Cancer Venus Man: What on earth just happened?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by TrueBlessings on Sunday, February 5, 2017 and has 3 replies.
I already posted this story in the Leo section, but I wwanted to get some perspective from the Cancer side since he has a Cancer Venus.

Long story short:

I'm a 26 year old female with a Scorpio Sun, Cancer Rising, Gemini Moon and Scorpio Venus. He's a 23 year old male with a Leo Sun, Virgo Moon, Cancer Venus.

We met early 2015 where we worked. Of course, the chemistry was instant. He kept chasing me, trying to get closer and I kept rejecting him. I was still hung up on a Pisces who dumped me the year prior and was closed off. Also, I don't date people I work with. At some stage, he left the company and we didn't speak after that.

A year later, in 2016, I moved to a different country for work. He wound up moving to the same city 6 months later. At that stage, he was no longer in my friend's list on FB. However, it seemed as though one day I sent him a request by mistake (which I never even knew I sent).

We ended up talking daily. He would text me very sweet things every day. We spoke, then he stopped replying for three weeks! He came back, asked me out. He invited his friend, fine! It was great and even better after the friend left. Then, he started texting me all day long which I really liked. We went on another date which was disastrous as he was a bit intoxicated, got mad a me for I don't know why and walk out on me. He didn't speak to me for three weeks after that. He came back, I was still extremely mad because I was deeply hurt. We wenr on a date, he tried to kiss me but I asked him to take it slow, that I was nervous ... He said fine.

He went home for a month during which he did not contact me at all despite the fact he said he was looking forward to seeing me again.

He came back, I asked him out. I kissed him when I greeted him because I really wanted to. He seemed fine. He kept kissing me all night and even held my hand, put my hand around his heart area at the movies.

Since then, nothing. Two weeks went by and I haven't heard from him, so I decided to exit his life peacefully.

What on earth could have happened? He was chasing me obsessively, then he turned cold when I kissed him. I have no clue and I'm deeply hurt.

Thanks!
Posted by TrueBlessings
I already posted this story in the Leo section, but I wwanted to get some perspective from the Cancer side since he has a Cancer Venus.

Long story short:

I'm a 26 year old female with a Scorpio Sun, Cancer Rising, Gemini Moon and Scorpio Venus. He's a 23 year old male with a Leo Sun, Virgo Moon, Cancer Venus.

We met early 2015 where we worked. Of course, the chemistry was instant. He kept chasing me, trying to get closer and I kept rejecting him. I was still hung up on a Pisces who dumped me the year prior and was closed off. Also, I don't date people I work with. At some stage, he left the company and we didn't speak after that.

A year later, in 2016, I moved to a different country for work. He wound up moving to the same city 6 months later. At that stage, he was no longer in my friend's list on FB. However, it seemed as though one day I sent him a request by mistake (which I never even knew I sent).

We ended up talking daily. He would text me very sweet things every day. We spoke, then he stopped replying for three weeks! He came back, asked me out. He invited his friend, fine! It was great and even better after the friend left. Then, he started texting me all day long which I really liked. We went on another date which was disastrous as he was a bit intoxicated, got mad a me for I don't know why and walk out on me. He didn't speak to me for three weeks after that. He came back, I was still extremely mad because I was deeply hurt. We wenr on a date, he tried to kiss me but I asked him to take it slow, that I was nervous ... He said fine.

He went home for a month during which he did not contact me at all despite the fact he said he was looking forward to seeing me again.

He came back, I asked him out. I kissed him when I greeted him because I really wanted to. He seemed fine. He kept kissing me all night and even held my hand, put my hand around his heart area at the movies.

Since then, nothing. Two weeks went by and I haven't heard from him, so I decided to exit his life peacefully.

What on earth could have happened? He was chasing me obsessively, then he turned cold when I kissed him. I have no clue and I'm deeply hurt.

Thanks!
Oh man, Cancer Venus for a man is tricky... he has to be able to feel your "love" for him but not too much if he's still working out his feelings for you. You have to coddle these guys in a way... I like to give mine head rubs, massages, kisses here and there and just basically be affectionate. Also, these guys tend to be true Gentlemen so let him open doors for you and lead the way.
Also, I think it's really difficult for these guys to be in a thriving relationship until later in life...they have to work out that Cancer Venus and why they are so sensitive to love.