Cancer Mood Swings.

Yooo how do you guys manage to Go from a cool happy conversation... to bitchy in like 20min.

So my ex date Cancer, we still talk like we always did since we met, yesterday he was invited to a Thanksgiving dinner... and he was still texting me, sending me videos of him, the music, whatever till he went home. but he said he was going to tell me a story about the party when he gets home.

When he got home, he texted me that everybody was surprised bc he was the only one sober at the party with a sad face ( He don't drink) and made a connotation, the sober one, only one sober person and then He made a joke like always about him doing me... and all of a sudden. he says, I wont joke like that anymore, No more sexual jokes. I'm like okay it doesn't bother me, but still up to you. Then I ask him what's wrong, HIM. NOTHING! what's that story about the party you was going to tell me about? HIM. NOTHING, no story. A you okay, what's going on? HIM: Nothing. And i'm still trying to cheer him up like Hey ! you're Awesome the way you are, your my Beast man... Him: I'm just a man.

Then I told him not to feel bad bc he wasn't the only sober, him: Oh! it wasn't that. I'm not upset. I'm happy and I didn't do anything.

Whaaaaaaatthhhhhaaaaaheeeell wrong w this cancer ppl...

Bruhhh! No your not happy and I feel it... Like he completely shut down in a second. he told me GN. I said Gn. And I was sent to sleep without knowing what really went down.

Here's my thoughts

1. Either he is getting feelings for me and he is trying to avoid it. (as he has told me before he doesn't want to get too attach)

2.-He got someone else (maybe a woman who invited him ) and don't want to tell me to avoid hurting me.

3.- He's totally Crazy !

4.- He's Just a Crab and that's how they operate.

5.- He is not into me and he's trying to make me walk out by myself.

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Yooo how do you guys manage to Go from a cool happy conversation... to bitchy in like 20min.

So my ex date Cancer, we still talk like we always did since we met, yesterday he was invited to a Thanksgiving dinner... and he was still texting me, sending me videos of him, the music, whatever till he went home. but he said he was going to tell me a story about the party when he gets home.

When he got home, he texted me that everybody was surprised bc he was the only one sober at the party with a sad face ( He don't drink) and made a connotation, the sober one, only one sober person and then He made a joke like always about him doing me... and all of a sudden. he says, I wont joke like that anymore, No more sexual jokes. I'm like okay it doesn't bother me, but still up to you. Then I ask him what's wrong, HIM. NOTHING! what's that story about the party you was going to tell me about? HIM. NOTHING, no story. A you okay, what's going on? HIM: Nothing. And i'm still trying to cheer him up like Hey ! you're Awesome the way you are, your my Beast man... Him: I'm just a man.

Then I told him not to feel bad bc he wasn't the only sober, him: Oh! it wasn't that. I'm not upset. I'm happy and I didn't do anything.

Whaaaaaaatthhhhhaaaaaheeeell wrong w this cancer ppl...

Bruhhh! No your not happy and I feel it... Like he completely shut down in a second. he told me GN. I said Gn. And I was sent to sleep without knowing what really went down.

Here's my thoughts

1. Either he is getting feelings for me and he is trying to avoid it. (as he has told me before he doesn't want to get too attach)

2.-He got someone else (maybe a woman who invited him ) and don't want to tell me to avoid hurting me.

3.- He's totally Crazy !

4.- He's Just a Crab and that's how they operate.

5.- He is not into me and he's trying to make me walk out by myself.

Were you friends before he became your ex? Are you hoping you guys get back together? Would you be okay if he stops talking with you as much as he does now when he finds someone new? If you do not want to get hurt it sounds like having less contact would be good for you. If you are not emotionally attached to him maybe talking to him this much is no big deal, but if you are attached to him you might end up getting hurt when he stops interacting like he does now. I guess you need to be more worried about yourself then about what he is thinking?

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Yooo how do you guys manage to Go from a cool happy conversation... to bitchy in like 20min.

So my ex date Cancer, we still talk like we always did since we met, yesterday he was invited to a Thanksgiving dinner... and he was still texting me, sending me videos of him, the music, whatever till he went home. but he said he was going to tell me a story about the party when he gets home.

