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Jan 22, 2014Comments: 75 · Posts: 5976 · Topics: 662
Okay, this is nuts. These last few threads make it look like being with a Crab will always end in a hot mess of a train wreck, with their lover always drained and damaged.
Look, I get moodiness can be a hassle to deal with but it comes with the territory. Cancer is ruled by the moon,the luminary that chances signs the fastest out of all planets. Waxing and waning, their emotions and moods are easily swayed like the tides.
Young crabs have the crappy job of learning how to roll with it. One day they may feed you and have sex all day with you. Next they may need a week to recover from the emotional overload of it. Seriously, they don't they can really just learn what overwhelms them and what they can do to stop from burning out for days from situations. Its a learning process that takes time. If you can't handle it, don't date a crab.
If you want, you could try watching moon transits to see how they affect your crab. Keep up with the lunar calendar and see how they behave with each moon phase. Or just accept them as they are and just inspire them to strive to get a better handle on things, out of love.
If you can't handle the relationship saying it's toxic, leave. Its not your job to fix people, so don't.
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Jan 07, 2015Comments: 0 · Posts: 127 · Topics: 20
Ok fair enough ...good point ...if my cancer would've said this ...NO PROBLEM ... I could be all he needs a more.... but he doesn't and leaves a really eerie feeling... but may I ask ...recupperate from what emotional overload?? It was good wasn't? You enjoyed the connection ??? So what is it that you guys feel the need to hide to regroup or neutralize your emotions?
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Jan 10, 2015Comments: 100 · Posts: 2017 · Topics: 43
I personally love being a crabette...it is hard work though I aint goin lie with our emotions and all..but I find that underneath my emotional turmoil and intensity I love DEEPLY because I feel DEEPLY but yet I also hurt DEEPLY. .I just wish other signs will get thats how Crabs are...Don't confuse us with your butter and learn to respect our emotions and our Space..be kind, have patience and understanding and we will be fine...All we crabs need is love and understanding thats all..
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Jan 23, 2015Comments: 306 · Posts: 1335 · Topics: 77
Another thing about cancers: Don't make them feel guilty for taking time to themselves.