CANCER MEN TURN ONS

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Lil.ladie.taurus on Monday, January 19, 2009 and has 18 replies.
i know this topic has probably been repeated a thousand times.... but i already know what they dont like in a girl.... but what do they LIKE in a girl....
???
Okay, well... im not the most feminine girl, but i am very friendly. And i put in a real effort to talk to him..... but he doesnt seem to want to.. i mean he tried at first, but since he doesn't speak englsih well, and i dont understand spanish, he said he doesnt think its a good idea for us to talk. Cuz our communication is really bad... and i was hurt by that....
Posted by imacancer
What we like in a girl, or what turns us on?
Like in a woman: Feminine women who take care of themselves, high intelligence


That is so true..my cancer man believes there should only be only one masculine in the relationship and it has to be him LOL, simple as that. and apparently my being independent and not clingy on him, he likes that


This is EASY! Short answer: Any girl we can't have!
"Short answer: Any girl we can't have!"
so whats the point of dating then
my cancer told me he thought it was sweet that i made the bed and offered to wash the dishes LOL!!!! these things rather natural (i.e. didnt do it to impress , its everyday stuff) HECK didn't even think he would observe those!! was just fixing up the duvet!! barely tidying up at all!
Well there's one thing I can tell you that we dont like and that's B17cHy people! Girls specifically!
Cancer men loves an old fashion girl with a great sense of humor. U must know how to cook, clean and work on your own. He wants his woman to be sexy ass hell with a fun personality. He loves his space, so place don't cling to him; unlesss he wants u too. He loves adventurous women and a woman that can hold her own. He loves intelligent and ambitious women who can hold the family down. if u r not ALL these things, u can forget it.
...and more
Thats y u need to take time and get to know him. u can be aware when he wants u to be around. Yes it is true we r very indirect people, and that what makes it even more of a challenge to win him over. Listen, learn this man, do not rush things even if he wants to take things a lil faster. Be a friend b4 a lover. once u undestand him, u will be much more aware of his likes and dislikessmile
Food,Food and Food!
Cancershorti, how are we supposed to know when he wants us to cling to him? Cancers are never direct, so it's not like he'll say "Hey I want you to cling to me" and for someone like ME, the leas intuitive female on the planet, I never know when "that time" is.
Oh, he will def let you know when he wants to cuddle with you. He will take your hands and place them on his chest, push you up close to him and have you hold him in your arms all night. That is how you will know.
"A women with Big Breast that can cook = a winner"
this is believed to be so true ..... (come from my own cancer mouth)
but i aint cooking for my cancer just because!! plenty of time for that if we ever, ever get serious LOL
i did make a little bit of breakfast in bed sometimes but yet to cook for full meal as i am soooo busy, barely find the time to even cook for myself!!!
but boy does cancer boys love to cook? even the most ignorant one cooks LOL!!
Culinary skills are a must, dazzle this cancer boy with some new sizzlin recipes my tongue has never tasted.
Girls with glasses = geeky sex appeal.
A girl who appreciates a good cuddle session is always a BIG plus in any cancerian males book whether they want to admit to it or not.
Breasts are always good but a nice thin waste with nice hips and legs....mmmmm smile
This is the right thread to talk about this right!?
-Smiles
Someone who doesn't expect everything to be given to them.
Can survive without me, but pretends she needs me anyway (because she knows how it makes me feel).
Someone who doesn't like to go out more than 2 times a week... if that.
Pretty smile... and a personality that can take the attention off of it.
Great sense of humor. Intelligent. Knows when to be serious, be quiet, start/stop playing... and knows when to let me handle a situation.
Someone who will help me catch up on all the sex I missed out on waiting for her to come along.
A nice body is always a fun thing to play with and look @, but over time all that $ #!t falls apart...
so if your body is the best thing you have to offer... I will stare, and give you the attention you crave.
But I won't have much, if anything, to say.
Broken_Shell....you are an impressive guy...for sure! if all were just like you.....
Very interesting, and I agree.
He loves:
femininity..he loves contemplating how my feet and hand nail polish match. He likes my little pearl earrings and that I always have perfume.
He loves the fact I know how to cook old- style food..grandmother stews and stuff like that. And that I can bake too.
He loves to know Im ironing or cleaning.
He loves dresses and my hair in a bun.
he loves me wearing glasses.
he loves the fact I can lift so much weight at the gym and I still look girlie.
he loves my affection for him , my complimenting, my constant support and my pet calling..
He loves to be mothered , when he whines about a pain he has, or something that happened, and Im there for him.
He loves the fact Im strong and dont depend on him but still play damsel iin distress to make him feel useful
@Broken_shell....wow! very informative indeed =)

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