stringing along? Isn’t it an opposite technique?

I am sure I’ll be sorry I’ve asked...
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
I mean are you really shocked tho?

You fucked him raw within 48hrs of meeting him....

Your married...

Did you really think it was leading somewhere? He’s gonna string you along with these texts until he’s back in town and can dick you down again. This is a smash and dash. Nothing more.
You saying things to me like I don’t know!

Lmao

And if you think man will waste his time on texting me Daily about his family and work and he sees me as his ho - you are dumbass...but I told you that before.

Bite me!
Yep, stringing you along until he can hit it next. I never said anything about you being his ho...but since you brought it up... yep.
How is dumping someone twice per months is stringing along? Isn’t it an opposite technique?

I am sure I’ll be sorry I’ve asked...
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He's dumped you twice and your still obsessing?! The thirst is real
Posted by Juliiette
cancers don't like complications. he gave you a green light to find someone else.
And next day he took it back saying hope our paths will cross soon!

I expect him to act mature!

First time I said if you not sure - release me in a wild where I belong.

Don’t remember reply but next day he was saying that he is glad we are ok. Because we are so hot together followed by ‘😘 love’
It’s seems like we both forgot how to be in relashionships due to long time being out of the game!

But it doesn’t seem like he testing me feeling that I testing him but not sure!

Wondering if I said well bye...what would that be?
"Keep looking. I am just not able to keep up with what I promise"



Ouch....he sounds flaky

On to the next one ma'am >>>>>>>>>
Posted by Juliiette
cancers don't like complications. he gave you a green light to find someone else.
Yes he did !
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Juliiette
cancers don't like complications. he gave you a green light to find someone else.
Yes he did !
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We had this conversation and decided to not to see other people...
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Juliiette
cancers don't like complications. he gave you a green light to find someone else.
Yes he did !
We had this conversation and decided to not to see other people...
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Until he said

"Keep looking. I am just not able to keep up with what I promise"

What do you want from him ? He is asking you to look elsewhere
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Juliiette
cancers don't like complications. he gave you a green light to find someone else.
Yes he did !
We had this conversation and decided to not to see other people...
Until he said

"Keep looking. I am just not able to keep up with what I promise"

What do you want from him ? He is asking you to look elsewhere
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Not today...

And no one listening what I am saying here!

Why would a man who is busy up to his eyeballs takes his time to text me after we quietly ended last night?

Is there logic? No!
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Juliiette
cancers don't like complications. he gave you a green light to find someone else.
Yes he did !
We had this conversation and decided to not to see other people...
Until he said

"Keep looking. I am just not able to keep up with what I promise"

What do you want from him ? He is asking you to look elsewhere
Not today...

And no one listening what I am saying here!

Why would a man who is busy up to his eyeballs takes his time to text me after we quietly ended last night?

Is there logic? No!
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...you are not reading between the lines...
You two make each other sound like toys you got tired of playing with. He put you back on the shelf. Occasionally, he'll want to play (have sex) so he'll pick you back up (text you something sweet to keep you interested and make sure you're still there), play with you, throw you back into the toy box.

He's an ass, yes. But, can you blame him? He wanted to have his cake and eat it too. So did you.
Yes to the above two posts

Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Juliiette
cancers don't like complications. he gave you a green light to find someone else.
Yes he did !
We had this conversation and decided to not to see other people...
Until he said

"Keep looking. I am just not able to keep up with what I promise"

What do you want from him ? He is asking you to look elsewhere
Not today...

And no one listening what I am saying here!

Why would a man who is busy up to his eyeballs takes his time to text me after we quietly ended last night?

Is there logic? No!
...you are not reading between the lines...
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And about not reading between lines...lol

Just got a call. Shocker! We’ve called at the very beginning...

‘How was your Valentine?...

What were you doing? (I was working)

How are these weekends for you?

If I am (slightest chance but let’s not keep hopes up and please don’t get too excited sweetie...is a very slight chance) come home and make all the effort to see you even just for a couple of beers - I would’

Don’t make extra effort if you have plans.

Don’t cancel on your life just because it might not going to happen...’

I might be too tired to even squeeze you hard but I am pretty sure I can lift glass of beer and talk...

Sorry. I shouldn’t had said anything unless I am flying already but you like to plan in advance. So just saying. My food is coming and customers are texting and...fuck them...lol

What time you go to bed? I wish you were here...’

I was saying things between but I don’t want to make it too long!

It seemed like he is feeling guilty for being an ass or testing continuing or what?

I was pretty un-excited about this! It messing my brain majorly!

I need to get drunk and send him some idiotic message and keep waiting for my test result...

I know it’s sounds like we are testing for STDs but again...WTF? Maybe he is not a Cancer and his mom forgot his bday due to mental issues? Lol

No! We haven’t talked about parents!

I am just feeling like someone losing brain.

I know stress can do it to people! Fuuuuck! We are an adults...

Ohhh...and ‘food is coming and I’ve irdered potstickers you didn’t like...let me ask for wings...I know you live wings...’

