Do cancer men ever initiate if they have a crush on you?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Lola9788 on Thursday, September 2, 2021 and has 10 replies.
Hello, I have my sun in Aries and moon in Cancer. Last week i met this cancer guy through mutual friends, and from the moment we met, we just clicked. It was instant chemistry (and I don’t get that a lot)


We talked and joked all night, he asked a lot of questions (some were personal), we had a nice small walk together.

And when he was leaving and I was shaking his hand, he lingered for 20 seconds and kept holding my hand and looking into my eyes.


But that’s it, he never asked for my number, never tried to find me on social media….nothing


Was I imagining and Cancer men are that charming with everyone or do I need to initiate
What is his Mars?
He will keep bugging you by talking your ear off and trying to find ways to brush up against you, casually, if he likes you.

If you don't make the first move, he will find some random way of getting your number, he will make up any excuse to get it but it will seem like it's in a friendly way.

It will most likely be based off something that you've talked about. An interest of yours that you've mentioned, that will be his way in.


Or if he has social media, he will stalk you, find you, and add you.


This is the way most cancer men are with me from experience.
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Posted by saggurl88

He will keep bugging you by talking your ear off and trying to find ways to brush up against you, casually, if he likes you.

If you don't make the first move, he will find some random way of getting your number, he will make up any excuse to get it but it will seem like it's in a friendly way.

It will most likely be based off something that you've talked about. An interest of yours that you've mentioned, that will be his way in.


Or if he has social media, he will stalk you, find you, and add you.


This is the way most cancer men are with me from experience.


Fire and air signs ftw.
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I don't find any other water signs as annoying as Cancer men lol


They all have the same creepy ass side stepping technique. I have no clue how women can find this style of behavior endearing.


It's like they cant help themselves, the more you move away from them, the more they creep up on you with lame excuses to chat about the most random crap.
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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by saggurl88

He will keep bugging you by talking your ear off and trying to find ways to brush up against you, casually, if he likes you.

If you don't make the first move, he will find some random way of getting your number, he will make up any excuse to get it but it will seem like it's in a friendly way.

It will most likely be based off something that you've talked about. An interest of yours that you've mentioned, that will be his way in.


Or if he has social media, he will stalk you, find you, and add you.


This is the way most cancer men are with me from experience.


Fire and air signs ftw.


I don't find any other water signs as annoying as Cancer men lol


They all have the same creepy ass side stepping technique. I have no clue how women can find this style of behavior endearing.


It's like they cant help themselves, the more you move away from them, the more they creep up on you with lame excuses to chat about the most random crap.


I think if a woman likes attention a cancer man can give that in spades, but maybe so can a Virgo. It's a slow process with cancerians. Tbh I like all signs, but I think cancer is tougher on men than women.
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TBH, Virgo men used to annoy as well when I was younger. They seemed controlling and anal upon first impressions, and they aren't like that at all once you get to know them. They are high on the list of favorites now.


Cancer man's first impressions of trying so hard for attention is what bugs me. I haven't dated one exclusively though because of that first impression. It also bugs me that they try even harder when you shun them.

I think it would be different if one was able to catch my attention.

All the ones I come across immediately get pushed to the side cause they can't chill out and not be so clingy and approval seeking right away.
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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by saggurl88

He will keep bugging you by talking your ear off and trying to find ways to brush up against you, casually, if he likes you.

If you don't make the first move, he will find some random way of getting your number, he will make up any excuse to get it but it will seem like it's in a friendly way.

It will most likely be based off something that you've talked about. An interest of yours that you've mentioned, that will be his way in.


Or if he has social media, he will stalk you, find you, and add you.


This is the way most cancer men are with me from experience.


Fire and air signs ftw.


I don't find any other water signs as annoying as Cancer men lol


They all have the same creepy ass side stepping technique. I have no clue how women can find this style of behavior endearing.


It's like they cant help themselves, the more you move away from them, the more they creep up on you with lame excuses to chat about the most random crap.


I think if a woman likes attention a cancer man can give that in spades, but maybe so can a Virgo. It's a slow process with cancerians. Tbh I like all signs, but I think cancer is tougher on men than women.


TBH, Virgo men used to annoy as well when I was younger. They seemed controlling and anal upon first impressions, and they aren't like that at all once you get to know them. They are high on the list of favorites now.


Cancer man's first impressions of trying so hard for attention is what bugs me. I haven't dated one exclusively though because of that first impression. It also bugs me that they try even harder when you shun them.

I think it would be different if one was able to catch my attention.

All the ones I come across immediately get pushed to the side cause they can't chill out and not be so clingy and approval seeking right away.


Nothing wrong with anal. 🍆
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I agree if the person likes attention, a cancer man can be good, but from the amount of disappearing they do, it doesn’t seem worth it.
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Cancers are old fashioned.


He doesn’t need to ask for those things since you have mutual friends.


They don’t rush into things.
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Posted by Lola9788

Hello, I have my sun in Aries and moon in Cancer. Last week i met this cancer guy through mutual friends, and from the moment we met, we just clicked. It was instant chemistry (and I don’t get that a lot)


We talked and joked all night, he asked a lot of questions (some were personal), we had a nice small walk together.

And when he was leaving and I was shaking his hand, he lingered for 20 seconds and kept holding my hand and looking into my eyes.


But that’s it, he never asked for my number, never tried to find me on social media….nothing


Was I imagining and Cancer men are that charming with everyone or do I need to initiate


Those are really nice signals on his end. From what you wrote, definite attraction.


Action - he might simmer on it. He won’t be aggressive and upfront like fire + air + Taurus.


Just HOLD ON. Try to be patient and let him do the work. He is a Cardinal, he will appreciate you more if he does the work.


My Aries Bestie is with a Cancer man. He made ALL THE MOVES and he is gaga about her.


Good luck 🤗
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Thank you! I think I will need to learn to be patient (doesn’t come natural to an Aries 😅) But I will definitely follow this advice


Will keep you posted on this thread! Thank you for your support 🤗
Posted by saggurl88

He will keep bugging you by talking your ear off and trying to find ways to brush up against you, casually, if he likes you.

If you don't make the first move, he will find some random way of getting your number, he will make up any excuse to get it but it will seem like it's in a friendly way.

It will most likely be based off something that you've talked about. An interest of yours that you've mentioned, that will be his way in.


Or if he has social media, he will stalk you, find you, and add you.


This is the way most cancer men are with me from experience.
Thank youu! Ok I will wait and see how he proceeds. We have some mutual friends so he can find me when he wants to

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