Disappearing Cancer man

It's old news that Cancer men disappear randomly for no reason. But I need some reassurance that my Cancer man is still interested, so I don't go completely insane. We met online and have been talking for over a month. We've been on 3 dates and have gotten intimate within that time frame (no sex). He's told me all about his family (in great detail), and I've hung out with him and his roommate/best friend. We have great conversation, get along really well, and besides this whole disappearing act, he's pretty amazing! He's disappeared on me before but came back after a week, claiming that he was busy with work. I haven't talked to him in a week and a half because his parents came into town, and I knew he was going to be busy with them. I tried to keep my distance and only texted him every few days just to let him know I was thinking about him; he never responded to any of them. The last time I texted him was 3 days ago and his parents left 2 days ago, but I still haven't heard from him at all. Again, it's been a total of a week and half since I've heard anything from him and now am kinda freaking out. Some of my friends think I need to move on... Others think I should give him a few more days to regroup from the chaos and he'll go back to normal.

What do you think? Is he still interested?

Hmm.. hard to say. I went out with a cancerian man for 12 years. He's never done the disappearing act on me. I have however been getting to know this Virgo guy (probably for about 3.5 months now) he started doing the disappearing act early March. He checks in via text/emails every 3 days or so the longest non-contact was about a week.

Why don't you just give him the space and continue with what you do on a daily basis, he probably needs to go into his man cave to recouperate or something. He may come round (if he hasn't made any attempt at contact for 2 weeks, I would chalk him up as a loss and move on). Don't put your life on hold especially for a new guy that's not making any effort...I know it's hard, but it would be easier to move on when it's early in the relationship rather than drag it out and you've invested more emotion into it as time goes by, I know us females likes to hold onto things and likes to get closure especially if you're not getting answers.

Men 😉 They're all strange, they probably says the same about us females. LOL

Good Luck.

I don't know.