cancerian disappointment

Hello fellow crabs
How do you guys deal with a disappointment ? I recently had lovely Leo girl go cold on me . Nothing I did wrong mind you Im a pretty chivalrous guy ,I suppose she wasn't feeling me . Oh well she doesn't know what she missed. All of my exs Still pop up and tell me that no one else treats them the way I did . So fellow cancers how do you deal with a disappointment? I sulked it for a few days and I'm good lol sorta never easy for me get over things that I'm passionate about .

When I'm disappointed I'm pretty much inconsolable lol. Depending on what the disappointment was, I can be in a bad mood for hours or days. My husband is also a Cancer and he never understands why when the littlest thing goes wrong it just totally screws me up for hours and I can't enjoy much else. Whether he realizes it or not, he does the same damn thing lol. That's something I'm working on though, not taking things so seriously and just shrugging my shoulders and moving on.