Can you explain to me what that means exactly? how do they go about it?
Cancers are good manipulators—
Very convincing liars, no remorse about treating badly someone they don't care about. If i don't know and love you, you're like cattle to me.
Reading emotions and what someone likes is useful for using them, tell them what you think they can believe easily, people are dumb, so it's not too difficult.
Reading emotions and what someone likes is useful for using them, tell them what you think they can believe easily, people are dumb, so it's not too difficult.
You know for a Cancer, you sound pretty harsh, cruel... I don't know?
YES,They are sometimes...like I'm sometimes.
What about you?
What about you?
I guess Yes! I'm a Leo so... yes Leo's are straight forward, no beating around the bush! That's why I don't like people that are manipulators, you have something to say - say it! I can't stand games, I'm very honest, if I like you you'll know, if i dont you'll also know!
Well, if you're talking about Directness...that is the last thing you should expect from a crab...they're Crabs(a bit of reading about them might come handy)...they will never directly go for something they want.If this bothers you then maybe you shouldn't be thinking of starting something with a crab.
Personally, I like the fact that they are subtle..it's more fun guessing!!
Personally, I like the fact that they are subtle..it's more fun guessing!!
You know Mr. Crabby, you Cancer people are SOOOO nice, sooo tender, sooo loving, sooo caring... I'd never ever think it would be possible for you people to be so manipulative, so cruel so mean... it doesn't make sense to me... i could almost say that you cancer people are two-faced?
Melusine, what is so fun in having to guess all the time what Cancer wants, why he said or did that? what does he mean? You want me, say so! Ask me out! Maybe i'm just too straight forward? it annoys the hell out of me!
How do you get what you want if you don't go DIRECTLY for what you want?
makes no sense!
How do they let someone know they're interested in them? with hints?
makes no sense!
How do they let someone know they're interested in them? with hints?
well, that's how cancers I know do it, they drop subtle hints that they like you.
If you encourage them they move a bit close to you...then take ten steps back...
you have to be patient..once they're sure you won't reject them...they'll just grab you
from behind when you least expect it.
If you encourage them they move a bit close to you...then take ten steps back...
you have to be patient..once they're sure you won't reject them...they'll just grab you
from behind when you least expect it.
Yes I did notice that, they get closer when you invite them, then... they move 10 steps back and leave you wondering What the hell happened? did i do something wrong? i've asked him and he'd say "oh nothing, nothing's wrong!" but i mean Im not stupid I did see it happening, so why is that?
I thought maybe i had scared him off, i don't know what to think sometimes, sometimes i thought is he playing a game? but now, he comes back around hours later and again everything seems fine!
But why do they do that? Was he frighten?
Please explain to me some more! ! Pleaaase!
I thought maybe i had scared him off, i don't know what to think sometimes, sometimes i thought is he playing a game? but now, he comes back around hours later and again everything seems fine!
But why do they do that? Was he frighten?
Please explain to me some more! ! Pleaaase!
Well, for one thing they are not playing games...that's the way they are...it's just that they don't like to push too hard or be overly aggressive in a relationship.When he makes up his mind he'll tell you directly. I think he's still not sure about you, which is why he's acting this way.
Cafrella..
This person needs space. If this person doesn't want to share his secrets, or he's having an issue.. why are you letting it stress you out? When he's ready to share, he will.
One thing I've learned from dating is that you cannot expect another person to communicate the way you communicate. I mean, I'm an Aries, and at times I can be direct--it's refreshing for some, but rattles others. Maybe your directness rattles him.. ever thought about that?
This person needs space. If this person doesn't want to share his secrets, or he's having an issue.. why are you letting it stress you out? When he's ready to share, he will.
One thing I've learned from dating is that you cannot expect another person to communicate the way you communicate. I mean, I'm an Aries, and at times I can be direct--it's refreshing for some, but rattles others. Maybe your directness rattles him.. ever thought about that?
I;m not letting it stress me out, it's just that one minute i think yes he's interested and the next... maybe not! and then oh there he is coming back! I like to know where I'm going! Maybe i need to be more patient, maybe i do rattle him a bit...
Mesuline, you said when he makes up his mind he'll tell me DIRECTLY! He will? i know they say when a cancer falls for you, grabs a hold of you they NEVER let go, it could happen overnite and they NEVER let go... how true is that? I can't picture him yet being directly!