I miss my Scorpio...really! Shit!!!
Posted by TaurusFlower22
You two make each other sound like toys you got tired of playing with. He put you back on the shelf. Occasionally, he'll want to play (have sex) so he'll pick you back up (text you something sweet to keep you interested and make sure you're still there), play with you, throw you back into the toy box.

He's an ass, yes. But, can you blame him? He wanted to have his cake and eat it too. So did you.
I have no complains about that!

I am not marrying him. Play is good!

I just said let’s not play with other toys for health reason and soaring if embarrasement and he was right there.

Then texted me from some shithole that he isn’t grabbing anyone...waking up thinking of me and that’s where ‘good mornings’ come from...

I am OK with anything! I just like his ass!
A day in the life of a Gemini lol

You will probably always have more than one bloke on the go.

Geminis and boredom

Priceless

😳
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Juliiette
cancers don't like complications. he gave you a green light to find someone else.
And next day he took it back saying hope our paths will cross soon!

I expect him to act mature!

First time I said if you not sure - release me in a wild where I belong.

Don’t remember reply but next day he was saying that he is glad we are ok. Because we are so hot together followed by ‘😘 love’
Translation:

"I'm glad you're not making fuss out of this break up and hope we get to meet up again cause sex was good."

He really did tell you to find someone else cause he's not for the relationship and then thought it would still be good to leave door open for sex at some point when he returns so just wanted to sound nice and be clear you understood it the same way...
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And I am OK with that!

I am still ducking married!

The door is open. I am assuming he doesn’t want to walk in in a door that swings 24/7 letting people in and out!

So when I said I will wait and I am not going to ‘look’ for anybody he was not happy but glad...for sure!

I said I need at least a year to figure out my life.

Just wondering what’s with these ‘break up’ shit...maybe he is breaking up with me because he is drinking after exhausting day and in the morning goes like ‘wow! Let’s see if I overdone it?’

Lol
Your so fucking retarded.

You are the biggest liar on earth.

And married. Yeah thats debatable.

You dont even making any fucking sense either.
Posted by MyStarsShine
A day in the life of a Gemini lol

You will probably always have more than one bloke on the go.

Geminis and boredom

Priceless

😳
I don’t know what ‘bored’ is!

I had not been bored once!

My friends when mentioning they are bored I was like - gtfo - there is always sleeping! And it’s my Leo moon lazy af!

I can be a sleep study person! For NASA!

Or book or TV or what ever ya heck!

Bored? Never!!!

Lazy...yeahhhh...
Posted by Cvbab
Your so fucking retarded.

You are the biggest liar on earth.

And married. Yeah thats debatable.

You dont even making any fucking sense either.
Try harder! Your words just flying over my coocoo nest like...what did you say? 😂😂😂
Posted by MyStarsShine
A day in the life of a Gemini lol

You will probably always have more than one bloke on the go.

Geminis and boredom

Priceless

😳
One day I’ll build my retirement home if I have enough blocks! You think? Lmao
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
A day in the life of a Gemini lol

You will probably always have more than one bloke on the go.

Geminis and boredom

Priceless

😳
I don’t know what ‘bored’ is!

I had not been bored once!

My friends when mentioning they are bored I was like - gtfo - there is always sleeping! And it’s my Leo moon lazy af!

I can be a sleep study person! For NASA!

Or book or TV or what ever ya heck!

Bored? Never!!!

Lazy...yeahhhh...
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I meant bored with men lol and the need to have more than one on the go

So Gemini !

Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
He's just not that into you
“My cancer man left me”, a tale as old as time.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
He's just not that into you
Yes! Like you know anything abut it! Lol
Coming from you who dont have a man.::it means a lot of nothing!
I watch too many episodes of broke girls

Because of her avi pic I read everything in that lady accent and I just can’t take this post serious enough to contribute
posted by Gemitati

Fuuuuck! We are an adults...

LMAO. You are soooo far from being adult.
Posted by Juliiette
Posted by UnicornSag
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Juliiette
cancers don't like complications. he gave you a green light to find someone else.
And next day he took it back saying hope our paths will cross soon!

I expect him to act mature!

First time I said if you not sure - release me in a wild where I belong.

Don’t remember reply but next day he was saying that he is glad we are ok. Because we are so hot together followed by ‘😘 love’
Translation:

"I'm glad you're not making fuss out of this break up and hope we get to meet up again cause sex was good."

He really did tell you to find someone else cause he's not for the relationship and then thought it would still be good to leave door open for sex at some point when he returns so just wanted to sound nice and be clear you understood it the same way...


i understood it like this as well.

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We weren’t about het into relashionships due to a several reasons.

However it just happened that communications from him became daily.

We were meeting more often and not by my demands. It was his.

