Cancer Men & the Love Tank

The last time my Cancer came over it had 2 weeks since we last saw one another and he walked in and as I was professing that I missed him so much he gave me a huge really tight trying to crack my back hug while he was telling me he missed me too. Later we were sleeping and I stirred a bit and rolled over and he reached over and grabbed me and was holding my hand rubbing my palm and it was kinda ticklish/irritating so I tried to pull my hand away but he wouldnt let me. We spent more time together than we usually do. I basically typed these things to say that I think he genuinely missed me and wanted to be close to me.

I was wondering how he can go so long before seeing me again and I think its a matter of him spending time with me, filling his love tank all the way up then going and going (work and family)until his tank is completely empty then he comes for rest, relaxation and a refill. Sometimes it takes longer for his tank to get to E with more or less stress. My male friends are saying thats just a male thing, yall dont want to talk on the phone everyday or be all up under your woman. What's your take on it?

Sounds like you have a Ambivalent Cancer man. Men come in ALL different types. Period. Some LOVE closeness and some don't. You cannot put a label on whether it is a Cancer man from any other man in the zodiac. You stated your Cancer man has a Leo moon and sometimes fire signs have a great fear of fully committing to another. The other person has to be very patient and very stable. So, if he gives you nights of wild, passionate sex and then disappears without warning you may want to monitor his behavior. He may not want to much closeness because of the fear of commitment.

oh my god. this is truly sad.

lol Im not saying he disappears, or doesnt talk to me at all, Im saying he has these real casual "all is well" periods then he has these really clingy moments like the ones I described above. I dont have any problem trusting his intentions and I dont him and hot/cold, I realize that he has ups and downs in which he is sometimes wanting to be more clingy than others until he gets his fill of love and affection then he more or less puts his head into the real world of work and family and away from the dream world of love and affection. I grew up in a military family so I understand the concept that a man's work can honorably take him away from where his heart is invested. And by the same token I think he's still getting used to the idea that he can put himself out there for me. Before he hardly told me that he missed me or called me 3 times in one night now it seems like he's really getting comfortable with doing those things he just doesnt do them everyday.

and I dont see him as hot/cold*

The time we spend is really centered around how much time he spends working and taking care of his family. He works 3 jobs and he basically lives out in the country on the family plot. At first I was skeptical that he really was devoting so much time to work and family, but when he gets some time off and he tells me all he's had to deal with and how tired he is, I can physically see and hear his fatigue and frustration and I know he isnt popping back up because it suits his fancy, he's popping back up because he needs a refuge and bit of vacation. Im more worried that he'll work himself into an early grave than I am that he will misuse me. And we've talked about commitment, his fear of commitment is not that he doesn't want to, its that he doesnt want me to put myself into a situation I'll come to resent. and I can understand that from him because I really HAVE had to sit back and think if I can really take a relationship on this type of schedule or not.

I would like a bit of male feedback on how yall feel about everyday calls and everyday cuddle sessions.

LOve cuddlin i can do that everyday but it can become too routine can cuddle for eternity,lol.