Interested or not, unless he's single- what good can it be?
I mean to tell you the truth this relationship you're trying to have with him is gonna get tripped by the fact that he's living with someone else (happily or unhappily). Until he's single, he'll always have a ready-made excuse to distance himself from you.. and any kind of "closeness" you want from HIM... when he doesn't want to be bothered.
I mean to tell you the truth this relationship you're trying to have with him is gonna get tripped by the fact that he's living with someone else (happily or unhappily). Until he's single, he'll always have a ready-made excuse to distance himself from you.. and any kind of "closeness" you want from HIM... when he doesn't want to be bothered.
Please read and tell me what you think:
Watch a Cancer woman at a party, when she spots a man she is attracted to. Move straight in and begin a conversation? Never. She will circle around the room, studiously ignoring the desired object. She will chat brightly to everyone within range. She will somehow contrive to join a group standing nearby. She might succeed in spilling her drink an inch from his trouser leg, and probably not even be aware of what she is doing, in any calculating way. Cancer is an instinctive sign, doesn't like to analyse its own motives. But take the initiative directly? Never. That exposes her to possible rejection, humiliation or looking ridiculous. If you really want to see a Cancer terrified, threaten him with those things: rejection, humiliation, loss of face. Cancer is so sensitive, so vulnerable to other people's opinions of himself. That is, unless he absolutely trusts everyone present. Then anything might happen.
How true is this now? comments anyone? Mesuline I like to hear what you have to say!
Watch a Cancer woman at a party, when she spots a man she is attracted to. Move straight in and begin a conversation? Never. She will circle around the room, studiously ignoring the desired object. She will chat brightly to everyone within range. She will somehow contrive to join a group standing nearby. She might succeed in spilling her drink an inch from his trouser leg, and probably not even be aware of what she is doing, in any calculating way. Cancer is an instinctive sign, doesn't like to analyse its own motives. But take the initiative directly? Never. That exposes her to possible rejection, humiliation or looking ridiculous. If you really want to see a Cancer terrified, threaten him with those things: rejection, humiliation, loss of face. Cancer is so sensitive, so vulnerable to other people's opinions of himself. That is, unless he absolutely trusts everyone present. Then anything might happen.
How true is this now? comments anyone? Mesuline I like to hear what you have to say!
YES, in most cases that is how cancer males and females act.
If you really want him, you have to be patient with him.Most of them are charmingly old fashoined when it comes to relationships, even if he really likes you he might wait until this thing with the other woman is completely over.He wouldn't want to hurt her in anyway by betraying her trust...I think that's a good thing...don't you?
If you really want him, you have to be patient with him.Most of them are charmingly old fashoined when it comes to relationships, even if he really likes you he might wait until this thing with the other woman is completely over.He wouldn't want to hurt her in anyway by betraying her trust...I think that's a good thing...don't you?
Yes definitely! I like you! you're a good person are you Cancer? You seem to be a very sensitive person...
I'm just starting to understand Cancers... and yes they're special, different, we all are! but I really like him he's a sweetheart and if i have to be patient then... I will be.
I'm just starting to understand Cancers... and yes they're special, different, we all are! but I really like him he's a sweetheart and if i have to be patient then... I will be.
My harshness and cruelty towards those i don't care about can only be matched by my tenderness and affection towards those i love. My sun and rising being in cancer probably mean that i'm concentrated crab, for all the good and all the bad.
"He" doesn't seem manipulative, just cautious. I understand your confusion. Being so close and tender and stuff with the wrong person can be devastating and very hurtful, so we have to make sure all is fine before we go in. I'm like this in almost everything, i try to get the most information about something before going after it, cd, videogame, job, whatever, i don't care for surprises. Leos are often in the spotlight, so it's hard to find the right time. Even if the crab hides under his rock sometimes, you know he's there, right?
Oh, and it's M E L U S I N E, not Mesuline.
MISLEADING THREAD TITLE ALERT!!!
"He" doesn't seem manipulative, just cautious. I understand your confusion. Being so close and tender and stuff with the wrong person can be devastating and very hurtful, so we have to make sure all is fine before we go in. I'm like this in almost everything, i try to get the most information about something before going after it, cd, videogame, job, whatever, i don't care for surprises. Leos are often in the spotlight, so it's hard to find the right time. Even if the crab hides under his rock sometimes, you know he's there, right?
