I'm a Taurus Man. I recently went on a date with a Cancer woman. We hit it off right away and by the end of the evening, we were making out and both professed our excitement and admiration for each other. We giddily texted each other later after the date, again the next day and then again the next day. Then toward the end of the third day, she began to text things like, "I'm nervous". When she said that, I tried to pull out of her why. She wouldn't tell me. I offered her that she could ask me ANYTHING to which I would tell her the absolute truth. She said, "uhhh, no". I tried to dig it out a little more without pushing too hard. She wouldn't give. We texted a bit more but on a pretty high level, nothing too serious or romantic. Then she stopped returning my texts. So, I thought to myself, this is a Cancer. I'll just let her have her space and let her come to me. Is this a wise choice? Is he desperately hoping I will keep trying to contact her? Remember, this is a new thing but I like her a lot. She has a career as an ICU nurse with two kids so she's really busy and just showing up at her place with/as a romantic gesture is out of the question. Give me your take people, be kind. I'm a newbie, first time poster. Thanks!
Cancer Woman, Is it worth it?

Yes it's worth it!!
Welcome to Crabland Mark.
My advice would be to not over analyze her behavior.
Sounds like she needs you to keep showing interest.
Give her space but not too much space that she thinks you are not interested.
She's an ICU nurse with two kids, she's busy and she now has a man in her life.
Do you realize what she see's and does everyday at work, then go home to kids.
Her life is not sunshine and rainbows.
I would imagine she see's you as both a complication and a joy.
I say take it slow, be supportive, romantic, understanding and sexy.
Welcome to Crabland Mark.
My advice would be to not over analyze her behavior.
Sounds like she needs you to keep showing interest.
Give her space but not too much space that she thinks you are not interested.
She's an ICU nurse with two kids, she's busy and she now has a man in her life.
Do you realize what she see's and does everyday at work, then go home to kids.
Her life is not sunshine and rainbows.
I would imagine she see's you as both a complication and a joy.
I say take it slow, be supportive, romantic, understanding and sexy.

I suggest you give promises of assurance to her to make her fell secure
taurus are not snails when hooked up, they are explosives ... for the first few weeks
and yes ... it worth it ...
PS: I'm a cancer addict 😢
taurus are not snails when hooked up, they are explosives ... for the first few weeks
and yes ... it worth it ...
PS: I'm a cancer addict 😢

Ya, LovesickCancer is right. She is scared of maybe getting hurt in the burgeoning relationship.

Unfortunately this is not unusual for a Cancer woman. Getting emotionally involved scares the crap out of us, especially when there's real sparks. If you feel a connection to her, you gotta be patient. When a crab warms up, they're all yours and you don't have to worry about how they feel about you. You just gotta ride the waves in the beginning. Cancer/Taurus can make a great combination. I'm rooting for you.

Posted by NaughtyTaurus
I suggest you give promises of assurance to her to make her fell secure
taurus are not snails when hooked up, they are explosives ... for the first few weeks
and yes ... it worth it ...
PS: I'm a cancer addict 😢
Why the frown?

I LOVED that movie!!! Total Cancer...
Thanks everyone! All good stuff...

Posted by shellshocker
I LOVED that movie!!! Total Cancer...
Posted by shellshocker
I LOVED that movie!!! Total Cancer...

Posted by LunarMaidenPosted by shellshocker
I LOVED that movie!!! Total Cancer...
I love this scene. I like how the guy just stands there and waits for her to calm down then he approaches her.
Ya... I like how he then tries to con her into taking her back (to get his satchel) and she sees right thru it. "Talk to the frying pan, son" LOL

Posted by shellshockerPosted by LunarMaidenPosted by shellshocker
I LOVED that movie!!! Total Cancer...
I love this scene. I like how the guy just stands there and waits for her to calm down then he approaches her.
Yep she's a Cancer. LOL

Bumpzzzzzzzzz
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