Rainbow87
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Cancers what actions would you take if someone insulted you?
Cancer rising here.
I lived with leo and he would insult me all the time. I would go to a few hiding places around town to avoid him.
I eventually left in the middle of the day while he was out. He was the only person on the lease so I chucked up the deuces.
I say take some time off. Airbnb was NOT around for me, but it is for you.
While at the airbnb, gather your thoughts. Then put together a game plan on getting him out.
That's yo darn house. Not his.
Handle him with logic. Zero emotion.
Handle him like he nothing more than a begger.
I lived with leo and he would insult me all the time. I would go to a few hiding places around town to avoid him.
I eventually left in the middle of the day while he was out. He was the only person on the lease so I chucked up the deuces.
I say take some time off. Airbnb was NOT around for me, but it is for you.
While at the airbnb, gather your thoughts. Then put together a game plan on getting him out.
That's yo darn house. Not his.
Handle him with logic. Zero emotion.
Handle him like he nothing more than a begger.
Posted by Rainbow87
What would you do in my situation?
I don't want to go back to my own apartment because all I want to do is avoid him so badly. I don't want to see him or speak to him. If I go back and tell him to just leave I will let him get away with what he did and he deserves to feel some pain just as I have felt it all the time I dealt with him.
Any thoughts?
Call your local police station and ask them to send an officer to help get his bum ass out. Apartment is in your name.
And you have all those mean text messages which establish that he is unbalanced at best and abusive at worst.
Girl if you dont find a way to get that no good bastard out of your home ASAP! Disrespectful, ungrateful and and a leech?!?! Oh ho. Where are your brothers...uncles...father etc—
If you have no male figures to help you with this issue then you need to go to the precinct and express fear for your life and get a restraining order. Let them know thats your home and he won't leave.
That's where you'll win.
If you have no male figures to help you with this issue then you need to go to the precinct and express fear for your life and get a restraining order. Let them know thats your home and he won't leave.
That's where you'll win.
It could be as simple as telling him to leave or as complicated as serving an eviction to an "at will tenant."
Posted by Rainbow87
Before you give me an answer please read my story so you can understand my situation.
I know I've been posting a lot about my relationship and I think it has come to an end unfortunately. Early this morning my boyfriend sent me like 50 messages in which he insulted and offended me. I have never insulted him. He pretty much gets mad for everything.
As a Cancer I feel extremely offended that I don't even want to respond to his messages or see him, but the problem is that he lives with me. The apartment is mine and I could just tell him to leave but I feel like he will win because he already made me feel like crap so I feel that I should do something about this. I pretty much want him to feel like I'm dead. I want him to regret every word he said and not because I care anymore but because I'm a good person and he's the psycho that has issues.
What would you do in my situation?
I don't want to go back to my own apartment because all I want to do is avoid him so badly. I don't want to see him or speak to him. If I go back and tell him to just leave I will let him get away with what he did and he deserves to feel some pain just as I have felt it all the time I dealt with him.
Any thoughts?
It could be as simple as telling him to leave or as complicated as serving an eviction to an "at will tenant."(I hate when I forget to quote.)
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I know I've been posting a lot about my relationship and I think it has come to an end unfortunately. Early this morning my boyfriend sent me like 50 messages in which he insulted and offended me. I have never insulted him. He pretty much gets mad for everything.
As a Cancer I feel extremely offended that I don't even want to respond to his messages or see him, but the problem is that he lives with me. The apartment is mine and I could just tell him to leave but I feel like he will win because he already made me feel like crap so I feel that I should do something about this. I pretty much want him to feel like I'm dead. I want him to regret every word he said and not because I care anymore but because I'm a good person and he's the psycho that has issues.
What would you do in my situation?
I don't want to go back to my own apartment because all I want to do is avoid him so badly. I don't want to see him or speak to him. If I go back and tell him to just leave I will let him get away with what he did and he deserves to feel some pain just as I have felt it all the time I dealt with him.
Any thoughts?