Then stupid 12 hours break ups! By grown ass man! Lol
@Gemitati, what are his planets?

cancer man are week and wishy washy, you will eat him for breakfast smile I think he already sensed this and is secretly excited but a bit scared, because you can get crazy when drunk, you know yourself smile
Posted by Pandora101
@Gemitati, what are his planets?

cancer man are week and wishy washy, you will eat him for breakfast smile I think he already sensed this and is secretly excited but a bit scared, because you can get crazy when drunk, you know yourself smile
Moon vir

Merc can

Ben Gem

Mars vir

Jup Shi’a

Sat cap

Iran Leo

Nep Scorp

TN Leo

Chiron pie

Thanks for any analysis
Posted by nano
Gemitati, that cancer articulated those messages in such a way to manipulate you, keep you hanging on, simultaneously while excusing himself from the "partnership" without being held accountable for anything, and all the while leaving the door still open for sex.

I see him. Do you?
I see! What I don’t see why was I following his lead and scared him shitless but not enough to end the end?

And yes he always knew when I was texting drunk...and laughing about it.

Like ‘lmao sweetly at last night meltdown...I wish I was there...’

shit like that...
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Pandora101
@Gemitati, what are his planets?

cancer man are week and wishy washy, you will eat him for breakfast smile I think he already sensed this and is secretly excited but a bit scared, because you can get crazy when drunk, you know yourself smile
Moon vir

Merc can

Ben Gem

Mars vir

Jup Shi’a

Sat cap

Iran Leo

Nep Scorp

TN Leo

Chiron pie

Thanks for any analysis
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I think the virgo bits in him are cautious and logical.... the cancer bits are the mellow sweet parts, the always texting and wanting to be touched and intimate and sharing.... the Gem venus is flirty..... I think the gem venus and cancer bits love the attention and constant communication..... the virgo bits are the reasonable ones and telling him, dont go there.... but he is evidently happy with the constant communication, I think he is quite lonely and your intensity may scare him, but his cancer bits love it...

its not unheard of, that cancer placements (because they are so sensitive), will give you "freedome", they always think about not "forcing" the other person.....

so my advice: be your intense yourself, dont overanalyse it and dont send too much drunk messages!! the virgo bits dont like drunk women! they want a classy one

you deserve something good after that idiot of scorpio of yours

be intense but sweet and flirty, dont let yourself be too agressive! intensity dont equal agressive, so take note of this

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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Pandora101
@Gemitati, what are his planets?

cancer man are week and wishy washy, you will eat him for breakfast smile I think he already sensed this and is secretly excited but a bit scared, because you can get crazy when drunk, you know yourself smile
Moon vir

Merc can

Ben Gem

Mars vir

Jup Shi’a

Sat cap

Iran Leo

Nep Scorp

TN Leo

Chiron pie

Thanks for any analysis
I think the virgo bits in him are cautious and logical.... the cancer bits are the mellow sweet parts, the always texting and wanting to be touched and intimate and sharing.... the Gem venus is flirty..... I think the gem venus and cancer bits love the attention and constant communication..... the virgo bits are the reasonable ones and telling him, dont go there.... but he is evidently happy with the constant communication, I think he is quite lonely and your intensity may scare him, but his cancer bits love it...

its not unheard of, that cancer placements (because they are so sensitive), will give you "freedome", they always think about not "forcing" the other person.....

so my advice: be your intense yourself, dont overanalyse it and dont send too much drunk messages!! the virgo bits dont like drunk women! they want a classy one

you deserve something good after that idiot of scorpio of yours

be intense but sweet and flirty, dont let yourself be too agressive! intensity dont equal agressive, so take note of this

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Oh, thank you so much for this analysis!

I totally understand!

And I know! Every time I’ll read my drunk text in the morning I would be like...have I written that??? Lol

But he had never showed displeasure.

I’ll think about your suggestions. And ❤️

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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Pandora101
@Gemitati, what are his planets?

cancer man are week and wishy washy, you will eat him for breakfast smile I think he already sensed this and is secretly excited but a bit scared, because you can get crazy when drunk, you know yourself smile
Moon vir

Merc can

Ben Gem

Mars vir

Jup Shi’a

Sat cap

Iran Leo

Nep Scorp

TN Leo

Chiron pie

Thanks for any analysis
I think the virgo bits in him are cautious and logical.... the cancer bits are the mellow sweet parts, the always texting and wanting to be touched and intimate and sharing.... the Gem venus is flirty..... I think the gem venus and cancer bits love the attention and constant communication..... the virgo bits are the reasonable ones and telling him, dont go there.... but he is evidently happy with the constant communication, I think he is quite lonely and your intensity may scare him, but his cancer bits love it...

its not unheard of, that cancer placements (because they are so sensitive), will give you "freedome", they always think about not "forcing" the other person.....

so my advice: be your intense yourself, dont overanalyse it and dont send too much drunk messages!! the virgo bits dont like drunk women! they want a classy one

you deserve something good after that idiot of scorpio of yours

be intense but sweet and flirty, dont let yourself be too agressive! intensity dont equal agressive, so take note of this

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Oh, thank you so much for this analysis!

I totally understand!

And I know! Every time I’ll read my drunk text in the morning I would be like...have I written that??? Lol

But he had never showed displeasure.

I’ll think about your suggestions. And ❤️

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