Oh, and it's M E L U S I N E, not Mesuline.
MISLEADING THREAD TITLE ALERT!!!
?If you really want to see a Cancer terrified, threaten him with those things: rejection, humiliation, loss of face. Cancer is so sensitive, so vulnerable to other people's opinions of himself.?
Are you sadist..? why would you do that..?? I suppose you got burned by cancers before..!!
You are smart..!.. do you have also some of those comments on Virgo too.??
Give it up already? you generalising things..
Are you sadist..? why would you do that..?? I suppose you got burned by cancers before..!!
You are smart..!.. do you have also some of those comments on Virgo too.??
Give it up already? you generalising things..
Qbone is HIIIIIIGH!!!!!!!11
Thank you Mr Crabby for correcting me! Sorry yes it is Melusine! My opinion of you is starting to change a little, a good change! You're a nice Mr. Crabby! Thank you I appreciate very much your input. I'm a Leo trying to understand Cancers! so i need to hear from others, what they think and it is clarifiyng things for me! thanks
I have to agree with mr.crabby's comment " Very convincing liars, no remorse about treating badly someone they don't care about. If i don't know and love you, you're like cattle to me "
I too can be that way from time to time, i can be your dream come true or your Nemesis.
Regarding Manipulation, i have a female Leo cousin and she is a serious manipulator, like i know something about her past that could totally screw a family situation up, if i was to tell what i know to my aunt and uncle, its a damn shame though and thier best off not knowing, what is worse though is she brags of her ways.
As Melusine points out we dont directly go for something that we want, cancer people are not two faced, but we do know when someone is taking advantage and if we do lose control or become nasty with someone its usually after taking a lot of nonsense and bottling it up for a while, in time we must release the tension like all others do.
Sometimes a crab will pretend that thier no longer interested in someone or something, in order to throw others off the scent, then when the rest have let down thier guard we pounce and use our little pinchers to crab what we have been watching the whole time, we are not so much manipulators but more strategic players, we look before we leap.
I too can be that way from time to time, i can be your dream come true or your Nemesis.
Regarding Manipulation, i have a female Leo cousin and she is a serious manipulator, like i know something about her past that could totally screw a family situation up, if i was to tell what i know to my aunt and uncle, its a damn shame though and thier best off not knowing, what is worse though is she brags of her ways.
As Melusine points out we dont directly go for something that we want, cancer people are not two faced, but we do know when someone is taking advantage and if we do lose control or become nasty with someone its usually after taking a lot of nonsense and bottling it up for a while, in time we must release the tension like all others do.
Sometimes a crab will pretend that thier no longer interested in someone or something, in order to throw others off the scent, then when the rest have let down thier guard we pounce and use our little pinchers to crab what we have been watching the whole time, we are not so much manipulators but more strategic players, we look before we leap.
Words right out of my mouth, Q.
Cafrella.
When I first started coming to dxp, I wanted to know all about virgos. Guess who was the first to answer me?
Fast-forward to today, and I know so much more about Virgos- but did that get me closer to the guy I had my eye on? NOPE.
This person, though cancer, is unique. To understand him, take time to get to know him. The fact that you have so many questions and confusions means you need more time to know him and understand how HE works.
Maybe you came here to be coddled.. or you may only want to hear how to seduce Cancers .. or maybe you just want seduce this man in particular.. but only in my humble opinion do I think this is a bad idea. Mainly because he's not single.
I'll even go a step further to tell you that if this guy is the one- then you should be taking time to know HIM..understand HIM as the Person.. not him, the cancer.
Cafrella.
When I first started coming to dxp, I wanted to know all about virgos. Guess who was the first to answer me?
Fast-forward to today, and I know so much more about Virgos- but did that get me closer to the guy I had my eye on? NOPE.
This person, though cancer, is unique. To understand him, take time to get to know him. The fact that you have so many questions and confusions means you need more time to know him and understand how HE works.
Maybe you came here to be coddled.. or you may only want to hear how to seduce Cancers .. or maybe you just want seduce this man in particular.. but only in my humble opinion do I think this is a bad idea. Mainly because he's not single.
I'll even go a step further to tell you that if this guy is the one- then you should be taking time to know HIM..understand HIM as the Person.. not him, the cancer.
