Cancer Woman, Is it worth it?

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MarkOBlue
@MarkOBlue
12 Years

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I'm a Taurus Man. I recently went on a date with a Cancer woman. We hit it off right away and by the end of the evening, we were making out and both professed our excitement and admiration for each other. We giddily texted each other later after the date, again the next day and then again the next day. Then toward the end of the third day, she began to text things like, "I'm nervous". When she said that, I tried to pull out of her why. She wouldn't tell me. I offered her that she could ask me ANYTHING to which I would tell her the absolute truth. She said, "uhhh, no". I tried to dig it out a little more without pushing too hard. She wouldn't give. We texted a bit more but on a pretty high level, nothing too serious or romantic. Then she stopped returning my texts. So, I thought to myself, this is a Cancer. I'll just let her have her space and let her come to me. Is this a wise choice? Is he desperately hoping I will keep trying to contact her? Remember, this is a new thing but I like her a lot. She has a career as an ICU nurse with two kids so she's really busy and just showing up at her place with/as a romantic gesture is out of the question. Give me your take people, be kind. I'm a newbie, first time poster. Thanks!
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LunarMaiden
@LunarMaiden
13 Years5,000+ Posts

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Yes it's worth it!!

Welcome to Crabland Mark.

My advice would be to not over analyze her behavior.
Sounds like she needs you to keep showing interest.
Give her space but not too much space that she thinks you are not interested.

She's an ICU nurse with two kids, she's busy and she now has a man in her life.
Do you realize what she see's and does everyday at work, then go home to kids.
Her life is not sunshine and rainbows.
I would imagine she see's you as both a complication and a joy.
I say take it slow, be supportive, romantic, understanding and sexy.
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Este8
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12 Years1,000+ Posts

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Unfortunately this is not unusual for a Cancer woman. Getting emotionally involved scares the crap out of us, especially when there's real sparks. If you feel a connection to her, you gotta be patient. When a crab warms up, they're all yours and you don't have to worry about how they feel about you. You just gotta ride the waves in the beginning. Cancer/Taurus can make a great combination. I'm rooting for you.