Posted by CheeseburgerThank you Cheeseburger that was quite helpfulŠ Just to clarify I'm talking about my friend who is Gem with Cancer Venus and he used to like me but as he put "things did not happen" strangely though over the years we have grown closer and have a great connection. I wonder if he still has those feelings for me maybe buried deep down? He always responds within mns of my texts and we often text all day and sometimes late into the night about everything. He has been more open with me then even my ex of 4 years, plus he always asks if I'm seeing anyone and we always meet up just us for Lunch, drinks whatever. What do you think, does he still have feelings for me possibly even love? I feel I do love him as I have never cared for any man like this before
Not sure if my input is going to be helpful to you or not, but just going to write about it anyway. Maybe it will be helpful to you.
Anyway, I'm Cancer sun / Cancer Venus (Sag Moon + Scorp Mars)
she is Gemini sun / Gemini Venus (Libra Moon + Aries Mars).
As a Venus in cancer, it didn't take me long to figure out that I like her and she's lovely and all of that stuff, but we're just not going in the same direction in our lives and I decided to not invest any more emotions in that relationship.
For a Venus in Gemini, it took her a while to figure out that i'm so awesome; and after we had a talk about our future, or lack of it, she still decides to invest emotionally. And I don't mean that Mars in Aries pursue everything they cant have sort of pursuit. She's emotionally invested and keeps investing, deeply and tragically.
I keep controlling the situation. I don't really want to hurt her; its just unnecessary, by telling her my perspective in a sobering yet respectful way. That usually corrects things for a day or two; or a week or so, and then I screw it all up by being too nice/cute/adorable, and we're back to square one to do it all over again.
Long story short, You can correct your situation, gain back their trust, build a foundation for a strong friendship, and it will just take an unconscious action from you, a touch, a smirk or god knows what, to screw it up.
I think it's one of the few situations that if you care about yourself, then keep experimenting till you get there, but if you care about them, just then let them go and be. It's a touch unfair to them.
Posted by WestsidekodakWell I'm not sure which one you are inquiring about but it's my friend who has this placement and I'm just trying to figure out his feelings for me since I get a lot of mixed msgs and cryptic msgs from him. As a Cancer I go with my gut and there is the challenge, do I listen to my instincts or him insisting I am just a friend...what would I look out for to truly know?Posted by Moonbutterhun.... is this about the gemini?
After you have been heart in the past how can someone gain your trust and would you prefer to start out with a really strong friendship? Do you give lots of mixed msgs when you like someone but are scared? How do you act when you have deep feelings for someone but can't be with them?click to expand
Posted by M00NchildOh I see MOONchild, thank u Š I didn't realize I put heart instead of hurt. Hmm wait are you saying you will just be distant friends with someone you have feelings for? What do u mean by distant? How does that evolve into a relationship, do you open your self more, communicate more? Are there signs? Thank you, btw.
A strong friendship is a good way to begin regaining trust, as long as it's understood that it's going to take time and effort to do so.
No, I don't give mixed messages.
I remain distant friends, unless the person I have feelings for doesn't want to.
Also, he said he'd "heart them back" because of the typo in your original post.
Posted by BlackNovaOh lol you are right! Dang it!Posted by MoonbutterA comma in the title would've helped.
Just to clarify I'm talking about my friend who is Gem with Cancer Venus
I read it as Cancer with Venus Gemini
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I have no other comment to make...LOLclick to expand
Posted by incandescentcancerThat can't be for every pair..otherwise there wouldn't be any successful gem/cancer relationships and I know there are.
Cancers and Geminis shouldn't attempt to be more than friends, it can only end tragically.
Posted by CheeseburgerHow do I go for it in a subtl manner? I am his best girPosted by MoonbutterJust go for it. Nothing there to analyze. Just be subtle about it till you have better visibility on his position.Posted by CheeseburgerThank you Cheeseburger that was quite helpfulŠ Just to clarify I'm talking about my friend who is Gem with Cancer Venus and he used to like me but as he put "things did not happen" strangely though over the years we have grown closer and have a great connection. I wonder if he still has those feelings for me maybe buried deep down? He always responds within mns of my texts and we often text all day and sometimes late into the night about everything. He has been more open with me then even my ex of 4 years, plus he always asks if I'm seeing anyone and we always meet up just us for Lunch, drinks whatever. What do you think, does he still have feelings for me possibly even love? I feel I do love him as I have never cared for any man like this before
Not sure if my input is going to be helpful to you or not, but just going to write about it anyway. Maybe it will be helpful to you.
