Christmas message

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by britneybabe26 on Wednesday, December 23, 2015 and has 38 replies.
Should I sent my Cancer crush a Merry Christmas Text? Would they like it? We have been intimate and going out. Thanks
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Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMember
Uh, did he break up with you?

If he broke up with you, then you should say NOTHING to him.

Sending text messages to a person after they broke up with you is GROVELING.

Remember what Tecumseh said,


No he not very broke up with me.were not in a relationship yet were still in contact.
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Ok Gemini, that confused me when combined with your OP:

Posted by britneybabe26
Should I sent my Cancer crush a Merry Christmas Text? Would they like it? We have been intimate and going out. Thanks

What is the nature of your relation to this guy?

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BTW, if you're NOT in a relationship, "my Cancer" is not the correct terminology.
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*Psycho theme music fills the thread*
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Posted by kissmygrits
*Psycho theme music fills the thread*

Yeah. Brought back a Gem flashback. *shudder*
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Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Ok Gemini, that confused me when combined with your OP:

Posted by britneybabe26
Should I sent my Cancer crush a Merry Christmas Text? Would they like it? We have been intimate and going out. Thanks

What is the nature of your relation to this guy?


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We are seeing each other but its long distance, its casual
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Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMember
Hmm, so what in the hell are you two?

Does he take you to dinner and buy you flowers and stuff like that, or what?

Yes dinner and we were intimate once
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But I don't think you have to be In a relationship to say Merry Christmas...we know each other 3 months now, but I'm just wondering if its cool to send a text like that or better just put it on Facebook?
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Posted by scorpx3
If you're on fairly good terms, I don't see the reason why you shouldn't send a Merry Christmas text message to your crush...just saying. It's not like he broke your heart or anything, so what made you ask this question?


I guess its the Gemini in me...I keep saying its OK and then I think no maybe you shouldn't haha
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Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
BTW, if you're NOT in a relationship, "my Cancer" is not the correct terminology.

Why not? He is HER Cancer crush. The 'crush' is the subject of the question, 'Cancer' is the adjective. smile
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Posted by britneybabe26
Should I sent my Cancer crush a Merry Christmas Text? Would they like it? We have been intimate and going out. Thanks

Only if you have had direct contact in the last week or ten days. If no actual talking (not FB likes), then I say no. See if he wished you a Merry Christmas instead.
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Posted by britneybabe26
Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Ok Gemini, that confused me when combined with your OP:

Posted by britneybabe26
Should I sent my Cancer crush a Merry Christmas Text? Would they like it? We have been intimate and going out. Thanks

What is the nature of your relation to this guy?



We are seeing each other but its long distance, its casual
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Ok. Then there shouldn't be a problem with a simple wishing of a Merry Christmas
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Posted by GalOnTheCusp
Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
BTW, if you're NOT in a relationship, "my Cancer" is not the correct terminology.

Why not? He is HER Cancer crush. The 'crush' is the subject of the question, 'Cancer' is the adjective. smile
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I thought about that after I posted.
A bit sensitive to that-too many threads het posted here that start with "my Cancer man" where it is obvious sad Cancer was not truly "her's"
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Posted by britneybabe26
Should I sent my Cancer crush a Merry Christmas Text? Would they like it? We have been intimate and going out. Thanks

Y are you making simple shit hard.

Just fucking text him it


You won't look like a creeper

He will either think it is sweet or generic and superficial ( not because you are Gemini),

Because it is a generic phrase.

Don't get too mushy would be my advice.
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Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Posted by GalOnTheCusp
Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
BTW, if you're NOT in a relationship, "my Cancer" is not the correct terminology.

