cancer men manipulation ?

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AlaniaB
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I think Cancers can be very manipulative.

I am a Scorpio and can be manipulative too, but when I dated a cancer he was much worse than me! Tendency to play the victim or turn the tables and a little economical with the truth.

With him, I kind of called him out on it and we laughed about it. You have to take the good with the bad in everyone really and my cancer ex was incredibly devoted / loyal / loving to me. We're not seeing each other and I am dating someone else, but I know my Cancer ex would do anything for me and genuinely loves me and wants me to be happy.

Not all signs love so deeply! I genuinely feel like my ex would do anything for me or to protect me, even if it hurt him to do it. They are wonderful, loving and devoted creatures but they can be crabby!

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The good: Extremely devoted once you're in. A crab will love the living crap out of you, and make you feel like the most beautiful woman on the planet because you are to him.

The bad: extremely insecure and handles emotions poorly. Can either be really clingy, or constantly pushing you away. Or both.

The ugly: manipulative, emotional vampires that will consume your soul. Constantly walks a tightrope separating functional behaviour from psychosis.
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Posted by Crabra
The good: Extremely devoted once you're in. A crab will love the living crap out of you, and make you feel like the most beautiful woman on the planet because you are to him.

The bad: extremely insecure and handles emotions poorly. Can either be really clingy, or constantly pushing you away. Or both.

The ugly: manipulative, emotional vampires that will consume your soul. Constantly walks a tightrope separating functional behaviour from psychosis.
I'd agree with this.

I had a male cancer friend who dated a woman for about 8 months and fell in love, and it probably took 6 years for him to move on. She forgot him and got on with her life and it was kind of sad to watch, but they broke up because he was clingy!

The Cancer I dated definitely loved and still loves the living crap out of me, almost totally unconditional. It doesn't matter if I look bad or show him the worst of myself, he just loves me more for it. But yes, also an emotional vampire!