Anyway, I'm Cancer sun / Cancer Venus (Sag Moon + Scorp Mars)
she is Gemini sun / Gemini Venus (Libra Moon + Aries Mars).
As a Venus in cancer, it didn't take me long to figure out that I like her and she's lovely and all of that stuff, but we're just not going in the same direction in our lives and I decided to not invest any more emotions in that relationship.
For a Venus in Gemini, it took her a while to figure out that i'm so awesome; and after we had a talk about our future, or lack of it, she still decides to invest emotionally. And I don't mean that Mars in Aries pursue everything they cant have sort of pursuit. She's emotionally invested and keeps investing, deeply and tragically.
I keep controlling the situation. I don't really want to hurt her; its just unnecessary, by telling her my perspective in a sobering yet respectful way. That usually corrects things for a day or two; or a week or so, and then I screw it all up by being too nice/cute/adorable, and we're back to square one to do it all over again.
Long story short, You can correct your situation, gain back their trust, build a foundation for a strong friendship, and it will just take an unconscious action from you, a touch, a smirk or god knows what, to screw it up.
I think it's one of the few situations that if you care about yourself, then keep experimenting till you get there, but if you care about them, just then let them go and be. It's a touch unfair to them.click to expand
Posted by WestsidekodakOhhhh no we are completely done. This is about another Gem we have been friends several years.Posted by MoonbutterThe gemini you kinda dated for a while lol is it him?Posted by WestsidekodakWell I'm not sure which one you are inquiring about but it's my friend who has this placement and I'm just trying to figure out his feelings for me since I get a lot of mixed msgs and cryptic msgs from him. As a Cancer I go with my gut and there is the challenge, do I listen to my instincts or him insisting I am just a friend...what would I look out for to truly know?Posted by Moonbutterhun.... is this about the gemini?
After you have been heart in the past how can someone gain your trust and would you prefer to start out with a really strong friendship? Do you give lots of mixed msgs when you like someone but are scared? How do you act when you have deep feelings for someone but can't be with them?click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterWell people win the lotto too but that doesn't get me excited about the odds. This pair is basically bad, since Gemini is the 12th sign to Cancer, signs next to eaachother bring attraction but they are a bad combination always.Posted by incandescentcancerThat can't be for every pair..otherwise there wouldn't be any successful gem/cancer relationships and I know there are.
Cancers and Geminis shouldn't attempt to be more than friends, it can only end tragically.click to expand
Posted by CheeseburgerHaha I like your list› I think we did everything except #4 although coming back from dinner and drinks he wanted to come inside my place but I had a roommate with a young child and she didn't want guys in there. And #6 he won't add me on FB • But I did hang out with his friends and his best friend was teasing him cuz he gave me. Big bear hug from behind lol. That was years ago though so I dunno if the feelings are still there... Do the feelings linger even years later with a Venus in Cancer?Posted by MoonbutterDunno, thinking out loud.Posted by CheeseburgerHow do I go for it in a subtl manner? I am his best girPosted by MoonbutterJust go for it. Nothing there to analyze. Just be subtle about it till you have better visibility on his position.Posted by Cheeseburger.
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1 - Excessive hugs.
2 - let him catch you staring at him.
3 - Do something wrong together.
4 - Invite him to your bedroom for a chat, and just chat (be non sexual non romantic intimate with him)
5 - Do something you shouldn't with him and blame it on being drunk / high.
6 - Posting pics in fb with you two close. (His friends will try talking to him about you two and will tease him to death)
1 - 6 could all be wrong. I never been a girl trying to subtly seduce someone.
