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Mar 10, 2012Comments: 136 · Posts: 9227 · Topics: 154
OMG!!! What are you guys doing to these women?
Why are they so confused and chasing you long after it's over?
First it's Ohhhh Cancer men, then why hasn't he called me, finally; I HATE CANCER MEN!!
Months later, I hope the new chick dumps him while his car crashes into a tree.
Yet secretly wanting Cancer guy to call her before the car makes contact with bark.
What do you think it is and do you think Cancer men know what they are doing?
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Jun 12, 2013Comments: 391 · Posts: 3020 · Topics: 28
Lunar, honey you added an extra word in... take out the 'cancer' and aren't all penes our cancers, ahem- kryptonite
Rotfl at this post ! Yes they know what they are doing ! Cancers are very luvable, charming, endearing and the ones I've encountered are sexy and very attractive! I don't know if it's the kryptonite so much as what they say and how they treat you when things are good and I believe the shell withdraw is what drives women crazy
Yeah your charm is overwhleming you don't realise till you bring them up in every conversation.
Fml -_-
Never had that piece of kryptonite LOL so I can't tell you how good it is...sigh...
For me it's more his personality and his outlook on life and just about everything. I just love the way he makes me feel and the way he makes me laugh. I also love how he is so strong and he's not whiney or clingy like some other cancers but he does seem to work hard to not appear that way toward me. I know that things bother him but he wouldn't say what and he stays focused. I do wish he would be a little more whiney and clingy because I do want him and all of him so I don't mind if he is a big baby at times. He tries so hard to not appear that way so he deserves to be pampered once in a while.
I don't like how it is a coping mechanism to have to hate somebody in order to get over them. Having enough emotional maturity to know when to walk away and to not have to resort to those ill feelings is a valuable asset. Zen out.
Believe me, I could be a bitchy Gemini when I so choose to be but when a Cancer guy is worthy of my gentle nature I'll soften up my edges and be as cushiony a girl as he wants and needs.
My other male Cancer friends are all womanizers and lady killers because they are very very charming and they know that about themselves. They do like to find girls who won't give them crap or make their lives harder. And it does seem like they have kryptonite penises because these girls be killing themselves over them and swoon left and right. Cancer men attract the most suicidal delusional women I've ever seen. That's because these guys treat them so well they can't seem to know how to act when the guys pull away and cut off their supply of gooey yumminess. Torture them with being nice and then pulling back. It's the perfect mating scheme. Basic laws of psychology to pull back in order to build attraction. If there were none of that, these women would get so bored and feel smothered with all the attention. I know I can't handle clinginess so I'm ok with the distance and the dry spells. I'm ok with his mood swings because I can then go do my own thing. I have my own life to live also.
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Jul 19, 2013Comments: 0 · Posts: 175 · Topics: 13
I don't think its necessarily a Cancer mans charm that does this. Any guy with any sign can charm a girl and if they run away then it can drive any girl nuts. I think it's more about how people go crazy when they can't get what they want and unfortunately cancer men are masters of running away when they feel like it.