Coming Out of the Closet

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by clingyKarens on Wednesday, April 9, 2014 and has 6 replies.
im just coming out as bi on here because its kinda driving me nuts that i can't tell anyone IRL except for 1 cousin and my pisces bff, you know to avoid drama with my cousin and my parents and the fact that im sooooo not ready for everyone to know. i know i should be brave because i didn't choose it, its how i feel blah blah blah, im just not ready. and Luckily for me the person im seeing understands (shes completely lesbian btw)
So im not sure if i only posted about her on this board too (i dd on the virgo board). a colleaugue of mine who's a virgo/libra cusper who happens to be my girlfriend now (as it would turn out, i'm bisexual) shes the first woman im attracted to though so im a bi-virgin. anyway, that's what all that drama with my fam about (i created a "cancer drama" thread). anyway, what i wana know is wat do you think of our pairing/compatibility?
Me Her
moon sag moon leo
mer leo mer libra
mars taur mars libra
ven cancer venus scorpio
i dont know her asc though

You may not be bi. A lot of women your age explore the same sex thing. It is often joked about in modern culture sit-coms. You will know when you are 27. Same for males are you straight or gay is defined by 27.
After this birthday you brain defines what it is. So you could be straight, gay, or bi up until 27 is when you will know in your heart of hearts what you are.
Posted by CluelessCancer
LMAO it took a Virgo to make you go gay huh...shiet.
Anyways obviously very compatible. Your moon signs are compatible, your sextile...
Virgo doesn't know what she got herself into does she...


I'm pretty convinced its the Libra in her that got me hooked.
Posted by caster721
Wow! Finally u two are dating....mmmmh! If cancer/virgo (male/female) doesn't work'out. Maybe bi will.
I think u two are in for a loooooooooooong committed relationship, considering ur sun signs and ur venus..... They are compatible.

i hope so because i really like her
Posted by miamivirgo
You may not be bi. A lot of women your age explore the same sex thing. It is often joked about in modern culture sit-coms. You will know when you are 27. Same for males are you straight or gay is defined by 27.
After this birthday you brain defines what it is. So you could be straight, gay, or bi up until 27 is when you will know in your heart of hearts what you are.

i am kind of hoping that i never like another girl, i mean i can't imagine marrying a woman. even though i am open to the idea of falling in love with this one, i don't want to be bi, men are delicious! and iv analyzed this a hundred times, trying to make sure that im not in denial or something. when i told the pisces that she said "basically u'll dump her for dick one day" so trust me i know bad it sounds.
i think im confused somehow. i don't like that i'm confused. i think i don't like that not perfect (if i was perfect i wouldn't be confused) fuck that Virgo rising in me.
meh. im tired of thinking
anyways thank you guys for the responses and not judging,i have/i'll endure enough of that IRL

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