Unfriendzone him!click to expand
Posted by incandescentcancerOhh haha no not infatuated it's been like 7 years I've gone through many phases in my feelings for him... Now I'm kinda cruising I actually have genuine love for him because I want him to be happy even if it means not with me. He's just, well he's my Unicorn ☺ï¸Posted by MoonbutterWell people win the lotto too but that doesn't get me excited about the odds. This pair is basically bad, since Gemini is the 12th sign to Cancer, signs next to eaachother bring attraction but they are a bad combination always.Posted by incandescentcancerThat can't be for every pair..otherwise there wouldn't be any successful gem/cancer relationships and I know there are.
Cancers and Geminis shouldn't attempt to be more than friends, it can only end tragically.
I know that you're probably infatuated with this person and at the moment won't listen to anyone saying this isn't going to work, so good luck.click to expand
Posted by WestsidekodakWell I am Cancer with Sag Moon so who would you suggest?Posted by Moonbutter0.o wut. These gems are killing you. You need someone who fits your moon and sunPosted by WestsidekodakOhhhh no we are completely done. This is about another Gem we have been friends several years.Posted by MoonbutterThe gemini you kinda dated for a while lol is it him?Posted by WestsidekodakWell I'm not sure which one you are inquiring about but it's my friend who has this placement and I'm just trying to figure out his feelings for me since I get a lot of mixed msgs and cryptic msgs from him. As a Cancer I go with my gut and there is the challenge, do I listen to my instincts or him insisting I am just a friend...what would I look out for to truly know?Posted by Moonbutterhun.... is this about the gemini?
After you have been heart in the past how can someone gain your trust and would you prefer to start out with a really strong friendship? Do you give lots of mixed msgs when you like someone but are scared? How do you act when you have deep feelings for someone but can't be with them?click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterDon't try to score the exceptions. That's what people try to do, fail and feel worse off. The reality is that you have to go for those things that have the best odds of success, so broaden your scope and look at all the other guys around in your circle.Posted by incandescentcancerOhh haha no not infatuated it's been like 7 years I've gone through many phases in my feelings for him... Now I'm kinda cruising I actually have genuine love for him because I want him to be happy even if it means not with me. He's just, well he's my Unicorn ☺ï¸Posted by MoonbutterWell people win the lotto too but that doesn't get me excited about the odds. This pair is basically bad, since Gemini is the 12th sign to Cancer, signs next to eaachother bring attraction but they are a bad combination always.Posted by incandescentcancerThat can't be for every pair..otherwise there wouldn't be any successful gem/cancer relationships and I know there are.
Cancers and Geminis shouldn't attempt to be more than friends, it can only end tragically.
I know that you're probably infatuated with this person and at the moment won't listen to anyone saying this isn't going to work, so good luck.click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterGo for those men with prominent Jupiter, Mars or sun placement. Also it would be good for you to have partner to have bit more water or earth than you do, that should set you up nicely.Posted by WestsidekodakWell I am Cancer with Sag Moon so who would you suggest?Posted by Moonbutter0.o wut. These gems are killing you. You need someone who fits your moon and sunPosted by WestsidekodakOhhhh no we are completely done. This is about another Gem we have been friends several years.Posted by MoonbutterThe gemini you kinda dated for a while lol is it him?Posted by WestsidekodakWell I'm not sure which one you are inquiring about but it's my friend who has this placement and I'm just trying to figure out his feelings for me since I get a lot of mixed msgs and cryptic msgs from him. As a Cancer I go with my gut and there is the challenge, do I listen to my instincts or him insisting I am just a friend...what would I look out for to truly know?Posted by Moonbutterhun.... is this about the gemini?
After you have been heart in the past how can someone gain your trust and would you prefer to start out with a really strong friendship? Do you give lots of mixed msgs when you like someone but are scared? How do you act when you have deep feelings for someone but can't be with them?click to expand
Posted by WestsidekodakOh I see your point... Maybe you are right'Posted by Moonbuttera mixed Taurus or another fiery cancer. Earth or water. You need something to stabilize them passionate emotions, instead of airy dudesPosted by WestsidekodakWell I am Cancer with Sag Moon so who would you suggest?Posted by Moonbutter0.o wut. These gems are killing you. You need someone who fits your moon and sunPosted by WestsidekodakOhhhh no we are completely done. This is about another Gem we have been friends several years.Posted by MoonbutterThe gemini you kinda dated for a while lol is it him?Posted by WestsidekodakWell I'm not sure which one you are inquiring about but it's my friend who has this placement and I'm just trying to figure out his feelings for me since I get a lot of mixed msgs and cryptic msgs from him. As a Cancer I go with my gut and there is the challenge, do I listen to my instincts or him insisting I am just a friend...what would I look out for to truly know?Posted by Moonbutterhun.... is this about the gemini?
