cancer women is NUTS!!!

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by DAMEN VI on Friday, June 11, 2010 and has 93 replies.
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nutty..for real..
ya'll hang on to anything that was negative in your past like your life depends on it for survival..and ya'll like to get dramatic over minor shyt too..waaay to territorial, like sum damn guard dogs..ya'll not too good with money either, will blow it and then wonder where the shyt went(shouldn't have been eating at red lobster 4 days out of the week! ms.piggy)..
i swear if i ever get into another relationship, 1st thing im'ma ask if she's a cancer or not..never again will i go through the emotional psychoticness..i will continue having sex with you thou,but then i will have to break your heart by leading you to think that we would eventually be in a real relationship( had to do that to a few of'em before)..
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Posted by DAMEN VI
nutty..for real..
ya'll hang on to anything that was negative in your past like your life depends on it for survival..and ya'll like to get dramatic over minor shyt too..waaay to territorial, like sum damn guard dogs..ya'll not too good with money either, will blow it and then wonder where the shyt went(shouldn't have been eating at red lobster 4 days out of the week! ms.piggy)..
i swear if i ever get into another relationship, 1st thing im'ma ask if she's a cancer or not..never again will i go through the emotional psychoticness..i will continue having sex with you thou,but then i will have to break your heart by leading you to think that we would eventually be in a real relationship( had to do that to a few of'em before)..


You seem to be such a well adjusted and all around nice guy... how could your relationship not have worked out?
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Posted by LibraSid
Posted by DAMEN VI
nutty..for real..
ya'll hang on to anything that was negative in your past like your life depends on it for survival..and ya'll like to get dramatic over minor shyt too..waaay to territorial, like sum damn guard dogs..ya'll not too good with money either, will blow it and then wonder where the shyt went(shouldn't have been eating at red lobster 4 days out of the week! ms.piggy)..
i swear if i ever get into another relationship, 1st thing im'ma ask if she's a cancer or not..never again will i go through the emotional psychoticness..i will continue having sex with you thou,but then i will have to break your heart by leading you to think that we would eventually be in a real relationship( had to do that to a few of'em before)..


You seem to be such a well adjusted and all around nice guy... how could your relationship not have worked out?
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ooo you got me there buddy!
naa but seriously we're still together thou..she just have some ways about her thats blatantly nuts
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Everyone has to be a little crazy. It would be too boring otherwise.
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Posted by MegStings
hehe... Going to fuck up other women now.. Good job smile


only women that i'll fukk up is cancer women..nobody else gets as attacted to me as them, it seems..


Posted by LibraSid
Everyone has to be a little crazy. It would be too boring otherwise.
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a little is understandable..but holding grudges for life and changing moods at the snap of a finger( or at the snap of some negative thought/incident that popped in your head) is a whole nother level
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^^ im a pisces..
and whats strange is the majority of the women that i've choose to initiate a conversation with is usually a cancer..and they don't give me the "go-ahead" to do it either..its like i have a natural attraction to them
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i think my only problem is that i like to flirt..but i swear to the lord its nothing serious, but she thinks im always trying to stick my manhood into everything with a vagina..we've been together for over 5 years and its NO TRUST..at all..
the 1st time she ever accused me of something, she was 100% WRONG..which let me know that IM not the reason why shes crazy and non trusting..she carrying baggage from her last relationship over to me..
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Posted by DAMEN VI
^^ im a pisces..
and whats strange is the majority of the women that i've choose to initiate a conversation with is usually a cancer..and they don't give me the "go-ahead" to do it either..its like i have a natural attraction to them


The cancer + pisces thing is so intense, imho. I just met another one recently... all that staring... Delicious!
It's like the complex, crazy is addictive in some way.
You said you've been in this relationship for 5 years? When did the stringing the other Cancers along take place? leading them to believe a relationship would follow your initial advances?
Just curious...
You fishies can be seriously deceptive... but I don't find you too, too hard to read.
Harder than most... that's where the challenge and attraction comes in, but still...
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Posted by moon_eyes
Whooa can we say asshole behavior?
It seems you need to grow up, deal with issues you have, and then get involved with women, all women.
Cancer hang on because they have good memories, and remembering things is what protects them, that is how Cancer women try an not make the same mistakes. Its an ammo factor, Now if you want someone to forget what has happened to them or forget that ou fucked them up so that you can fuck em up again go find a different sign with less memory.
Don't flirt with cancers unless you have intentions with that flirting. Little flirting is not harmful but full out flirtimg that can lead to something more is wrong, on a basic human level.