When he got home, he texted me that everybody was surprised bc he was the only one sober at the party with a sad face ( He don't drink) and made a connotation, the sober one, only one sober person and then He made a joke like always about him doing me... and all of a sudden. he says, I wont joke like that anymore, No more sexual jokes. I'm like okay it doesn't bother me, but still up to you. Then I ask him what's wrong, HIM. NOTHING! what's that story about the party you was going to tell me about? HIM. NOTHING, no story. A you okay, what's going on? HIM: Nothing. And i'm still trying to cheer him up like Hey ! you're Awesome the way you are, your my Beast man... Him: I'm just a man.

Then I told him not to feel bad bc he wasn't the only sober, him: Oh! it wasn't that. I'm not upset. I'm happy and I didn't do anything.

Whaaaaaaatthhhhhaaaaaheeeell wrong w this cancer ppl...

Bruhhh! No your not happy and I feel it... Like he completely shut down in a second. he told me GN. I said Gn. And I was sent to sleep without knowing what really went down.

Here's my thoughts

1. Either he is getting feelings for me and he is trying to avoid it. (as he has told me before he doesn't want to get too attach)

2.-He got someone else (maybe a woman who invited him ) and don't want to tell me to avoid hurting me.

3.- He's totally Crazy !

4.- He's Just a Crab and that's how they operate.

5.- He is not into me and he's trying to make me walk out by myself.

Were you friends before he became your ex? Are you hoping you guys get back together? Would you be okay if he stops talking with you as much as he does now when he finds someone new? If you do not want to get hurt it sounds like having less contact would be good for you. If you are not emotionally attached to him maybe talking to him this much is no big deal, but if you are attached to him you might end up getting hurt when he stops interacting like he does now. I guess you need to be more worried about yourself then about what he is thinking?

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We dated for a month but things were going way too fast... during the dating period, he had told me he been burnt before by his last 2 relationships and he was afraid to hurt me, he went through some stressing moments, and he took a time off... and when he came back he apologized and he said he would be happy if we could talk again and be friends. bc he wanted to heal before getting into a relationship. Which I understood and Appreciated " his honesty" so conversations went back to the way they always were since before. He always been extremely open up with me, and he says that's the reason why he talks to me bc he knows He can be himself with me without being judged. And that I'm the only person he has been this open with.

Anyway, yes, I think I got a little too attach, he brought out emotions I didn't feel a long time ago... and the depth of our conversations just makes me get a lil closer. you rarely find a person you can talk the deepest feelings with and we both do that. However, I know if someone comes along in his life... he would do something to make me walk away instead of telling me. But, I hear what you say and my Gut is telling me to start withdrawing. bc, if that happens I know it will hurt me.

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Yooo how do you guys manage to Go from a cool happy conversation... to bitchy in like 20min.

So my ex date Cancer, we still talk like we always did since we met, yesterday he was invited to a Thanksgiving dinner... and he was still texting me, sending me videos of him, the music, whatever till he went home. but he said he was going to tell me a story about the party when he gets home.

When he got home, he texted me that everybody was surprised bc he was the only one sober at the party with a sad face ( He don't drink) and made a connotation, the sober one, only one sober person and then He made a joke like always about him doing me... and all of a sudden. he says, I wont joke like that anymore, No more sexual jokes. I'm like okay it doesn't bother me, but still up to you. Then I ask him what's wrong, HIM. NOTHING! what's that story about the party you was going to tell me about? HIM. NOTHING, no story. A you okay, what's going on? HIM: Nothing. And i'm still trying to cheer him up like Hey ! you're Awesome the way you are, your my Beast man... Him: I'm just a man.

Then I told him not to feel bad bc he wasn't the only sober, him: Oh! it wasn't that. I'm not upset. I'm happy and I didn't do anything.

Whaaaaaaatthhhhhaaaaaheeeell wrong w this cancer ppl...

Bruhhh! No your not happy and I feel it... Like he completely shut down in a second. he told me GN. I said Gn. And I was sent to sleep without knowing what really went down.