After you have been heart in the past how can someone gain your trust and would you prefer to start out with a really strong friendship? Do you give lots of mixed msgs when you like someone but are scared? How do you act when you have deep feelings for someone but can't be with them?click to expand
Posted by incandescentcancerYes I agree I need earth as I have nonePosted by MoonbutterGo for those men with prominent Jupiter, Mars or sun placement. Also it would be good for you to have partner to have bit more water or earth than you do, that should set you up nicely.Posted by WestsidekodakWell I am Cancer with Sag Moon so who would you suggest?Posted by Moonbutter0.o wut. These gems are killing you. You need someone who fits your moon and sunPosted by WestsidekodakOhhhh no we are completely done. This is about another Gem we have been friends several years.Posted by MoonbutterThe gemini you kinda dated for a while lol is it him?Posted by WestsidekodakWell I'm not sure which one you are inquiring about but it's my friend who has this placement and I'm just trying to figure out his feelings for me since I get a lot of mixed msgs and cryptic msgs from him. As a Cancer I go with my gut and there is the challenge, do I listen to my instincts or him insisting I am just a friend...what would I look out for to truly know?Posted by Moonbutterhun.... is this about the gemini?
After you have been heart in the past how can someone gain your trust and would you prefer to start out with a really strong friendship? Do you give lots of mixed msgs when you like someone but are scared? How do you act when you have deep feelings for someone but can't be with them?click to expand
Posted by incandescentcancerYes, I agree I need earth as I have none.Posted by MoonbutterGo for those men with prominent Jupiter, Mars or sun placement. Also it would be good for you to have partner to have bit more water or earth than you do, that should set you up nicely.Posted by WestsidekodakWell I am Cancer with Sag Moon so who would you suggest?Posted by Moonbutter0.o wut. These gems are killing you. You need someone who fits your moon and sunPosted by WestsidekodakOhhhh no we are completely done. This is about another Gem we have been friends several years.Posted by MoonbutterThe gemini you kinda dated for a while lol is it him?Posted by WestsidekodakWell I'm not sure which one you are inquiring about but it's my friend who has this placement and I'm just trying to figure out his feelings for me since I get a lot of mixed msgs and cryptic msgs from him. As a Cancer I go with my gut and there is the challenge, do I listen to my instincts or him insisting I am just a friend...what would I look out for to truly know?Posted by Moonbutterhun.... is this about the gemini?
After you have been heart in the past how can someone gain your trust and would you prefer to start out with a really strong friendship? Do you give lots of mixed msgs when you like someone but are scared? How do you act when you have deep feelings for someone but can't be with them?click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterThat's it, always go for something that will strengthen both of you on the overall. The synastry chart is like a jigsaw puzzle that needs to fit together for things to work out over the long term. In the short term any two people can be in a relationship that doesn't mean anything. If you want a couple to be happy together over the long term and also succeed, then you need to put the jigsaw puzzle together right.Posted by incandescentcancerGo for those men with prominent Jupiter, Mars or sun placement. Also it would be good for you to have partner to have bit more water or earth than you do, that should set you up nicely.Yes I agree I need earth as I have noneclick to expand
Posted by incandescentcancerI know but omg I swear I can't even find a guy that isn't either gay, taken or a big douche. Sigh. I need to move lolPosted by MoonbutterThat's it, always go for something that will strengthen both of you on the overall. The synastry chart is like a jigsaw puzzle that needs to fit together for things to work out over the long term. In the short term any two people can be in a relationship that doesn't mean anything. If you want a couple to be happy together over the long term and also succeed, then you need to put the jigsaw puzzle together right.Posted by incandescentcancerGo for those men with prominent Jupiter, Mars or sun placement. Also it would be good for you to have partner to have bit more water or earth than you do, that should set you up nicely.Yes I agree I need earth as I have noneclick to expand