Youre just pissed off cause you like cancer women and I bet that is why you are so vindictive. If im wrong im Sorry (there is a cancer term ha).


only issue i have is maybe being flirtatious...but it isn't even that serious because im a very well reserved dude that isn't always out and about like i use to be..she acts like she don't see the change in me which is the main problem..like i said she only holds on to BAD memories, and refuses to see the present..sometimes i feel like reminding her of how i truly can be( hitting the clubs,staying out late, not coming home and making excuses like "i was too drunk to drive",etc)
maybe then she'll realize that having a good memory about negative stuff can/may hurt u more then help sometimes..sometimes you just gotta let it go..i know i do
and yes you're right about not flirting with cancers..ya'll are very much into having a relationship with that person if u like him..UNLESS you already know that the person is in a relationship, then and only then would you just accept the situation for what it is..which would be strickly about SEX

and yeah, cancer girls is cool until u get in a real relationship with them,lol
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Posted by shellshocker
Posted by DAMEN VI
^^ im a pisces..
and whats strange is the majority of the women that i've choose to initiate a conversation with is usually a cancer..and they don't give me the "go-ahead" to do it either..its like i have a natural attraction to them


The cancer + pisces thing is so intense, imho. I just met another one recently... all that staring... Delicious!
It's like the complex, crazy is addictive in some way.
You said you've been in this relationship for 5 years? When did the stringing the other Cancers along take place? leading them to believe a relationship would follow your initial advances?
Just curious...
You fishies can be seriously deceptive... but I don't find you too, too hard to read.
Harder than most... that's where the challenge and attraction comes in, but still...

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well, im 30 years old so i've had my far share of women before i got with her(im not bragging), and most of'em was cancers..this is the longest i've ever been in a relationship too, and its hard..i honestly thought i was gonna be single and just do what i wanted to do(and i've told her this MANY times), but she has my heart, and its a daily struggle to stay faithful..i may WANT to have sex with other women sometimes thou,BUT i don't want any other woman emotionally except her, she's enough,lol..but i think thats a problem with most MEN in general..
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well, im 30 years old so i've had my far share of women before i got with her(im not bragging), and most of'em was cancers..this is the longest i've ever been in a relationship too, and its hard..i honestly thought i was gonna be single and just do what i wanted to do(and i've told her this MANY times), but she has my heart, and its a daily struggle to stay faithful..i may WANT to have sex with other women sometimes thou,BUT i don't want any other woman emotionally except her, she's enough,lol..but i think thats a problem with most MEN in general..


thanks for answering...
That ability to commit so hard, even when you don't seem to want to or understand why... very attractive in the fish.
I think cancer girls can't get enough of that... even when they pretend they don't want it.
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Posted by moon_eyes
Ok have you told her to be positive and how much it bothers you that shes hanging onto negative? Idk if you realize and im writing this cause idk you or anything about you or what you know about cancers but im Arguments you can bet your ass were gonna toss all negative things. Positive we know this as well and remember.
Im confused by you you say youre sick of cancers and will screw em over yet you turn around and say that you just want this chic on an emotional level. Are you confused about things or what? cause its really contradictory. Flirting my point was different types, we flirt and we love to flirt, but there are different levels of flirting as you know.