Here's my thoughts

1. Either he is getting feelings for me and he is trying to avoid it. (as he has told me before he doesn't want to get too attach)

2.-He got someone else (maybe a woman who invited him ) and don't want to tell me to avoid hurting me.

3.- He's totally Crazy !

4.- He's Just a Crab and that's how they operate.

5.- He is not into me and he's trying to make me walk out by myself.

Were you friends before he became your ex? Are you hoping you guys get back together? Would you be okay if he stops talking with you as much as he does now when he finds someone new? If you do not want to get hurt it sounds like having less contact would be good for you. If you are not emotionally attached to him maybe talking to him this much is no big deal, but if you are attached to him you might end up getting hurt when he stops interacting like he does now. I guess you need to be more worried about yourself then about what he is thinking?

We dated for a month but things were going way too fast... during the dating period, he had told me he been burnt before by his last 2 relationships and he was afraid to hurt me, he went through some stressing moments, and he took a time off... and when he came back he apologized and he said he would be happy if we could talk again and be friends. bc he wanted to heal before getting into a relationship. Which I understood and Appreciated " his honesty" so conversations went back to the way they always were since before. He always been extremely open up with me, and he says that's the reason why he talks to me bc he knows He can be himself with me without being judged. And that I'm the only person he has been this open with.

Anyway, yes, I think I got a little too attach, he brought out emotions I didn't feel a long time ago... and the depth of our conversations just makes me get a lil closer. you rarely find a person you can talk the deepest feelings with and we both do that. However, I know if someone comes along in his life... he would do something to make me walk away instead of telling me. But, I hear what you say and my Gut is telling me to start withdrawing. bc, if that happens I know it will hurt me.

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It can be hard to push a man away when things are going good even when you know he is not committed to you, but a man will easily walk away if he thinks it is not longer practical to keep talking to you. If he is a good guy he may walk away because he does not want to give you false hopes and hurt you. The red flag here was you said he is an ex, so him keeping you around sounds like is just for his own convenience, but I could be wrong.

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Yooo how do you guys manage to Go from a cool happy conversation... to bitchy in like 20min.

So my ex date Cancer, we still talk like we always did since we met, yesterday he was invited to a Thanksgiving dinner... and he was still texting me, sending me videos of him, the music, whatever till he went home. but he said he was going to tell me a story about the party when he gets home.

When he got home, he texted me that everybody was surprised bc he was the only one sober at the party with a sad face ( He don't drink) and made a connotation, the sober one, only one sober person and then He made a joke like always about him doing me... and all of a sudden. he says, I wont joke like that anymore, No more sexual jokes. I'm like okay it doesn't bother me, but still up to you. Then I ask him what's wrong, HIM. NOTHING! what's that story about the party you was going to tell me about? HIM. NOTHING, no story. A you okay, what's going on? HIM: Nothing. And i'm still trying to cheer him up like Hey ! you're Awesome the way you are, your my Beast man... Him: I'm just a man.

Then I told him not to feel bad bc he wasn't the only sober, him: Oh! it wasn't that. I'm not upset. I'm happy and I didn't do anything.

Whaaaaaaatthhhhhaaaaaheeeell wrong w this cancer ppl...

Bruhhh! No your not happy and I feel it... Like he completely shut down in a second. he told me GN. I said Gn. And I was sent to sleep without knowing what really went down.

Here's my thoughts

1. Either he is getting feelings for me and he is trying to avoid it. (as he has told me before he doesn't want to get too attach)

2.-He got someone else (maybe a woman who invited him ) and don't want to tell me to avoid hurting me.

3.- He's totally Crazy !

4.- He's Just a Crab and that's how they operate.

5.- He is not into me and he's trying to make me walk out by myself.

Were you friends before he became your ex? Are you hoping you guys get back together? Would you be okay if he stops talking with you as much as he does now when he finds someone new? If you do not want to get hurt it sounds like having less contact would be good for you. If you are not emotionally attached to him maybe talking to him this much is no big deal, but if you are attached to him you might end up getting hurt when he stops interacting like he does now. I guess you need to be more worried about yourself then about what he is thinking?

