So it's been a while but so my cancer guy
Well a couple weeks back like I said how he was acting different and not texting or making time to see me so I confronted him
And he told me that he didn't see me that way or felt the spark so of course it hurt but eventually I moved on and dated this other guy (Virgo)
Then he dated this guy and it hurt but me being a Scorpio I moved on,.. Then he told me "the guy and I ended up wanting to be friends only" and at this time i was talking to this new guy already so I was like "hope for the best, You will find someone" etc.
But now the cancer guy recently coming back saying he didn't mean what he said that he takes it back and wants me to take him back and that he was scared of his feelings and commitment but wants me to take him back and he's come to realization and doesn't wanna lose me.
And now he's coming off stronger and clinger then before and saying he's mine forever talk and family and kids and wedding talk like really strong
It's hard for me to believe his words now and I wanna know why is he all of sudden coming back? Is it because I'm with someone new or he actually did like me but was scared? I wanna believe him but he already made me put my guard up.
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Mar 10, 2012Comments: 136 · Posts: 9227 · Topics: 154
Do you want this Cancer guy or are you just confused by his behavior?
What do you want from him, what's the end game?
He's either a wack job, like most of you guys are these days.
Or the fact that you moved on and became aloof towards him gave him the stimulation and spark he needed to pursue you.
He's looking for something.
Many Cardinal signs are GREAT starters but we are poor finishers, we even have a tough time maintaining the stamina in between.
This is where you as a Fixed come in.
Don't take over, just maintain and guide it forward.
My advice is to maintain an aloof persona showing little interest.
Let him think he is winning you over.
Keep dating the Virgo.
How is your relationship with the Virgo btw?
Scorp - he has you exactly where he wanted you to be. Irrespective of sign you are happier with your newer guy. The cancer guy only came back because he knows how good he has it with you and soon he will be playing this game all over again! The virgo guy has done you no harm and thats what you need - someone considerate and caring.
Think this over and make your own choice!