Do Cancer women normally just pull away all of a sudden

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ARollingRock
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8 Years

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Went on a few dates with this cancer woman, the last one went really well, at least in my mind. Went and got drink, went out dancing, and spent around 7-8 hours hanging out getting to know each other. She is really conservative and we hadn’t kissed over 4 dates, but at the end she leaned in and kissed me before saying goodbye. Now after that she got distant, and started kind of ignoring my messages.

She does this every now and then, where stuff from life stresses her out or gets her down and she’ll go a week without talking to me, then all of a sudden talk all the time and want to set something up to hang out, then have something happen in life that bums her out and I don’t hear from her again.

So the other day I messaged her and she opened up about how she was down on something, and I consoled her and asked to set something up this weekend and she just ignores it after that. I would care less if she just said she’s not into doing anything or not into dating me, but when people ignore you like that’s it’s kind of frustrating especially when it’s likely she’ll come out of her shell again.

So at this point I’m just planning on leaving her alone and if she comes back then I don’t really know what to do, but I’m not going to be petty about it and ignore her back. Anyone have insight on why she’s acting like this?