We dated for a month but things were going way too fast... during the dating period, he had told me he been burnt before by his last 2 relationships and he was afraid to hurt me, he went through some stressing moments, and he took a time off... and when he came back he apologized and he said he would be happy if we could talk again and be friends. bc he wanted to heal before getting into a relationship. Which I understood and Appreciated " his honesty" so conversations went back to the way they always were since before. He always been extremely open up with me, and he says that's the reason why he talks to me bc he knows He can be himself with me without being judged. And that I'm the only person he has been this open with.

Anyway, yes, I think I got a little too attach, he brought out emotions I didn't feel a long time ago... and the depth of our conversations just makes me get a lil closer. you rarely find a person you can talk the deepest feelings with and we both do that. However, I know if someone comes along in his life... he would do something to make me walk away instead of telling me. But, I hear what you say and my Gut is telling me to start withdrawing. bc, if that happens I know it will hurt me.

It can be hard to push a man away when things are going good even when you know he is not committed to you, but a man will easily walk away if he thinks it is not longer practical to keep talking to you. If he is a good guy he may walk away because he does not want to give you false hopes and hurt you. The red flag here was you said he is an ex, so him keeping you around sounds like is just for his own convenience, but I could be wrong.

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Oh no. he is not an ex boyfriend.... ex date cuz now we are "friends "

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Yooo how do you guys manage to Go from a cool happy conversation... to bitchy in like 20min.

So my ex date Cancer, we still talk like we always did since we met, yesterday he was invited to a Thanksgiving dinner... and he was still texting me, sending me videos of him, the music, whatever till he went home. but he said he was going to tell me a story about the party when he gets home.

When he got home, he texted me that everybody was surprised bc he was the only one sober at the party with a sad face ( He don't drink) and made a connotation, the sober one, only one sober person and then He made a joke like always about him doing me... and all of a sudden. he says, I wont joke like that anymore, No more sexual jokes. I'm like okay it doesn't bother me, but still up to you. Then I ask him what's wrong, HIM. NOTHING! what's that story about the party you was going to tell me about? HIM. NOTHING, no story. A you okay, what's going on? HIM: Nothing. And i'm still trying to cheer him up like Hey ! you're Awesome the way you are, your my Beast man... Him: I'm just a man.

Then I told him not to feel bad bc he wasn't the only sober, him: Oh! it wasn't that. I'm not upset. I'm happy and I didn't do anything.

Whaaaaaaatthhhhhaaaaaheeeell wrong w this cancer ppl...

Bruhhh! No your not happy and I feel it... Like he completely shut down in a second. he told me GN. I said Gn. And I was sent to sleep without knowing what really went down.

Here's my thoughts

1. Either he is getting feelings for me and he is trying to avoid it. (as he has told me before he doesn't want to get too attach)

2.-He got someone else (maybe a woman who invited him ) and don't want to tell me to avoid hurting me.

3.- He's totally Crazy !

4.- He's Just a Crab and that's how they operate.

5.- He is not into me and he's trying to make me walk out by myself.

Were you friends before he became your ex? Are you hoping you guys get back together? Would you be okay if he stops talking with you as much as he does now when he finds someone new? If you do not want to get hurt it sounds like having less contact would be good for you. If you are not emotionally attached to him maybe talking to him this much is no big deal, but if you are attached to him you might end up getting hurt when he stops interacting like he does now. I guess you need to be more worried about yourself then about what he is thinking?

We dated for a month but things were going way too fast... during the dating period, he had told me he been burnt before by his last 2 relationships and he was afraid to hurt me, he went through some stressing moments, and he took a time off... and when he came back he apologized and he said he would be happy if we could talk again and be friends. bc he wanted to heal before getting into a relationship. Which I understood and Appreciated " his honesty" so conversations went back to the way they always were since before. He always been extremely open up with me, and he says that's the reason why he talks to me bc he knows He can be himself with me without being judged. And that I'm the only person he has been this open with.

Anyway, yes, I think I got a little too attach, he brought out emotions I didn't feel a long time ago... and the depth of our conversations just makes me get a lil closer. you rarely find a person you can talk the deepest feelings with and we both do that. However, I know if someone comes along in his life... he would do something to make me walk away instead of telling me. But, I hear what you say and my Gut is telling me to start withdrawing. bc, if that happens I know it will hurt me.

