I am a Capricorn man needing advice on a Cancer woman.
This Cancer woman, and I have had a few years of flirting when we were around at a bar she frequents. Pretty heavy remarks from her sexually suggestive. She had a boyfriend until recently. When I was with some friends, she came out the the bar.
She mentioned how she was single, she needs time, and then asked my friends girls about me, telling them how hot I am and how I smell good. We talked a bit, and when I was leaving I said goodbye, she asked me to walk her to her car. I did, and there she kissed me and made more comments about members of my anatomy.
She made sure I had her number, and I chalked her talk up to the booze, and her reeling from the breakup that she wanted a bit of a ego boost. Regardless, there is energy between us. I texted the next day, and the weekend came, where she was moving out her stuff from her ex's. I assumed she may need space so didn't text that weekend. Monday, I texted her and she was distant, then went dark. A week later (Sunday) I got back from the lake and texted to see how her weekend went, no response. Then Monday, I sent a (hows your day going) text and 6-7 hours later she replied that she was sorry but left her phone at home. Following the advice of a non cancer woman, I didn't respond. Now over a week later, I hit her up and say (how have you been?). Nothing. Still dark.
I'm not sure how to take this after she tells everyone she is into me, and I am into her, but there is no way for us to run into each other and she never responds. Whenever we are around each other she marks her territory, and flirts, and the energy is there, but there i am out in the cold of late.
So I need advice from you wonderful cancer women. What is going on? What should I do to get back into the picture? I am a Cap through and through, so this is my only means to not feel helpless in it all (The biggest Cap crutch is feeling like we cannot do anything).
Sounds like you are just too Needy!
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Mar 10, 2015Comments: 2 · Posts: 418 · Topics: 26
Cancers do not let go easily. So when breaking up, even if its her choice or even when the relationship was bad, she has a hard time. So she is mourning....have patience...
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Sep 07, 2011Comments: 298 · Posts: 5049 · Topics: 48
She's gone dark because she's detaching from something she was once close to and trusted.
Keep contact but also keep that in mind.
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Jun 27, 2016Comments: 975 · Posts: 5791 · Topics: 44
I'm a cancer and I do not let go of exs easily. It takes me a long time to heal. Doesn't sound like she's ready to move on yet. And the fact that she still had to move out of her exs place is heartbreaking enough.
Also, maybe she's totally embarrassed about what happened when she was drunk. I'm guilty of that!
Lastly, as a cancer women dating a cap man I can tell you this- we love attention we love more of the semi aggressive type because we love to talk and show our emotions. You like space more than us. You move too slow and don't show as much feeling as we'd like.
I think you still have a chance though! This girl needs someone to take care of her right now. Show her you can do that!
How are u so sure that she didn't patch up with his ex...she went for moving some stuff from her ex's or something...maybe they clicked again
We,cancerians don't really let go of our love that easily...we do everything possible to bring it back on the right track
She deliberatley gave u her phone number and then poof!!! The ex thing is back Imo
Sound like she's busy from the break up she had...bad move you made was not replying to her when she finally hit you up.. why are you chasing her? Is it because you want to get to know her or you just chasing sex?