Cancers please help me understand y'all !!
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by BeautyandTheBull on Friday, September 1, 2017 and has 9 replies.
I'm just so frustrated ! & annoyed !!! His fucking communication SUCKS! I have to constantly ask questions because he don't !! When I'm fucking pissed he doesn't text back at all idk if that's because he don't giva F or he just doesn't wanna make it worst ! He says I over analyze things maybe I do but that does not excuse his lack of communication !! Like I thought Taurus and cancers were compatible ! Ugh so exhausting ...
Okay my rant is over ! Sorry I had to get this out lol
Okay my rant is over ! Sorry I had to get this out lol
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I normally reply right away cause I dont like tension between me and my person, but im a female cancer. Not sure how much different male cancers are.. But disregarding the zodiac signs, he might not care enough? Sorry to say. But it's you who can feel if he does or doesn't, so maybe you can judge for yourself..
I honestly have tried letting him go he won't let me .. because he's been chasing me for 5 years blah blah crap .. I do get a good morning text every morning he answers all my calls maybe it's text thing .. ? But it drives me nuts because sometimes I'm not able to call him but I wanna talk to him
If you let him back in he'll never change. Be clear with what you need from him and ice him out if he doesn't deliver. No more answering gm texts.
We Cancers can be assholes sometimes but I need a reason so that me bein a jerk is called for. I'm not gonna just be rude just for the hell of it. I guess this is where the different houses, cusps and all that comes into play. Sounds like he just inconsiderate.
You come off strong. You're a little intimidating. If you're like this to him, it might be scaring him- resulting in him hiding in his shell and not wanting to answer you or talk to you at all.
Posted by Astrology101Yes. Be soft. Show your feminine side. Don't yell or accuse him of anything. Try to talk it out calmlyPosted by pinkbird03So you need to handle him very gently?
You come off strong. You're a little intimidating. If you're like this to him, it might be scaring him- resulting in him hiding in his shell and not wanting to answer you or talk to you at all.click to expand
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I think you're on differently wave lengths .
my cancer doesn't reply a lot, even ignore me. I know he opens my text and read them though , when I feel like saying something or telling him about what happen I just tell him. if he has something to say back , he will. these days he's also my friend so when I see something that reminds me of him I just send them to him. he usually doesn't respond . and then days where he feels like talking he would talk to me all day.
Im in no rush to know absolutely everything about him because I would hope im gonna be with him for the rest of my life. we have all the time in the world to learn things about each other
my cancer doesn't reply a lot, even ignore me. I know he opens my text and read them though , when I feel like saying something or telling him about what happen I just tell him. if he has something to say back , he will. these days he's also my friend so when I see something that reminds me of him I just send them to him. he usually doesn't respond . and then days where he feels like talking he would talk to me all day.
Im in no rush to know absolutely everything about him because I would hope im gonna be with him for the rest of my life. we have all the time in the world to learn things about each other
Kinda sounds like you're pushing a bit too much. Us cancers love to miss you a little. But if your ALL UP IN OUR STUFF. Mental or otherwise. You can make it hard for us to miss you at all. So the magic here is just stay silent and wait. If he gets nervous and thinks you might be off doing or god forbid seeing someone else it gets unbearable if we really care about you. but the opposite is true too. If you go silent and we don't care it won't make any difference at all. Follow your feeling on this. Sometimes the communication just isn't there and if that's something you fundamentally need a truckload of then keep searching girl. He's out there. Don't wait too long though you have better things and people to do and see.
One thing I've learned over time is that there are so MANY people put there. There's always going to be someone new and exciting in our paths don't forget that. And if you do talk to him make a pro and con list about all the things you need and want in a relationship with him. And once you go over that you should be in a far better place than you've been. All the best to you....Yoda of the Matrix
One thing I've learned over time is that there are so MANY people put there. There's always going to be someone new and exciting in our paths don't forget that. And if you do talk to him make a pro and con list about all the things you need and want in a relationship with him. And once you go over that you should be in a far better place than you've been. All the best to you....Yoda of the Matrix
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