Honeybunniie
@Honeybunniie
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Creative approach
Did he spent money on you in a significant way at any point?
let him come to you, might be a while so distract yourself or do something else in the meantime.
awww I hope everything works out for you , you seem so sweet....
I had a falling out with my scorpio friend (it was actually pretty mild) anywho I was mad at first but that meltaway pretty quickly and I missed my friend I was sad but I didn't reach out ..pride issues and such -_- she reached out to me and I was SO GLAD ....I say reach out to them ...I bet they will be glad they did 😄
I had a falling out with my scorpio friend (it was actually pretty mild) anywho I was mad at first but that meltaway pretty quickly and I missed my friend I was sad but I didn't reach out ..pride issues and such -_- she reached out to me and I was SO GLAD ....I say reach out to them ...I bet they will be glad they did 😄
Posted by HighTideLol yes we dated for two years
Did he spent money on you in a significant way at any point?
@rab thank u! I will take this advice
@cancan aww thank you!!! I try to give good and positive energy as much as I can.
I unfortunately did reach out to him and he is ignoring me at the moment -_- so I'll give him alllll the space needed
@cancan aww thank you!!! I try to give good and positive energy as much as I can.
I unfortunately did reach out to him and he is ignoring me at the moment -_- so I'll give him alllll the space needed
Posted by HoneybunniieDid you tell him the former, and in the second bolded part, did that filter into your reaching out?
He's like my best friend.
I reached out to say sorry even though he is the cause for the fallout. I just wanted to be the bigger person and move forward from the issue. He is now ignoring me.
Honestly, I don't think their perception is the
same as yours, or mine, for that matter.
I had a Cancer in my life that was a petulant,
self righteous brat much of the time, but the
rest of the time, he was a stellar individual.
I wanted to mend it, and that was that.
Wrote a letter, threw no stones, and basically
said 'idk how you put up with it.'
He's never going to change and if I wanted to
set it right, I had to accept that-- not something
I do very often (If ever) but in this case, it was
worth it.
It worked... no regrets.
same as yours, or mine, for that matter.
I had a Cancer in my life that was a petulant,
self righteous brat much of the time, but the
rest of the time, he was a stellar individual.
I wanted to mend it, and that was that.
Wrote a letter, threw no stones, and basically
said 'idk how you put up with it.'
He's never going to change and if I wanted to
set it right, I had to accept that-- not something
I do very often (If ever) but in this case, it was
worth it.
It worked... no regrets.
Posted by HoneybunniieGreat. Wait no longer than a month, imo.
@rab thank u! I will take this advice
@cancan aww thank you!!! I try to give good and positive energy as much as I can.
I unfortunately did reach out to him and he is ignoring me at the moment -_- so I'll give him alllll the space needed
If it's his fault don't do anything. This is what condones crappy crab behavior, and let's them think they can get away with it.
I catch myself doing this all the time: During/after an emotional outburst, all logic is gone and fault is mistakenly assigned to the other person. After the smoke clears, I realize it is actually my own fault. I then sulk for days. I don't want or expect the person to apologize. I just want them to initiate contact to validate that they even care, and then I will apologize immediately.
Difference between myself and this guy is that you have already reached out to him, and he decided to stay in his shell. So eff him, and leave him there. In the meantime, go out and have fun. The less you think about him, the more he will think about you. This is the cancer way!
I catch myself doing this all the time: During/after an emotional outburst, all logic is gone and fault is mistakenly assigned to the other person. After the smoke clears, I realize it is actually my own fault. I then sulk for days. I don't want or expect the person to apologize. I just want them to initiate contact to validate that they even care, and then I will apologize immediately.
Difference between myself and this guy is that you have already reached out to him, and he decided to stay in his shell. So eff him, and leave him there. In the meantime, go out and have fun. The less you think about him, the more he will think about you. This is the cancer way!
Cancers are most emotionally assertive of the water signs. We LOOVE projecting
Posted by CancerOnTheCuspPosted by HoneybunniieDid you tell him the former, and in the second bolded part, did that filter into your reaching out?
He's like my best friend.
I reached out to say sorry even though he is the cause for the fallout. I just wanted to be the bigger person and move forward from the issue. He is now ignoring me.click to expand
No. I think I was trying to explain why I felt the way I did and that I was sorry if I made him feel bad but I mean what I said.
Posted by CrabraThank u! I hate when a person I love is upset with me. It bothers me a lot. Thank you for showing clarity. At this point I haven't reach out to him or etc. it hurts so much but I guess I will live
If it's his fault don't do anything. This is what condones crappy crab behavior, and let's them think they can get away with it.
I catch myself doing this all the time: During/after an emotional outburst, all logic is gone and fault is mistakenly assigned to the other person. After the smoke clears, I realize it is actually my own fault. I then sulk for days. I don't want or expect the person to apologize. I just want them to initiate contact to validate that they even care, and then I will apologize immediately.
Difference between myself and this guy is that you have already reached out to him, and he decided to stay in his shell. So eff him, and leave him there. In the meantime, go out and have fun. The less you think about him, the more he will think about you. This is the cancer way!
Give him space. You've already reached out once, and he's not ready to come out of the shell. We can be some of the most stubborn people when we are in our moods and/or we feel someone wronged us. Even if the spat was completely our own doing.
Do you know his placements?
Do you know his placements?
Posted by HoneybunniieNo no no...if he's ignoring you, leave him/her alone.
Any advice on a creative yet sincere way to make peace/apologize to a cancer?
We had a bad fallout. Although I'm still disappointed and upset, I cherished the person he is and don't want to be shelled out his life. He's like my best friend. I reached out to say sorry even though he is the cause for the fallout. I just wanted to be the bigger person and move forward from the issue. He is now ignoring me.
Posted by bamacrab87
Give him space. You've already reached out once, and he's not ready to come out of the shell. We can be some of the most stubborn people when we are in our moods and/or we feel someone wronged us. Even if the spat was completely our own doing.
Do you know his placements?
Sun Cancer
Moon Taurus
Mercury Leo
Venus Leo
Mars Capricorn
Jupiter Pisces
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
True Node Aries
as a cancer man i see the best thing to so in order not to lose him is to show that u are so waek and u need him to continue to live !
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