Hey take it easy, yes of course I'm going to know him AS A PERSON! I'm just trying to understand Cancers, is that ok with you? I've never been with a cancer before, i have a girlfriend who's cancer and i'm learning a lot through her too... Don't worry, I know what I have to do and no i will not date someone who's attached... One day at a time and if it's meant to be... it will be.
Ok with you?
Ok with you?
Thats right, although an individual is of a particular sign, we all have different backgrounds, histories, upbringing etc, and all of these parts of peoples lives will affect how someone reacts, although it obvious that our stars play a part in things, thier not the whole picture.
Thank you all for your input! It's a little more clearer in my head!
cafrella
You will never understand a person by discussing about him/her with other people..!
Horoscopes and star signs are for those lamer that wouldn?t dare to appear in front and talk things out.
You will never understand a person by discussing about him/her with other people..!
Horoscopes and star signs are for those lamer that wouldn?t dare to appear in front and talk things out.
Why are you asking if it's ok with me? My opinion is no better or no worse than anyone else's... since this is your ideal, I only assumed you will do what you want- regardless of what I think.
Furthermore, you're on a public opinion forum. You posted questions.. that I assume is free to be answered by anyone. Cancer is on the door- but everyone is welcome. I discussed the topic as I saw it... up to you filter out what you want...
Take it easy? I didn't realize I was being rough. Not too long ago, you said you enjoy being direct and you hated manipulation. Here I am being direct.. I didn't beat around the bush as what I was thinking... Was I wrong?
Furthermore, you're on a public opinion forum. You posted questions.. that I assume is free to be answered by anyone. Cancer is on the door- but everyone is welcome. I discussed the topic as I saw it... up to you filter out what you want...
Take it easy? I didn't realize I was being rough. Not too long ago, you said you enjoy being direct and you hated manipulation. Here I am being direct.. I didn't beat around the bush as what I was thinking... Was I wrong?
For some reason I don't think YOU'RE a Cancer!
but that's ok!
but that's ok!
No.. I'm not a Cancer.. but like I said.. public forum.. it means everyone is invited. You're not a Cancer either.. yet you're posting here.
But it's ok Cafrella- you don't want to hear my input, I'll keep it moving.
But it's ok Cafrella- you don't want to hear my input, I'll keep it moving.
No i said: For some reason I don't think YOU'RE a Cancer!
but that's ok! THAT WAS FOR Qbone! and seizetheday thank you for your input, it's nice to hear different things from different people!
but that's ok! THAT WAS FOR Qbone! and seizetheday thank you for your input, it's nice to hear different things from different people!
Ooooo, internet 'tude, awesome.
I guess! You can feel it too hey!
I don't feel the need to say anything...I just wanted you all to know I was here!
Gotta be included...
Gotta be included...
Hi Cancerlady!
I missed you, I thought i'd have more of your input earlier but didn't hear from you *sigh*
I missed you, I thought i'd have more of your input earlier but didn't hear from you *sigh*
I actually had some work to do...Damn job!
That's ok!
Like the horse! It's a cute one!
Like the horse! It's a cute one!
The horse is winking at me 🙂
Yeah you wish!
😉
i just checked out your photos for the first time cancerlady
You see my new belly pics? I just took those today & posted them.
I have to take new one's once a week otherwise my mother feels like she's missing out!
I have to take new one's once a week otherwise my mother feels like she's missing out!
Okaaaay QBOne,lol.Then why u here?
Before u make ur statement with being logical or otherwise,look what u wrote.
look at ur coocafrella
You will never understand a person by discussing about him/her with other people..!
Horoscopes and star signs are for those lamer that wouldn?t dare to appear in front and talk things out.
Before u make ur statement with being logical or otherwise,look what u wrote.
look at ur coocafrella
You will never understand a person by discussing about him/her with other people..!
Horoscopes and star signs are for those lamer that wouldn?t dare to appear in front and talk things out.
Call it curiosity?.
🙂
🙂
cancerlady - yeah i seen the new belly pics 🙂 how long for you to go now? looking healthy and happy in the photos
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I wanted to say you one thing:
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But that one is unnecessary, because God already SCREWED YOU ALL!
Thank you.
PS: Hey Cancerlady whats up?
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Thank you.
PS: Hey Cancerlady whats up?
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