Crabs and our Feelings —?

Dont get me wrong.. i LOVE being a cancer but lets face it.. We can be Soo emotional and "all in our feelings" lol... As i get older im learning alot about Cancers and im starting to notice alot of things within myslef and boy oh boy we can truly be a handful lol.... i wish i could control it lol

Ohh this is very interesting..
My BF is a Cancer and we're on a break now..but I am very curious about the Cancer mind.
So tell me, when you feel emotional and upset..what do you usually do? Do you avoid your boyfriend if he makes you upset/emotional?

Do you guys try to hide your feelings? Are you comfortable talking about feelings?

Hi guys.. Cancers are naturals when it comes to discussing our feelings.. we just have to discuss them with the right person/people.. we hold our feelings to our heart and if we feel neglected/upset or if those feelings get hurt in any kind of way.. we distance ourselves.. i kno when i get emotional about something, i pull myself away to think and when i come back around.. im restored lol

Cancers?

Sensitive feelings?

I wasn't aware that those words can be used together!

Snap!!!!!!

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Give em' a lil alcohol and they'll spill real fast...maybe a little too much... and scare you away o.o

dis cancer gurl i was seeing for a while smoked a little with me
one day and she got crazy emotional crying telling me how much she
didnt want to ever let me go....i aint guna front i love
their emotions they have mine boiling like the witches soup

I think cancerians just need the right person to open up. A person that they can trust, with a lot of patience, who can tell them everything will be alright, trust yourself, good things are going to happen... and finally, a person who can listen them without judging them.

My mom (cancerian) 's sister is a scorpio. There are so many times when my mom doesn't tell her a lot of things because she can be very easily hurt by her sister's opinions and by the way she expresses her opinions, even they talk so much on the phone.

When a cancerian opens up, you have to be really careful of what you say to them. Sometimes is better to keep your mouth, just touch them, give them a smile, whatever you feel by that moment.

Being a cancer is a blessing and a curse. Caring too much, taking it all in, helping others, defending people, having feelings that are usually right, being too private, so tough on the outside, but so damn lonely and helpless on the inside. I used to think I was sick! My moods would change so many times sometimes in a day. I didn't know what was wrong with me, i went to see a doc, i was told it's bipolar! WTF, why are we like this— I love the way I love my family so much I would do anything for them, but I hate being so sensitive that I can sense people's feelings. I hear a sad story on the news and I will cry for days. I don't know these people! I hate attention, i love privacy and being alone. Sometimes however I long for attention, I know it's crazy. I am old fashioned, I have morals and values, would never cheat. I'm not clingy, i can't stand people that are clingy. I would never reveal my secrets to anyone unless I felt very comfortable. I don't know about other cancers, but I think we do share this trait...We would never hurt anyone on purpose, but if someone crossed us it would be the end for them. However, when we make friends, they remain friends for life. I can't pretend to be someone i'm not just to make more friends. I never understood how someone can have hundreds of friends. I hate fakeness attention hungry people. I hate so much, yet I love so much I can't stand it!!! I have friends that know how I am and by the grace of God they are still my friends. My parents kicked me out bec of my moods. Is this right? Do I sould like a cancer, or do I really sound like a bipolar freak? The bipolar meds never really helped btw. Maybe I'm too much cancer! ALL the men that have been really attracted to me are SCORPIOS! They are the ones that i found myself to be very comfortable with. I can sit with a scorpio and have the most intense, deep converstion for hours, not get bored and love each others company. I can't stand when someone tries to give me advice. I'm so irritated right now just typing this! Then there's the dreams, and I tell my peeps that I had a dream about them, something so similar happens! It's scary but I have gut feelings and they guide me. The one bad thing is I think with my heart, but slowly I'm starting to change that, no more feeling sorry for people. I care way more for others than they do for me. It's coming to an end!

WOWWWWw is all i can say.. but honestly.. it sounds like u nailed me to the T lol.. everything ..except the going to the doc part lol explained the story of my life.. glad to see someone im not alone

I think we have to find ways to deal with our emotions. I found that when I want to cry i just cry, but in private. I LOATHE crying but it feels better after.

You have to keep yourself busy or you will submerge yourself in the emotions and feelings and mood swings.

I hate the idea of medication and pill popping....there has to be a more efficient and organic way to deal with the emotions than medicine that dopes you up.

The important thing is that you recognize that you have these mood swings and emotions.

Once you identify you've shifted moods or your emotions are awry.....exercise, meditate, smoke a spliff , dance, paint, walk, volunteer, ride a bike and my personal favorite....GO TO THE BEACH OR POOL!

Just keep yourself busy and active.