Posted by MoonbutterWomen say that all the time and I know a ton of nice guys who are usually sitting alone watching TV. I just don't think people are thinking straight about what they want or looking in the right places. Our system of finding partners is clearly broken and superficial.Posted by incandescentcancerI know but omg I swear I can't even find a guy that isn't either gay, taken or a big douche. Sigh. I need to move lolPosted by MoonbutterThat's it, always go for something that will strengthen both of you on the overall. The synastry chart is like a jigsaw puzzle that needs to fit together for things to work out over the long term. In the short term any two people can be in a relationship that doesn't mean anything. If you want a couple to be happy together over the long term and also succeed, then you need to put the jigsaw puzzle together right.Posted by incandescentcancerGo for those men with prominent Jupiter, Mars or sun placement. Also it would be good for you to have partner to have bit more water or earth than you do, that should set you up nicely.Yes I agree I need earth as I have noneclick to expand
Posted by incandescentcancerI kinda agree with you, which is why my ltr have always been co-workers or through friends hanging out. I know the bar or club will prob not be the best place haha.Posted by MoonbutterWomen say that all the time and I know a ton of nice guys who are usually sitting alone watching TV. I just don't think people are thinking straight about what they want or looking in the right places. Our system of finding partners is clearly broken and superficial.Posted by incandescentcancerI know but omg I swear I can't even find a guy that isn't either gay, taken or a big douche. Sigh. I need to move lolPosted by MoonbutterThat's it, always go for something that will strengthen both of you on the overall. The synastry chart is like a jigsaw puzzle that needs to fit together for things to work out over the long term. In the short term any two people can be in a relationship that doesn't mean anything. If you want a couple to be happy together over the long term and also succeed, then you need to put the jigsaw puzzle together right.Posted by incandescentcancerGo for those men with prominent Jupiter, Mars or sun placement. Also it would be good for you to have partner to have bit more water or earth than you do, that should set you up nicely.Yes I agree I need earth as I have noneclick to expand
Posted by CheeseburgerHahah Cheesburger, matchmaker wannabe? But I need to be sure his placements are in synastry with mine...Incandescentcancer, what are your placements? I need to be sure before we take this convo further...
Moonbutter, meet incandescentcancer
incandescentcancer, meet Moonbutter.
Posted by CheeseburgerROFL! Mike Tyson looks like he is going to kill those birds!
Moonbutter, meet incandescentcancer
incandescentcancer, meet Moonbutter.
Posted by MoonbutterLOL! I have a strange chart,Posted by CheeseburgerHahah Cheesburger, matchmaker wannabe? But I need to be sure his placements are in synastry with mine...Incandescentcancer, what are your placements? I need to be sure before we take this convo further...
Moonbutter, meet incandescentcancer
incandescentcancer, meet Moonbutter.
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Posted by incandescentcancerHe looks like he's going to bite their heads off, haha.Posted by CheeseburgerROFL! Mike Tyson looks like he is going to kill those birds!
Moonbutter, meet incandescentcancer
incandescentcancer, meet Moonbutter.
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Posted by incandescentcancerOhh hmm looks like you got some earth, and in need of some fire...haha.Posted by MoonbutterLOL! I have a strange chart,Posted by CheeseburgerHahah Cheesburger, matchmaker wannabe? But I need to be sure his placements are in synastry with mine...Incandescentcancer, what are your placements? I need to be sure before we take this convo further...
Moonbutter, meet incandescentcancer
incandescentcancer, meet Moonbutter.
Ascendant, Jupiter, Saturn - Tight conj. in Virgo
Moon, South Node - Capricorn - House 5
Mars, Mercury - Gemini - House 10
Sun, Venus, North Node - Cancer - House 11
All planets in just 4 houses.click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterI have 0 fire - I see that as a major issue. You really need the spontaneity of fire in your chart to push through with certain things. I definitely would look for fire from someone to ignite my chart!Posted by incandescentcancerOhh hmm looks like you got some earth, and in need of some fire...haha.Posted by MoonbutterLOL! I have a strange chart,Posted by CheeseburgerHahah Cheesburger, matchmaker wannabe? But I need to be sure his placements are in synastry with mine...Incandescentcancer, what are your placements? I need to be sure before we take this convo further...
