Competition—

Ive been dating this guy for a while and he hasthis female friend/distant cousin that suddenly surfaced after she broke up with her boyfriend. At first I didn't think nothing of it esp since she lives accros country but I began noticing that anytime I left a comment on his facebook she would leave something right after. Then if we were in a fight and didn't talk for a couple days she was all over his page leaving comments that were somewhat flirty. But if he had a status that I commented on she wouldnt have anything to say. I know im not crazy and I can see shes doing all this on purpose.

So I bring it up to him and he says stop being psycho shes my cousin. Im not being jelouse but i feel like this girl is leaving these comments purposely to spite me.

So to resolve the matter we decided to delete each other from our facebook accounts since it causes too much problems and i was totally cool with that.

Now this bitch follows me over to his sisters facebook. Shes leaving comments like "Oh ur brother told me what happend but his phone was breakin up last night i couldnt understand him". And shes all over her page now too. Prior to me she had never left any comments on his lil sis's page so I know i'm not crazy now.

How do I deal with this girl?

I don't understand the facebook thing, facebook is facebook, and she's his cousin so...ew?

She might be just clinging on to him since she lost her bf, maybe she has her ex on her facebook and is leaving comments on purpose.
Either way, your being kinda unreasonable in that thats his cousin, unless he's into that sorta thing, then just chill out 🙂

I totally have been ignoring her but every time I comment on a mutual friends page shes there.. I feel like I cant even comment anymore cuz know she'll be there to piss on it and mark her territory. Very annoying!

Well there not related by blood. They call each other cousins cuz there parents are close friends and they've known each other forever. I think he's not into her but likes the attention he's getting. I think he may have had her start with a few comments to make me jelouse during a short break up we had and I think she got caught up in the whole thing. Now she's taking it personal and continuing it on her own.

I'm not gonna mention it to him anymore bc I don't want her to be the cause of our arguements since thats what she's trying to do. I know a guy she's talking to that totally has the hots for me and I can easily go and start things up on his page but thats so lame!