Posted by AnOdeToNoOneyes perfect question!
Now I have to ask...
When you Crabs play the jealousy card with your crushes, what exactly are you trying to do?
Are you expecting us to get mad and say/do something?
???
Posted by firefis1996Cancer female here and although I've never done this (it's really immature imo), I assume others do it to see the reaction and judge whether their crush actually likes them back based off of this. It could well be out of insecurity, but that's just my guessPosted by AnOdeToNoOneyes perfect question!
Now I have to ask...
When you Crabs play the jealousy card with your crushes, what exactly are you trying to do?
Are you expecting us to get mad and say/do something?
???click to expand
Posted by CuriousCiciSo what happens if the crush does like you, but your behavior ends up hurting them and they go away?Posted by firefis1996Cancer female here and although I've never done this (it's really immature imo), I assume others do it to see the reaction and judge whether their crush actually likes them back based off of this. It could well be out of insecurity, but that's just my guessPosted by AnOdeToNoOneyes perfect question!
Now I have to ask...
When you Crabs play the jealousy card with your crushes, what exactly are you trying to do?
Are you expecting us to get mad and say/do something?
???click to expand
Posted by AnOdeToNoOneYou say "you" as if you're referring to me, but like I said i've never done that personally myself I hold the same view as you. It accomplishes nothing!Posted by CuriousCiciSo what happens if the crush does like you, but your behavior ends up hurting them and they go away?Posted by firefis1996Cancer female here and although I've never done this (it's really immature imo), I assume others do it to see the reaction and judge whether their crush actually likes them back based off of this. It could well be out of insecurity, but that's just my guessPosted by AnOdeToNoOneyes perfect question!
Now I have to ask...
When you Crabs play the jealousy card with your crushes, what exactly are you trying to do?
Are you expecting us to get mad and say/do something?
???
Did you really accomplish anything positive by acting like that?click to expand
So what happens if the crush does like you, but your behavior ends up hurting them and they go away?
Did you really accomplish anything positive by acting like that?
Okay, thank you.
You say "you" as if you're referring to me, but like I said i've never done that personally myself I hold the same view as you. It accomplishes nothing!
The crush should well and truly leave if someone is playing those games, because it indicates the Cancer probably isn't emotionally mature enough to handle a relationship if one were to begin anyway.click to expand
Posted by DMVNo way, Jose!
Mars in cancer does this 2
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollWait, so what you are saying is...
Cancer energy is indirect. Like the crab that side steps to get where it needs to be, we do the same. This can manifest itself as passive aggressiveness. This cancer guy is being passive aggressive by trying to make you jealous. To him it's easier than coming right out and saying "I like you".
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollYes, and irritating.Posted by AnOdeToNoOnePosted by AliensusedourbogrollWait, so what you are saying is...
Cancer energy is indirect. Like the crab that side steps to get where it needs to be, we do the same. This can manifest itself as passive aggressiveness. This cancer guy is being passive aggressive by trying to make you jealous. To him it's easier than coming right out and saying "I like you".
Crabs do things that have the serious potential to hurt someone....
....In order to demonstrate that they like the person?
Some do. It's really counterproductive isn't it.click to expand
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollSo if a Crab girl rubs another guy in your face, what is the best reaction to that shit?Posted by AnOdeToNoOnePosted by AliensusedourbogrollYes, and irritating.Posted by AnOdeToNoOnePosted by AliensusedourbogrollWait, so what you are saying is...
Cancer energy is indirect. Like the crab that side steps to get where it needs to be, we do the same. This can manifest itself as passive aggressiveness. This cancer guy is being passive aggressive by trying to make you jealous. To him it's easier than coming right out and saying "I like you".
Crabs do things that have the serious potential to hurt someone....
....In order to demonstrate that they like the person?
Some do. It's really counterproductive isn't it.
I understand now that some Crabs prefer to do messed up things to people in order to show that they like that person.
Well kinda. It's more to see if the other person likes them before they confess their feelings, like dipping a toe in the water to check the temperature. Sometimes people with cancer energy can get so wrapped up with their own feelings that they forget other people have feelings too. I know it's something I had to work on.click to expand