Moonbutter, meet incandescentcancer
incandescentcancer, meet Moonbutter.
Ascendant, Jupiter, Saturn - Tight conj. in Virgo
Moon, South Node - Capricorn - House 5
Mars, Mercury - Gemini - House 10
Sun, Venus, North Node - Cancer - House 11
All planets in just 4 houses.click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterNow that you say that, I can see that gleam in his eyes....lolPosted by incandescentcancerHe looks like he's going to bite their heads off, haha.Posted by CheeseburgerROFL! Mike Tyson looks like he is going to kill those birds!
Moonbutter, meet incandescentcancer
incandescentcancer, meet Moonbutter.
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Posted by incandescentcancerYes I can understand that, and I have 0 earth which makes me not very grounded unfortunately :/Posted by MoonbutterI have 0 fire - I see that as a major issue. You really need the spontaneity of fire in your chart to push through with certain things. I definitely would look for fire from someone to ignite my chart!Posted by incandescentcancerOhh hmm looks like you got some earth, and in need of some fire...haha.Posted by MoonbutterLOL! I have a strange chart,Posted by CheeseburgerHahah Cheesburger, matchmaker wannabe? But I need to be sure his placements are in synastry with mine...Incandescentcancer, what are your placements? I need to be sure before we take this convo further...
Moonbutter, meet incandescentcancer
incandescentcancer, meet Moonbutter.
Ascendant, Jupiter, Saturn - Tight conj. in Virgo
Moon, South Node - Capricorn - House 5
Mars, Mercury - Gemini - House 10
Sun, Venus, North Node - Cancer - House 11
All planets in just 4 houses.click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterAiry people generally tend to have two issues, they're not great with money and they jump from one project to another without completing what they started. Which of these problems do you have?Posted by incandescentcancerYes I can understand that, and I have 0 earth which makes me not very grounded unfortunately :/Posted by MoonbutterI have 0 fire - I see that as a major issue. You really need the spontaneity of fire in your chart to push through with certain things. I definitely would look for fire from someone to ignite my chart!Posted by incandescentcancerOhh hmm looks like you got some earth, and in need of some fire...haha.Posted by MoonbutterLOL! I have a strange chart,Posted by CheeseburgerHahah Cheesburger, matchmaker wannabe? But I need to be sure his placements are in synastry with mine...Incandescentcancer, what are your placements? I need to be sure before we take this convo further...
Moonbutter, meet incandescentcancer
incandescentcancer, meet Moonbutter.
Ascendant, Jupiter, Saturn - Tight conj. in Virgo
Moon, South Node - Capricorn - House 5
Mars, Mercury - Gemini - House 10
Sun, Venus, North Node - Cancer - House 11
All planets in just 4 houses.click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterActually, come to think of it, what does your chart look like?Posted by incandescentcancerYes I can understand that, and I have 0 earth which makes me not very grounded unfortunately :/Posted by MoonbutterI have 0 fire - I see that as a major issue. You really need the spontaneity of fire in your chart to push through with certain things. I definitely would look for fire from someone to ignite my chart!Posted by incandescentcancerOhh hmm looks like you got some earth, and in need of some fire...haha.Posted by MoonbutterLOL! I have a strange chart,Posted by CheeseburgerHahah Cheesburger, matchmaker wannabe? But I need to be sure his placements are in synastry with mine...Incandescentcancer, what are your placements? I need to be sure before we take this convo further...
Moonbutter, meet incandescentcancer
incandescentcancer, meet Moonbutter.
Ascendant, Jupiter, Saturn - Tight conj. in Virgo
Moon, South Node - Capricorn - House 5
Mars, Mercury - Gemini - House 10
Sun, Venus, North Node - Cancer - House 11
All planets in just 4 houses.click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterInteresting response.
Ah good questions...I would say completing projects between the two, but I am not very airy(only Gem Mars). I don't run from commitment. Strong emotions I will run like a rabid beast is chasing me if it's too soon and the connection hasn't developed yet.
