Cancer Men...???

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by CapricornGirl24 on Friday, February 21, 2014 and has 4 replies.
There's a Cancer guy I've been interested in for a while... but not so much anymore . The reason for that is b/c I think he may be playing games . I heard that if you catch them in game playing or lies & call them out on it , they either stop completely & work on fixing the problem... or they disappear for a while & come back. Or something in that nature. Is that true ?
Posted by CapricornGirl24
There's a Cancer guy I've been interested in for a while... but not so much anymore . The reason for that is b/c I think he may be playing games . I heard that if you catch them in game playing or lies & call them out on it , they either stop completely & work on fixing the problem... or they disappear for a while & come back. Or something in that nature. Is that true ?


Yeah. Call them on it if they're playing games.
Yes , I intend too the next time we see each other . I could've done it last week but there were other people around & I'm not the kind of girl who gets a kick out of making a scene . Let alone , others being in my personal business . But , I found out something about him that doesn't sit well w/ me . He asked me , OUT OF NO WHERE, how my Valentine's day was . And I told him , it was just Feb 14th for me . Which was true . I asked him the same question & he gave me the same answer I gave him . But based off what I saw , he lied to me . Smh.
Posted by CluelessCancer
Posted by CapricornGirl24
Yes , I intend too the next time we see each other . I could've done it last week but there were other people around & I'm not the kind of girl who gets a kick out of making a scene . Let alone , others being in my personal business . But , I found out something about him that doesn't sit well w/ me . He asked me , OUT OF NO WHERE, how my Valentine's day was . And I told him , it was just Feb 14th for me . Which was true . I asked him the same question & he gave me the same answer I gave him . But based off what I saw , he lied to me . Smh.


We mirror. He probably wanted to do something special and you made it seem insignificant. To us love and all things romantic are significant.
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... I'm not sure I understand , lol . Even if that were the case , why not just say whatever he actually meant . I found out he'd asked someone to be his Valentine . That's where the lie comes in , b/c he told me it was just feb 14th for him as well . Clearly , not . I don't really care to know who the girl is , how serious it is or w/e. It goes beyond just the way he treats me in person & me finding out he's doing things like that when he's not in my sight . The whole issue I have , is being lied to . For no reason. And he obv doesn't want me to know about it , but I do . He just doesn't know , yet. The fact that he's gone out of his way to hide it , is what I don't get .

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