Cancer mom

So my mom is cancer sun aries moon. And I hate doing this shit but I need advice from fellow cancer women. Ok, so story now. My mom has been seeing my older sister's dad even though he hasn't divorced his wife "yet". This motherfucker hasnt even moved out! Ok now this shit bout to get reaaal insane. So flashback to 1980 whenever the fuck my sis was conceived.... So my mom is 15, my sis dad is 17 and fuck..... Mind you at the time he was dating said "wife" he trying to leave now. So anyway, they fuck my mom turns teen mom 1980 edition and BOOM whaddya know? This bitch never even came to see his daughter born. Let alone help raise her because this negro was in jail! So anyway fast forward through years of my sis being raised by another man (my dad) and now my sister is 30 something with four kids of her own. Now I wont knock him for being a bad gramps because he's been there but my mom is a goddamned fool if she think taking this clown back is worth shit! So what should I do? Should I confront her or sneak like a little snake and set her up on one of those blind dates. This shit is KILLING me, seeing my mom get played like this. Oh and the bd is a cap by the way dont know the other placements but I need to find a way to get them. This cap, cancer paradigm ain't SHIT!

So this is just you guys thing then? Men and women. You like punishing yourselves.... Weird.

Your right but haven't you ever felt that way? Like you want to protect your parents? I think I'll just rustle up my siblings and have a family talk around the table. We don't do well with communication in my family, well meaningful communication anyway.

Posted by Raakac

How about you let grown person make their own choises and mistakes, lol. Want to do good express mom how you feel and confront that guy, not your mom

what im really afraid is this guy is very controlling and has low self-esteem and it seems like he's trying to tailor her life to fit his. I know she's an adult, clearly but when you have a guy like this, who is controlling and negative as her children we should step in and at least provide support. Because right now we're just ignoring the problem instead of trying to talk it out. Trying to compromise.