Why not? He is HER Cancer crush. The 'crush' is the subject of the question, 'Cancer' is the adjective. smile

I thought about that after I posted.
A bit sensitive to that-too many threads het posted here that start with "my Cancer man" where it is obvious sad Cancer was not truly "her's"
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Yes, it gets a little stalker-possessive. I'm sure I'm guilty of having phrased it that way as well.
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Posted by frostey91
Posted by britneybabe26
Should I sent my Cancer crush a Merry Christmas Text? Would they like it? We have been intimate and going out. Thanks

Y are you making simple shit hard.

Just fucking text him it


You won't look like a creeper

He will either think it is sweet or generic and superficial ( not because you are Gemini),

Because it is a generic phrase.

Don't get too mushy would be my advice.
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Yeah you're right.
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No. You'd be better off walking away from him. When a Cancer isn't serious about you, gestures like that are taken as interest in your part which is then used at their convenience for entertainment. When they know you care and will be there for them when they want you to be, they'll use you and leave you when they feel like it, because they never made a commitment to you, and you made yourself available to them. Don't be part of that game.
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Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMember
Uh, did he break up with you?

If he broke up with you, then you should say NOTHING to him.

Sending text messages to a person after they broke up with you is GROVELING.

Remember what Tecumseh said,


Oooh I like that.

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Posted by britneybabe26
Should I sent my Cancer crush a Merry Christmas Text? Would they like it? We have been intimate and going out. Thanks

He hasn't called?
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Posted by M00Nchild
No. You'd be better off walking away from him. When a Cancer isn't serious about you, gestures like that are taken as interest in your part which is then used at their convenience for entertainment. When they know you care and will be there for them when they want you to be, they'll use you and leave you when they feel like it, because they never made a commitment to you, and you made yourself available to them. Don't be part of that game.

It depends on how lavish and over the top she is with hypothetical text and future texts.

Just saying Merry Christmas or something short like that should not be a big deal.

To your point with showing interest too early that happens with any sign.

It's really a coin flip.

She has nothing to lose .

She will soon see his true character
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Posted by frostey91
Posted by M00Nchild
No. You'd be better off walking away from him. When a Cancer isn't serious about you, gestures like that are taken as interest in your part which is then used at their convenience for entertainment. When they know you care and will be there for them when they want you to be, they'll use you and leave you when they feel like it, because they never made a commitment to you, and you made yourself available to them. Don't be part of that game.

It depends on how lavish and over the top she is with hypothetical text and future texts.

Just saying Merry Christmas or something
short like that should not be a big deal.

To your point with showing interest too early that happens with any sign.

It's really a coin flip.

She has nothing to lose .

She will soon see his true character
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I agree it's just Merry Christmas , I thought cancer Men act like they are the prize? They like that you care. Its not like I'm saying Merry Christmas I want to fuck you now
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Posted by Montgomery
Posted by britneybabe26
Should I sent my Cancer crush a Merry Christmas Text? Would they like it? We have been intimate and going out. Thanks

He hasn't called?
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No
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Posted by M00Nchild
No. You'd be better off walking away from him. When a Cancer isn't serious about you, gestures like that are taken as interest in your part which is then used at their convenience for entertainment. When they know you care and will be there for them when they want you to be, they'll use you and leave you when they feel like it, because they never made a commitment to you, and you made yourself available to them. Don't be part of that game.

Seriously? A merry Christmas message? Its not like I'm saying Mery Christmas I want to fuck you
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Posted by frostey91
Posted by M00Nchild
No. You'd be better off walking away from him. When a Cancer isn't serious about you, gestures like that are taken as interest in your part which is then used at their convenience for entertainment. When they know you care and will be there for them when they want you to be, they'll use you and leave you when they feel like it, because they never made a commitment to you, and you made yourself available to them. Don't be part of that game.

It depends on how lavish and over the top she is with hypothetical text and future texts.

Just saying Merry Christmas or something short like that should not be a big deal.

To your point with showing interest too early that happens with any sign.

It's really a coin flip.

She has nothing to lose .