i tell her all the time that she think negative too much...and she'll say something like "well, u don't give me any reason to say anything positive",lol@smh..so its like a never ending battle with me and her...and we don't have to be arguing for her to come out of the blue with something negative..like right now, if she sees me typing a lot, and if she ask me something, and i don't respond fast enough for her, she'll say something like "who you talking too? one of your girlfriends?" in a sarcastic way, then i'll say something like "shut the fukk up!" and thats when the lil bullshyt begins..but thats just a minor example..
and no im not confused at all, all i was saying was if we break up, i'll never get into a serious relationship with a cancer again, i'd still have sex cancer women, but thats it..and from my past, most cancer girls assume we'd be in a relationship after sex, and that won't be happening again, which would lead to me screwing them over..only one cancer girl i been with was cool with just sex, and thats only becuz we both was in a relationship at the time..this was a long time ago too,btw
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thanks for answering...
That ability to commit so hard, even when you don't seem to want to or understand why... very attractive in the fish.
I think cancer girls can't get enough of that... even when they pretend they don't want it.

yea i doubt if a cancer woman could be with a guy who was just 100% nice and did everything she wanted( at least a younger cancer)..she'll walk all over him and cheat and do everything else cuz thats boring to her..a cancer women needs a kinda rough and uncontainable type dude to an extent..cuz her hold thing is TO contain,imo..if we can survive( basically if i don't get caught cheating)for another 5 years, then i'd probably be worn down,ready to give in and just say fuck it and get married or sumthing..oh god
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^ yea we've been together long enough to the point we're its either a) i break up and never get into another relationship again, or b) just say fugg it and get married..i know her like the back of my hand, plus i really don't have the energy to get to know/learn about and put up with anybody else again,lol
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@ Damen.......I never been with a Pisces..But I work with n family with a lot. YES! Pisces can be ultra deceptive n selfish but there still is a connection btw Cancers n Pisces especially creatively.
But I hear what you going through because I been that Cancer girl before.....once the trust is broken we become suspicious and wondering. But now being older i realize that cheating is a real part of long-lasting and long-distance relationships. Thats the hard part to accept about life, but if she agreed to move on from it, then she just needs to especially is you really changed.
Right now she can't trust you and thats her insecurity in you. Thats all it is. So talk to her about it, deal with it, or move from her.
Shes not over you cheating on her. Thats it. Hope this helped a bit.
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LOL "i will continue having sex with you thou" and "and yeah, cancer girls is cool until u get in a real relationship with them,lol"
I'm sure there are less psychotic cancers out there for you! Don't mess with them unless u want a committed relationship andddd don't judge a person by a zodiac sign maybe this bitch was actually crazy lmao
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Cancer women are crazy but not in a dangerous way. They just like to make a big scene and are moody and like to feel sorry for themselves, but when a person cuts them off they become obsessed with that person. I know this about Cancer women. They like to treat others bad but when that person stops bothering with them, they want them back. Weird behavior.
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Obsession is a cancer trait, bar none. I have a lot of Cancers around me as friends and family, and I have had disagreements with them. I, being a Scorpio, have frozen them out of my life, given them the silent treatment, ignored them and the more I do this to them the more they want to come back into my life. I don't understand this. Cancers just can't stay away. I don't understand why people keep painting Scorpios as obsessive when it's really the Cancers who cannot let go. They will try to hang on for dear life. I don't understand this about Cancers. They become obsessed with people who donot want anything to do with them.
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"They will try to hang on for dear life. I don't understand this about Cancers. They become obsessed with people who donot want anything to do with them."
^^ bullshit.
It's hard for a Cancer to let go of someone they care about, true... if they think there is still hope in salvaging the relationship, they will try to work it out. But I think for many, once a person is cut off or out of a Cancer's life... they are NOT getting back in. Maybe casually, or on a superficial level... but the inner circle is out of bounds.
