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Cancerian male backing off
Just let it go and give him space. If he wants you he will come back around and show you. Not with his words but his actions. Cancer men say a lot of things good and bad. Ive noticed when they are unsure they push and pull. But it's when his actions match his words you'll know it's real. They don't play around when they really want something with you. So if it's not there for him yet then don't force it just let him figure out what he wants and in the mean time do your thing without him.
I'm just like him. When I get close to someone new, I push them away because I'm scared. After I do this, I want them to chase me so we can be together. It also makes me feel loved and wanted. It's definitely messed up. I need help with that!!
I am a cancer btw
I am a cancer btw
I'm an aries and I know we can be pushy so I tamed this side of me to be more nurturing to him... should I give him more space or pursue him? I'm lost haha
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Drop the ball and walk away. Don't play games.
Please please aries save yourself endless pain that this cancer will eventually bestow on you and back off now...
He will only put water on your fire. Put out your energy and make your life miserable hell...
It's only been 2 months and look at the negative energy he is dishing out already. RUN
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