hi, my boyfriend (who is a cancer) forgot my birthday, I was devastated and i told him about my feelings, He apologize and said that he know very well my birthday, he just didnt notice that the day was already that day, then we met for a talk after my birthday,and I was cold and distant. told him my hurts, and I told him about his ex, when he use to share that, he activates his facebook to greet her a happy bday. He said that was along time ago, and I should not be obsessed about it.I cried and told him how important bdays are for me. Then, we had a walk, and told him to move on with the issue, I think I hurt his feelings because his eyes was teary, but he was still warm and expressive, until he change his mood after I SAY are we off? I thought we will go for a dinner, yet he wants to go home with a heavy face. KNOWING him, I FELT LIKE he is very mad.. I dont know whats going on in his mind, then, he suddenly pulls away the next day and gone cold. He was distant. I apologize if I hurt his ego on the argument, and he was apologetic saying it was his fault, and that he is not good enough. I resolved to say i FORGIVE YOU, and lets not make it too personal and start focus on the love. lets forgive each other,we hug,kiss, caress and he was okay. BUT i SENSE HIM that he is still cold and just passive aggressive, He text only once, for a start, and when you reply, he will not answer back. HOW CAN I MAKE THIS MAN FORGIVE ME AND JUST START A CLEAN SLATE AGAIN?? somebody help.