I haven't had a friend or lover NOT want to get back in my good books after I've cut them off, because I really am a nice person. I shower people I care about with love and attention. That 's a powerful thing... something people don't appreciate until it's gone. (haha typical 'under appreciation' cry)
I prefer to be the 'indirect' centre of attention and hate confrontations, so making a big scene about anything is not my thing.
Water signs are often evolving and changing, and their life experiences make up a HUGE part of who they are... so these blanket statements of yours about Cancers, Pisces AND Scorpio often don't apply imo.
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Tell that to my cancer aunt. She is still trying to worm her way back into my life 3 years after I cut her out. To make a long story short she pushed my buttopns way too far with her stupid childish temper tantrums and her woe is me and it's all your fault attitude. I don't want anything to do with her but she is pathetically still obsessing over me. I let her back into my life one time, she messed it up and now I don't care for her anymore. She is history. She is mess and it's best not to be around someone like that. A lot of people cannot stand the ridiculous mood swings of a cancer. It's pathetic.
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Cancer women are messed up. But thats a huge part of the attraction. I like a girl thats a nut because im nuts to. Ive never felt so accepted as i did in that position. I only date water sign girls now, ive tired other but i just dont feel it with them. Cancers can be a very strong and encouraging partner for pisces.
But they never do forget when you wrong them. Even in the slightest. Trick is to just do a lot more great stuff with and for them and that tends to help them just put it away. Yeah they can freak out and they know how to tear at your heart. But youll keep going back i assure you.
My issue with the cancer i dated was that we lived to far apart ha! she an american i a canadian. She was really bad with her money tho that part was true. She was super attached to her family and didnt want to move away no matter how destitute the situation there is or was. So i moved on. But man that experience is burned right into my soul and i wouldnt change a second of it.
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I agree. I think everyone has toxic relative. The good thing about it is that you can cut them loose. You donot have to be bothered with someone just because they are your relative. But back to Cancers, OJ Simpson was a Cancer and we all know what he did to his ex-wife when she rejected him. I have a lot of Cancer friends( I tend to get along with them very well), but it's just that some of the other Cancers that I know have some type of psychological issue. They're have these mood swings where they snap at you for no reason, try to oushout you, blame you for every thing and try to get you to feel bad about yourself, and it's never their fault when they pick a fight with someone. They like to play the victim even though they're in the wrong. I'm a Scorpio and I don't have time for temper tantrums like that. I am a fixed sign and I need someone who is levelheaded. That is why I think Pisces and Cancers get along with each other better than they do with Scorpios. Yes, Scorpio is a water sign, but the Scorpion is a desert animal. We are not in the water like the fishes and the crabs. A Scorpion can go for years and years without water and food in the desert, while a fish cannot and crab both cannot live without water.Pisces and Cancers tend to be more emotional than Scorpios.Scorpios are more i8n control of their emotions and more focused than their fellow water signs.
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we are no nuts, lol we are just like scorpions strong and value our memories depends on the nature im a saver myself. Last year bought my family a car toyota carola couple of grand. dont judge one person like all others im more practical. my pisces bf asked me to borrow money as he is poor didnt get paid this week, so i generously lend him all i could we both take turns exchange isnt that what a relationship is and should be?
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pisces guys are the only ones without a shell so i always supported my bf financially we decided on dates and expenses together.
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Dude, treating females like that will never get you anywhere. Regardless of how she acts you need to keep your cool and just walk away. You are in control of you, not her. Yeah, she may be crazy, but remember you picked her. Take it as a lesson and try to do better next time. You don't want to treat a good woman bad. She doesn't deserve it. If you have issues(trust, self-esteem, maturity, selfishness) fix yourself before you get into another relationship. You'll save yourself and her the headache and heartache. If not you'll find yourself continually in the same predicaments.