Question for you: Would you appreciate having someone push you to get things going or would you resent that?
Posted by incandescentcancerThat's good, you are a smaerrt man 😄Posted by MoonbutterInteresting response.
Ah good questions...I would say completing projects between the two, but I am not very airy(only Gem Mars). I don't run from commitment. Strong emotions I will run like a rabid beast is chasing me if it's too soon and the connection hasn't developed yet.
Question for you: Would you appreciate having someone push you to get things going or would you resent that?
I don't resent anyone pushing me towards my welfare. Usually, I spend too much time analyzing instead of jumping in. I actually like to be with people who give me confidence to let go and take the plunge.click to expand
Posted by RamOfPeaceOh yes, they will most likely have at least one placement of the other since they are neighbors. It will mostly be their Venus, Mercury and/or Mars.
What's up with so many Gems having Cancer placements and vice versa?
I'm "dating" a Gem sun/Cancer moon man at the moment, and he's literally too much bullshit for himself, nevermind the surrounding people.
Posted by MoonbutterAnd for 7 days of the month, the moon is going to be somewhere close as well.Posted by RamOfPeaceOh yes, they will most likely have at least one placement of the other since they are neighbors. It will mostly be their Venus, Mercury and/or Mars.
What's up with so many Gems having Cancer placements and vice versa?
I'm "dating" a Gem sun/Cancer moon man at the moment, and he's literally too much bullshit for himself, nevermind the surrounding people.click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterI have my moments 😛Posted by incandescentcancerThat's good, you are a smaerrt man 😄Posted by MoonbutterInteresting response.
Ah good questions...I would say completing projects between the two, but I am not very airy(only Gem Mars). I don't run from commitment. Strong emotions I will run like a rabid beast is chasing me if it's too soon and the connection hasn't developed yet.
Question for you: Would you appreciate having someone push you to get things going or would you resent that?
I don't resent anyone pushing me towards my welfare. Usually, I spend too much time analyzing instead of jumping in. I actually like to be with people who give me confidence to let go and take the plunge.click to expand
Posted by incandescentcancerOh, fascinating I never knew that lil tidbit! Is it the first 7 days or somewhere mid month?Posted by MoonbutterAnd for 7 days of the month, the moon is going to be somewhere close as well.Posted by RamOfPeaceOh yes, they will most likely have at least one placement of the other since they are neighbors. It will mostly be their Venus, Mercury and/or Mars.
What's up with so many Gems having Cancer placements and vice versa?
I'm "dating" a Gem sun/Cancer moon man at the moment, and he's literally too much bullshit for himself, nevermind the surrounding people.click to expand
Posted by incandescentcancerOh sorry, I missed this I was on my phone earlier..my chart looks like this: (not as fancy as yours)Posted by MoonbutterActually, come to think of it, what does your chart look like?Posted by incandescentcancerYes I can understand that, and I have 0 earth which makes me not very grounded unfortunately :/Posted by MoonbutterI have 0 fire - I see that as a major issue. You really need the spontaneity of fire in your chart to push through with certain things. I definitely would look for fire from someone to ignite my chart!Posted by incandescentcancerOhh hmm looks like you got some earth, and in need of some fire...haha.Posted by MoonbutterLOL! I have a strange chart,Posted by CheeseburgerHahah Cheesburger, matchmaker wannabe? But I need to be sure his placements are in synastry with mine...Incandescentcancer, what are your placements? I need to be sure before we take this convo further...
Moonbutter, meet incandescentcancer
incandescentcancer, meet Moonbutter.
Ascendant, Jupiter, Saturn - Tight conj. in Virgo
Moon, South Node - Capricorn - House 5
Mars, Mercury - Gemini - House 10
Sun, Venus, North Node - Cancer - House 11
All planets in just 4 houses.click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterIt's the 2.5 days that the moon takes to transit each house, so the house in and around where the sun is in that month would add up to 7 days. So if the sun is in Cancer, the moon's transit days through Gemini, cancer and Leo would make up those 7 days. It's usually the days around the new moon (so the moon is a sliver).Posted by incandescentcancerOh, fascinating I never knew that lil tidbit! Is it the first 7 days or somewhere mid month?Posted by MoonbutterAnd for 7 days of the month, the moon is going to be somewhere close as well.Posted by RamOfPeaceOh yes, they will most likely have at least one placement of the other since they are neighbors. It will mostly be their Venus, Mercury and/or Mars.