It can be hard to push a man away when things are going good even when you know he is not committed to you, but a man will easily walk away if he thinks it is not longer practical to keep talking to you. If he is a good guy he may walk away because he does not want to give you false hopes and hurt you. The red flag here was you said he is an ex, so him keeping you around sounds like is just for his own convenience, but I could be wrong.

Oh no. he is not an ex boyfriend.... ex date cuz now we are "friends "

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Are you both dating others? I guess you could just go with the flow and see then?

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Yooo how do you guys manage to Go from a cool happy conversation... to bitchy in like 20min.

So my ex date Cancer, we still talk like we always did since we met, yesterday he was invited to a Thanksgiving dinner... and he was still texting me, sending me videos of him, the music, whatever till he went home. but he said he was going to tell me a story about the party when he gets home.

When he got home, he texted me that everybody was surprised bc he was the only one sober at the party with a sad face ( He don't drink) and made a connotation, the sober one, only one sober person and then He made a joke like always about him doing me... and all of a sudden. he says, I wont joke like that anymore, No more sexual jokes. I'm like okay it doesn't bother me, but still up to you. Then I ask him what's wrong, HIM. NOTHING! what's that story about the party you was going to tell me about? HIM. NOTHING, no story. A you okay, what's going on? HIM: Nothing. And i'm still trying to cheer him up like Hey ! you're Awesome the way you are, your my Beast man... Him: I'm just a man.

Then I told him not to feel bad bc he wasn't the only sober, him: Oh! it wasn't that. I'm not upset. I'm happy and I didn't do anything.

Whaaaaaaatthhhhhaaaaaheeeell wrong w this cancer ppl...

Bruhhh! No your not happy and I feel it... Like he completely shut down in a second. he told me GN. I said Gn. And I was sent to sleep without knowing what really went down.

Here's my thoughts

1. Either he is getting feelings for me and he is trying to avoid it. (as he has told me before he doesn't want to get too attach)

2.-He got someone else (maybe a woman who invited him ) and don't want to tell me to avoid hurting me.

3.- He's totally Crazy !

4.- He's Just a Crab and that's how they operate.

5.- He is not into me and he's trying to make me walk out by myself.

Were you friends before he became your ex? Are you hoping you guys get back together? Would you be okay if he stops talking with you as much as he does now when he finds someone new? If you do not want to get hurt it sounds like having less contact would be good for you. If you are not emotionally attached to him maybe talking to him this much is no big deal, but if you are attached to him you might end up getting hurt when he stops interacting like he does now. I guess you need to be more worried about yourself then about what he is thinking?

We dated for a month but things were going way too fast... during the dating period, he had told me he been burnt before by his last 2 relationships and he was afraid to hurt me, he went through some stressing moments, and he took a time off... and when he came back he apologized and he said he would be happy if we could talk again and be friends. bc he wanted to heal before getting into a relationship. Which I understood and Appreciated " his honesty" so conversations went back to the way they always were since before. He always been extremely open up with me, and he says that's the reason why he talks to me bc he knows He can be himself with me without being judged. And that I'm the only person he has been this open with.

Anyway, yes, I think I got a little too attach, he brought out emotions I didn't feel a long time ago... and the depth of our conversations just makes me get a lil closer. you rarely find a person you can talk the deepest feelings with and we both do that. However, I know if someone comes along in his life... he would do something to make me walk away instead of telling me. But, I hear what you say and my Gut is telling me to start withdrawing. bc, if that happens I know it will hurt me.

It can be hard to push a man away when things are going good even when you know he is not committed to you, but a man will easily walk away if he thinks it is not longer practical to keep talking to you. If he is a good guy he may walk away because he does not want to give you false hopes and hurt you. The red flag here was you said he is an ex, so him keeping you around sounds like is just for his own convenience, but I could be wrong.

Oh no. he is not an ex boyfriend.... ex date cuz now we are "friends "

Are you both dating others? I guess you could just go with the flow and see then?