God Bless and good luck.
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^^ what happened there? LOL!
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Posted by cancersunleomoon123
lol,i have to admit your first paragraph is really funny...and true..lol..but the second one you sound like a complete dick. Choose love not fear.


yeah..that 2nd one was kinda harsh but uhhhhh...at least none of the women hear will have to worry about going thru that!!(not with me, at least)
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Posted by xoaminahxo
LOL "i will continue having sex with you thou" and "and yeah, cancer girls is cool until u get in a real relationship with them,lol"
I'm sure there are less psychotic cancers out there for you! Don't mess with them unless u want a committed relationship andddd don't judge a person by a zodiac sign maybe this bitch was actually crazy lmao


lmao. We are not crazyyyy.
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Posted by shellshocker
"They will try to hang on for dear life. I don't understand this about Cancers. They become obsessed with people who donot want anything to do with them."
^^ bullshit.
It's hard for a Cancer to let go of someone they care about, true... if they think there is still hope in salvaging the relationship, they will try to work it out. But I think for many, once a person is cut off or out of a Cancer's life... they are NOT getting back in. Maybe casually, or on a superficial level... but the inner circle is out of bounds.
I haven't had a friend or lover NOT want to get back in my good books after I've cut them off, because I really am a nice person. I shower people I care about with love and attention. That 's a powerful thing... something people don't appreciate until it's gone. (haha typical 'under appreciation' cry)
I prefer to be the 'indirect' centre of attention and hate confrontations, so making a big scene about anything is not my thing.
Water signs are often evolving and changing, and their life experiences make up a HUGE part of who they are... so these blanket statements of yours about Cancers, Pisces AND Scorpio often don't apply imo.


Well said.
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you've just offended all cancer women... lol congratulations jerk! what are you? an AQUARIUS????
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"damen, out of curiosity, what do you like about cancer women?"
their titties....naa but for real i like how we connect on a mental level too..but its just that cancer women can push my buttons kinda easy..like, i KNOW when she(my gf) wants to argue, and sometimes i can play it cool(which makes her even more upset), but usually i find myself erupting and going off on her..then she'll cry..then we'll be quiet for awhile, then we would be cool again like it never happened..its been like this for 5 years and she still know how to get me riled up

"you've just offended all cancer women... lol congratulations jerk! what are you? an AQUARIUS????"
no but my father is..i act like'em to an extent
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@seavixen; ahh... so sweet! smile
We're not so bad. I prefer the term, "unconventional" as opposed to "nutter".
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Posted by frozenchampion
It seems like Damien got his relationship in order. What he needs is a little bit understanding of whats going on.
First of all Damien, I don't want to sound patronising because I hate when it is done to me..but please understand one thing. What are you comparing this person with? I mean do you have a better idea of what other signs are? I doubt it. Because if you would...you would not jump out like that.
Cancer's are the most supportive people I have known so far. Yes they can appear crazy at times when they overdo it, but who else will go that far for someone? Forget about even Scorpios when it comes supportiveness.
What I suggest you to do is to find some other things to do to prevent you being so focused on her and her doings. Give her some room to breathe and stop trying to control her. I do understand your frusturation and I know where can Piscean forcefulness drive people. I even know any forceful aries or leo (who are supposed to be strong willed signs) would look like pussycats when Pisces forcefulness will drive the show. Try to do some other stuff and calm down.
Everything is in order. You just overdoing it. Yes Cancers are not the ideal when it comes to things. They do lack many insights in things that could drive you to craziness (like dealing with money and situation) and I'm sure you don't want her to screw up and want to show her a better way, but you can't do that. This is limitation of people. They are not like you and me. They do not understand. Nobody of them will. That why you are on top of them. Because you understand and they don't. Just give her some space. Do your other stuff. And everything will be fine. When things come down you will remember that she's still the better choice than others out there (you said yourself that you don't want others emotionally than her). Don't trade her for others. You will regret it.


well i've been in real relationships with a gemini, a scorp, a sag(to an extent),2 pisces and 2 cancers(including the one im with now), and out of all of'em, i've only actually shared a place to live with the cancers..i guess thats one of the reasons why i tend to notice them and their ways the most too,lol..becuz you really can't know a person( in a relationship) until you've actually lived with'em imo..
but yea, we been together for 5 years so its not as bad as it seems overall, its just that whe
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its just that when we clash, we clash hard..and im a man that don't like showing my emotions, but she knows how to bring it out and thats a problem lol
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Posted by MoonBunny
@ Damen's original post
um .... That same view has been held by every other sign? C'mon, the fish are creative. Post something original will ya?


so every other sign is as emotional as ya'll?? i think not..i know a few aqua ladies that seem almost robotic when compared to cancer women..
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Posted by MoonBunny
Please read my post. Again.
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oh well, im not a dxp vet so i don't know about what everybody else say about cancer women..i'm speaking from my expierience, so if it sound like EVERYBODY else's situations with YOUR SIGN..then i guess ya'll REALLY IS NUTS!!!