She will soon see his true character
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I don't text him everyday no
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Posted by britneybabe26
Posted by frostey91
Posted by M00Nchild
No. You'd be better off walking away from him. When a Cancer isn't serious about you, gestures like that are taken as interest in your part which is then used at their convenience for entertainment. When they know you care and will be there for them when they want you to be, they'll use you and leave you when they feel like it, because they never made a commitment to you, and you made yourself available to them. Don't be part of that game.

It depends on how lavish and over the top she is with hypothetical text and future texts.

Just saying Merry Christmas or something short like that should not be a big deal.

To your point with showing interest too early that happens with any sign.

It's really a coin flip.

She has nothing to lose .

She will soon see his true character

I don't text him everyday no
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Never said you did
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Posted by britneybabe26
Posted by Montgomery
Posted by britneybabe26
Should I sent my Cancer crush a Merry Christmas Text? Would they like it? We have been intimate and going out. Thanks

He hasn't called?

No
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Sooo.... this feels like a good way to make some kind (any kind) of connection.

I wouldn't do it, personally.





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A short Christmas wish without any particularly personal message is just fine.
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Posted by britneybabe26
I'm just wondering if its cool to send a text like that or better just put it on Facebook?

....what a strange world we live in..
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Posted by incandescentcancer
A short Christmas wish without any particularly personal message is just fine.

Thank you!
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Posted by BlackNova
Posted by Montgomery
Posted by britneybabe26
Posted by Montgomery
Posted by britneybabe26
Should I sent my Cancer crush a Merry Christmas Text? Would they like it? We have been intimate and going out. Thanks

He hasn't called?

No

Sooo.... this feels like a good
way to make some kind (any kind) of connection.

I wouldn't do it, personally.







But they've been intimate and going out!
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Exactly!
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Posted by BlackNova
Posted by Montgomery
Posted by britneybabe26
Posted by Montgomery
Posted by britneybabe26
Should I sent my Cancer crush a Merry Christmas Text? Would they like it? We have been intimate and going out. Thanks

He hasn't called?

No

Sooo.... this feels like a good way to make some kind (any kind) of connection.

I wouldn't do it, personally.







But they've been intimate and going out!
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And, lo!

He still calleth not!



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Posted by duchesslibro
Posted by britneybabe26
I'm just wondering if its cool to send a text like that or better just put it on Facebook?

....what a strange world we live in..
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Tell me about it. Both men and women have made the whole relationship process garbage, it's not even worth it anymore.
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You were intimate one time and he lives in another state. I gave you my opinion based on what you told me, but you're gonna do what you wanna do.
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Posted by BlackMamba
Posted by M00Nchild
No. You'd be better off walking away from him. When a Cancer isn't serious about you, gestures like that are taken as interest in your part which is then used at their convenience for entertainment. When they know you care and will be there for them when they want you to be, they'll use you and leave you when they feel like it, because they never made a commitment to you, and you made yourself available to them. Don't be part of that game.

Sounds like what a Virgo would do!


It's just a text nothing crazy! You guys make us out to be insane!

Please stop! Not every crab is this fuked up!
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Thank you mamba!
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Uh if u know them why not
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Well I didn't send him the Merry Christmas text after all to see if he would first and he didn't so I am bummed.
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Posted by DonnaElvira77
Posted by britneybabe26
Well I didn't send him the Merry Christmas text after all to see if he would first and he didn't so I am bummed.

Nothing would have come from the text. So even if you had sent it you would still be bummed. Just like even if you had called him you would still be bummed. Cux he isn't in to you.

Go watch a funny movie and kiss someone on New Years! Not him though! Cux even if you kiss him ....you will still be bummed! Kiss someone else!!!!! Can't stress this enough!

You are lovely
gorgeous. Lots of guys want to kiss you on New Year's!
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Thank you but its so hard when I am so attracted to him. We were intimate, he wanted to see me, he persued and now criquets... You would think at least a Merry Christmas..:-/
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