Dealing with Cancer mood swings and not taking them negatively

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Az2018
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7 Years

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What is the best way to deal with a Cancer female mood swings? I'm a Virgo male.

For example one moment she will be messaging me telling me all sorts of stuff about her day, that she misses me, calling me my nickname etc. I will then do all the same back, and even more such as send her a pic. She will then just reply to one thing I say and completely ignore all the rest. My first reaction is 'How can she be so cold back to me after I was so warm to her'. If I question her about she didn't reply about xyz and if I said something wrong, she responds by saying I'm being negative and should go with the flow. Basically that I should let her be and let her reply to the other parts when she's ready.

How can I stop automatically taking it negatively, ie. Oh she doesn't like me/want me because she didn't say this and that ? When something like this happens shall I just reply back in the same way she replied to me and just until she wants to reply about the other stuff?

Any other tips on how to deal with her moods?