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*sigh* These angry, rambling, illiterate posts are REALLY getting old.
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yea i'll get tired of hearing the truth too if i was you
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Dam....when she leaves ur ass.... u gonna b cryin...i hope she drops u hard....sorry 2 say... but u sound like an ass..straight like datWinking
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^^the only way she'll leave me is if she actually caught me having sex with another woman..she told me this herself.
thats the thing about cancer women too, you'll put up with a LOT of shyt just to stay in a relationship..
ya'll get dikk whipped pretty easy too..
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...no, girls with low self esteem and no sense of self worth do... the ones you met just so happened to be cancers
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girls with high self esteem can get dikk whipped too so stop fronting ma'am...
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ya'll sound dumb as hell because if you sayin a person has lo self esteem becuz they love that they man is having great sex with'em, then you might as well say a woman has low self esteem if they fall in love,period..
when a woman truly loves a man,and vice versa, they don't just hop up and leave the moment something negative happen....
thay why a lot of you females gonna be alone and is already alone because ya'll think everything suppose to revolve around you and yo dumb ass thoughts..
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Posted by gemtaur
LOL You're growing on me Damien.
So you're equating "dikk whipping" with "love"? You mean "making love" to a woman? You can say it. Be respectful of women, otherwise you're going to end up having women upping and leaving you.
So you're hurt because your woman left you because she's upset with you and you thought she was in love with you? Your woman's giving you the silent treatment, is she? That treatment is not the best method of communication, but it takes two to tango, so what have you done that has contributed to her upping and leaving you?

You have to own responsibility for your actions. I'm sure there are things you are doing that have resulted in her behaviour. Can you think of anything?



im still with the woman im talkin about..when i said "you don't just hop up and leave when something negative happen in a relationship", it was directed more towards the women on here..becuz judging from some of the comments, some of ya'll come off as uptight and phony, and couldn't survive a long lasting relationship..
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i didnt equate love with gettin whipped, im sayin u cant say a person has lo self esteem for falling IN love from good sex
and no i didn't do anything to make her act they way she acts sometimes..she just naturally have nutty ways..like most cancer women
did i answer your question now?
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U sure ur 30? smfh....bcuz u sound more like 13...i'm sorry but u should re-read what ur writing..o and it's" Cancer Women ARE nuts" not is...rotfl...get it 2gether..next forum
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Posted by gemtaur

now, if you don't know this and you are with a woman who is a cancer who requires a deep EMOTIONAL connection, then, i don't think it is a stretch of the imagination to think that perhaps her behaviour is in response to your inability to connect with her at an EMOTIONAL level?
what do you think?


see,thats where the problem comes in...because most men aren't all deeply emotional like that and can't relate to too much of that shyt..
and ya'll are so wrapped up in your own emotional needs that you begin to drain the person that care about you with all that crap..thats why i go hard on my girl sometimes because i get fed up with the soft shyt
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Posted by Cancershorti27
U sure ur 30? smfh....bcuz u sound more like 13...i'm sorry but u should re-read what ur writing..o and it's" Cancer Women ARE nuts" not is...rotfl...get it 2gether..next forum


thanks, but if we're judging people based on punctuation then you don't seem too bright either, shorti27
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nooo I'm judging you on the fact that you are placing all particular women in ONE catorgory.....and you just sound like you don't know what your talking about.....it's wrong the way you talk about your "girlfriend" smh... gn
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^^ we been together over 5 years, and before her i was with another cancer, so i got a pretty good idea of what im talking about..they weren't quite the same of course, but both of'em are extra with the emotional stuff..and to most men, to much emotion = CRAZY...
ya'll need to use your brains more often..thats all im sayin
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not to beat a dead horse but i just wanted to throw this out there:
lindsay lohan...nuts
courtney love......NUTS!
fantasia....................NUTS!!
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