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None of us dating others. that I know off.

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Yooo how do you guys manage to Go from a cool happy conversation... to bitchy in like 20min.

So my ex date Cancer, we still talk like we always did since we met, yesterday he was invited to a Thanksgiving dinner... and he was still texting me, sending me videos of him, the music, whatever till he went home. but he said he was going to tell me a story about the party when he gets home.

When he got home, he texted me that everybody was surprised bc he was the only one sober at the party with a sad face ( He don't drink) and made a connotation, the sober one, only one sober person and then He made a joke like always about him doing me... and all of a sudden. he says, I wont joke like that anymore, No more sexual jokes. I'm like okay it doesn't bother me, but still up to you. Then I ask him what's wrong, HIM. NOTHING! what's that story about the party you was going to tell me about? HIM. NOTHING, no story. A you okay, what's going on? HIM: Nothing. And i'm still trying to cheer him up like Hey ! you're Awesome the way you are, your my Beast man... Him: I'm just a man.

Then I told him not to feel bad bc he wasn't the only sober, him: Oh! it wasn't that. I'm not upset. I'm happy and I didn't do anything.

Whaaaaaaatthhhhhaaaaaheeeell wrong w this cancer ppl...

Bruhhh! No your not happy and I feel it... Like he completely shut down in a second. he told me GN. I said Gn. And I was sent to sleep without knowing what really went down.

Here's my thoughts

1. Either he is getting feelings for me and he is trying to avoid it. (as he has told me before he doesn't want to get too attach)

2.-He got someone else (maybe a woman who invited him ) and don't want to tell me to avoid hurting me.

3.- He's totally Crazy !

4.- He's Just a Crab and that's how they operate.

5.- He is not into me and he's trying to make me walk out by myself.

Were you friends before he became your ex? Are you hoping you guys get back together? Would you be okay if he stops talking with you as much as he does now when he finds someone new? If you do not want to get hurt it sounds like having less contact would be good for you. If you are not emotionally attached to him maybe talking to him this much is no big deal, but if you are attached to him you might end up getting hurt when he stops interacting like he does now. I guess you need to be more worried about yourself then about what he is thinking?

We dated for a month but things were going way too fast... during the dating period, he had told me he been burnt before by his last 2 relationships and he was afraid to hurt me, he went through some stressing moments, and he took a time off... and when he came back he apologized and he said he would be happy if we could talk again and be friends. bc he wanted to heal before getting into a relationship. Which I understood and Appreciated " his honesty" so conversations went back to the way they always were since before. He always been extremely open up with me, and he says that's the reason why he talks to me bc he knows He can be himself with me without being judged. And that I'm the only person he has been this open with.

Anyway, yes, I think I got a little too attach, he brought out emotions I didn't feel a long time ago... and the depth of our conversations just makes me get a lil closer. you rarely find a person you can talk the deepest feelings with and we both do that. However, I know if someone comes along in his life... he would do something to make me walk away instead of telling me. But, I hear what you say and my Gut is telling me to start withdrawing. bc, if that happens I know it will hurt me.

It can be hard to push a man away when things are going good even when you know he is not committed to you, but a man will easily walk away if he thinks it is not longer practical to keep talking to you. If he is a good guy he may walk away because he does not want to give you false hopes and hurt you. The red flag here was you said he is an ex, so him keeping you around sounds like is just for his own convenience, but I could be wrong.

Oh no. he is not an ex boyfriend.... ex date cuz now we are "friends "

Are you both dating others? I guess you could just go with the flow and see then?

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Yeah, going with the flow is not the problem, I was wondering cuz I read a post somewhere in here. that Crabs then to do this shit to kind of test the waters. And I was just wondering if this could be part of the Crab behavior.

By the timing and his response, it seems like he is bummed you weren't receptive enough to his "joke". Maybe he was expecting laughter, a witty comeback or your enthusiastic consent but when that didn't happen he thought he was being inappropriate in some way. He was already sad about something else so further triggers come easily.

It was nothing YOU did, it was his own crap. And not a test lol.

No one has time for games and constant overwhelming emotions that go against logic. I dont bother with that mess.