What's up with so many Gems having Cancer placements and vice versa?
I'm "dating" a Gem sun/Cancer moon man at the moment, and he's literally too much bullshit for himself, nevermind the surrounding people.click to expand
Posted by incandescentcancerI just had a mini mind implosion, but let's just say due to my "processor" not been updated since 2007 hehe.Posted by MoonbutterIt's the 2.5 days that the moon takes to transit each house, so the house in and around where the sun is in that month would add up to 7 days. So if the sun is in Cancer, the moon's transit days through Gemini, cancer and Leo would make up those 7 days. It's usually the days around the new moon (so the moon is a sliver).Posted by incandescentcancerOh, fascinating I never knew that lil tidbit! Is it the first 7 days or somewhere mid month?Posted by MoonbutterAnd for 7 days of the month, the moon is going to be somewhere close as well.Posted by RamOfPeaceOh yes, they will most likely have at least one placement of the other since they are neighbors. It will mostly be their Venus, Mercury and/or Mars.
What's up with so many Gems having Cancer placements and vice versa?
I'm "dating" a Gem sun/Cancer moon man at the moment, and he's literally too much bullshit for himself, nevermind the surrounding people.click to expand
Posted by Moonbutter Oh sorry, I missed this I was on my phone earlier..my chart looks like this: (not as fancy as yours)You have a placement in every fire sign, that sort of trinal placement is very fancy. They also happen to be houses 1,5 and 9 - which are very important houses. I am guessing you have a close relationship with your father.
Asc-Aries
Sun-Cancer
Mars-Gemini
Moon-Sagittarius
Mercury-Cancer
Venus-Leo
N Node-Leo
Posted by Moonbutter I just had a mini mind implosion, but let's just say due to my "processor" not been updated since 2007 hehe.It's like this, a month has 30 days and there are 12 houses of the zodiac, the moon takes 30 days to get through all 12 houses. So, the moon spends 2.5 days in each house. Initially, we were talking about how some planets tend to be close to the sunsign. The moon through its 30 days journey around the zodiac will spend about 7 days close to the sun, the 2.5 days in the prev sign, 2.5 days in the sunsign and 2.5 days in the sign after. So, you will have a fairly decent chance of the moon being close to the sunsign as well.
Posted by incandescentcancerOh no,, not close with my dad but maybe closer then in the past. My bday is July 13 I think that's 3rd decan, right?Posted by Moonbutter Oh sorry, I missed this I was on my phone earlier..my chart looks like this: (not as fancy as yours)You have a placement in every fire sign, that sort of trinal placement is very fancy. They also happen to be houses 1,5 and 9 - which are very important houses. I am guessing you have a close relationship with your father.
Asc-Aries
Sun-Cancer
Mars-Gemini
Moon-Sagittarius
Mercury-Cancer
Venus-Leo
N Node-Leo
Where is Jupiter and Saturn placed? What decan cancer are you, date?click to expand
Posted by incandescentcancerAhh thank you for the explanation, so patient and good communication skills thanks to your earth and Gem Merc 😉Posted by Moonbutter I just had a mini mind implosion, but let's just say due to my "processor" not been updated since 2007 hehe.It's like this, a month has 30 days and there are 12 houses of the zodiac, the moon takes 30 days to get through all 12 houses. So, the moon spends 2.5 days in each house. Initially, we were talking about how some planets tend to be close to the sunsign. The moon through its 30 days journey around the zodiac will spend about 7 days close to the sun, the 2.5 days in the prev sign, 2.5 days in the sunsign and 2.5 days in the sign after. So, you will have a fairly decent chance of the moon being close to the sunsign as well.
When the moon gets closest to the sun in a month, we don't see the moon in the sky or its but a sliver - New moon. When the moon us farthest from the sun or the opposite house, it's the full moon.click to expand
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