Cappy meets Cabby Part 2 (Sorry this is long too)

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by cappysweetie on Saturday, March 18, 2006 and has 4 replies.
hi cappy, i presume your a capricorn girl with much more sense and restrain than me an aries girl....
i was exactly in the same situation as you are ......... lol its funny , when i read ur first post i thought i was reading my life....
i deeply loved my cancer man, he behaved with me EXACTLY how ur crab is behaving with you. he said we will be 'friends'........... but OMG friendshipo has a totally different meaning, they just use it to protect themselves, so that at any time they can turn around and tell u that i only like you as a friend, no matter even if their actions are totally the opposite......
initially he behaved as he was falling in love with me, he was sooooo wonderful, i was totally open about my feelings for him.......... so bascically what happened was that he knew exactly how i felt for him , while he kept me guessing, hinting all the time, but never committing........
i feel bad now when i think about it, i really loved him, and he was only playing around with my feelings.........
i went thru the same crap,,, he would be wonderful one day and then disappear for days without a call, then suddenly bounce back in without any explanation, oh yes and one more thing if he said or did something to make me angry then well he would never call up and apologise or try to clarify things,........ he would just disappear for days and then call cracking some joke, being very funny and not discuss anything serious ever.........
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oh yes and to continue the story, well this went on for 7 months, until once day he told my friend that he wasnt interested in anything serious with me!!!!!!! imagine my horror...... this man had been talking to me day and night , professsing just how much he cares for me, how attracted he is to me, talking about our marriage!!!!!!!!!...... about how much i was like his mother would have been 40 yrs ago, about how he worshipped everytihing about me etc etc.......... i cud goo on n on.........
he was also like ur guy obssessed about my previous relationships and the phyisical aspect of it, since im quite young and without experience he seemed very pleased with that!!........
well i still think about that night, when i cried my heart out, i had never been so heart broken........ neways this was his game giving hope under the garb of friendship,,, and it works i suppose with silly girls like us, im sure there were many girls he gave his garbage to....
neways once he told my friend that, he knew that the very next minute my friend would tell me exactly what he said........ tht night i waited in vain for his call, for him to say something, ohh anything, that he didnt quite meaan it the way it sounded or anything....... but no , no call came, it came the next night, by then i cried my heart out, neways i was out n we cudnt talk, he told me to call him but i didnt, so he called next morning then, i told him i was sleeping and wud call him later......... i called later AT which he told me an abrupt im in a meeting will call you later......... i had called him fully prepared with what to say.......... so i said ok.........
he never called, i waited n waited but it didnt come, i thinkhe knew tht this time it was serious coz i didnt call him either (otherwise every other time i used to offer the olive branch like one big doormat), neways aftre like a month he sends me a stupid forwarded email, u know the kinds where if i accepted he would know......... basically he was testing to see whether i was still angry or whether he cud get back to his fooling around........ i didnt reply to anything.
so then 20 days later he visits my town, he lives far away, and he calls me crkcing some silly joke, i was very cool on the phone, he asked me if anything was wrong but i said no nothing at all........ neways he spoke to me for half hour talking all nonsense.... and then he said he was here so i should call him later.... i didnt call him.......... so then next day he again calls me , he said u didnt sound all right yesterday, i said no all was fine, i couldnt talk much at the time coz i was with ppl, so he said ok you'll call me rite , im leaving tommo evening...... i said ok....... and we hungup.... it was the last time we ever spoke...
i never called him, i was too hurt to let this go on........ even though not calling him almost killed me....... anyways in hiondsight it was the right decision.
he didnt call me but tried getting in touch via silly emails, btw no personal emails, u know stuff like join this e-group etc..... join his frd group online and such shit, i never joined anything he sent me, there was just no contact.
then finally 2 months ago he again mailed me one of those things and i did click on it, so then he mailed me a personal mail , very polite and decent , i mailed a similar one back to him as well very polite and cordial, he hasnt yet replied to it...... he is like that never replies to a mail he gets today, he will reply after 20 days........ neways im not going to be hurt again i pray........ he can mail if he likes or call or msg or do whatever, as far as im concerned im not angry anymore, nor do i hate him, but since this was the first (and i hope last) time in my life that a guy treated me so casually played around with my feelings, i think i will remember it for a long time to come..

ONE LONG REPLY CAPPY!! i hope ur guy is not fooling
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And yes I'm a capricorn with a sagittrius cusp and he's a cancer with gemini cusp.
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I don't know if i'm being objective here but I would make the suggestion that you should confront this person face to face and set him straight. Personally, I dislike email/phone confrontations or explanations.. face to face always worked better for me.
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