Cancerian girl told me to leave her

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by NY_xon on Tuesday, July 25, 2017 and has 4 replies.
Hello all,

never thought of astrology involing personality but with this girl I realised, that this assumption was a mistake. I feel bad about that but now I do kinda believe in astro, that's why I logged in...

I'd like to ask you all this. I was dating for a 2 months a cancerian girl after her break up with her long term bf, I was trying to do my best and I thought I did (let's say). She was feeling really happy and treated me very nicely in a romantic way, not the typical rebound "oh, let's DO IT, NOW" (not even close to our first date), she was so warm and I loved that (truthfulness of astro)... but then she slowly started behaving weirdly and told me that it's not a good time to visit her and told to me to leave her. I thought due to previous experiences that it's the best I can do for her because she was confused and I felt her fragility (naive or not, dont judge me). She started to treating me in silence but then told me she still loves me but she got back to her ex and that's why all the silence. Typicall attitude would be to not contact her and show her, who's the man («yeah, so man»). But I realised that she's a cancerian and maybe I'm totally wrong.

I do accept she got back to her ex, but not sure because of her mixed signals towards me.

Thanks in advance for your honest advice.
Posted by NY_xon
Hello all,

never thought of astrology involing personality but with this girl I realised, that this assumption was a mistake. I feel bad about that but now I do kinda believe in astro, that's why I logged in...

I'd like to ask you all this. I was dating for a 2 months a cancerian girl after her break up with her long term bf, I was trying to do my best and I thought I did (let's say). She was feeling really happy and treated me very nicely in a romantic way, not the typical rebound "oh, let's DO IT, NOW" (not even close to our first date), she was so warm and I loved that (truthfulness of astro)... but then she slowly started behaving weirdly and told me that it's not a good time to visit her and told to me to leave her. I thought due to previous experiences that it's the best I can do for her because she was confused and I felt her fragility (naive or not, dont judge me). She started to treating me in silence but then told me she still loves me but she got back to her ex and that's why all the silence. Typicall attitude would be to not contact her and show her, who's the man («yeah, so man»). But I realised that she's a cancerian and maybe I'm totally wrong.

I do accept she got back to her ex, but not sure because of her mixed signals towards me.

Thanks in advance for your honest advice.
I feel in the circumstances that you should accept the fact that she has gotten back with her ex although if things go badly with ex she may come back Cancers are keen on second chances so it's not really a surprise that she went back to him. If it's meant to be it'll happen give her space and respect her wishes and don't try to make her jealous she is likely not even thinking of you at the moment but if there is a chance of her coming jealousy may forever drive her away.
Thank you ladies. That's why I let her go... Just a little update (dont know what I was thinking yesterday) I was not dating her after break up, I was the reason for her break up and it's not her 2nd chance, it's more like 5th or 6th (she told me during our time) Winking
Posted by NY_xon
Thank you ladies. That's why I let her go... Just a little update (dont know what I was thinking yesterday) I was not dating her after break up, I was the reason for her break up and it's not her 2nd chance, it's more like 5th or 6th (she told me during our time) Winking
Cancerians try to save the last relationship as much as we can both unfortunately and fortunately. Sad This has happened to me and although the new person is better than my ex, I still went with my ex just because we had more memories and my feelings were deeper with her.

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