Cancer men: big up yourselves

Must be something in the water but I'm being pursued by another cancer. He's my dealer and has a babymum so I'll say nothing else but I did notice a really interesting trait...

Cancer men, when you like someone, are you prone to 'selling yourself up'? Like making a deliberate point of your best traits, or detailing dreams and ambitions you might have to impress somebody?

If you do this, why? Is it about painting yourself in the best possible light, or nerves...or is it literally a macho, confidence thing?

In fact, I only noticed this guy does this when he's around my friends...he talks himself up and it comes like he's trying to seek their approval. And possibly impress them. One on one, he's alot more relaxed.

Lastly...on a scale of 1-10, how much of a new relationship is about the fantasy and anticipation, and when does reality kick in?

I'm seriously debating the sanity of water sign relationships you know. It's not safe out there.

*flounces off to capture a nice roaming Sag*