Do I chase?

Hi all, met a cancer man 3 weeks ago. We have been on 5 dates and hit it off ! He hasn’t told me flat out, but I feel like he likes me. We go to art shows, dinners and watch movies in his house. He’s affectionate and I “accidentally” left my toner and leggings at his place last week (I know it’s dumb lol but I wanted to see how he would react) and he didn’t move the toner from his bathroom countertop at all and I don’t know where my tights are, guessing he washed them and kept them for me.. lol he didn’t mention I left it and to take it back when I went back yesterday after a week. Guessing he doesn’t mind??

With valentines coming up, I wanted to see each other that night. I just hate being the one to make plans always ( he’s enthusiastic and down to hangout when I plan), but never asks, besides the first time we met. Any suggestions?

He doesn’t text all the time (I know, I know it’s soon). I sometimes get a text towards end of day and we chat a little. Or I text him in the morning and he texts me towards end of day and we catch up a little. I’m used to constant texting so maybe that’s on me.

Things he does do: affectionate, holds me and kisses me and cuddles me, took me to art show with his roomie and friends on second date and they liked me, they asked me to join in on trips with them and said we look cute together. He accidentally Made a comment that I’d be meeting his other friends. Says yes to future plans in summer. Yesterday I was with him and he texted his roomie if he wants food. His roomie said “guessing you’re with __my name__ ordering in?” Lol.. so I guess even his roomie knows. But I’m crazyyyyy bc I don’t believe someone likes me until I hear it ): it was cute yesterday he told his movers if they could fit me in a box to move me to his new place too.. he says cute little things.. lol.

Do I tell him about valentine? I was gonna go over and cook for him in my lingerie since he loves food like me! But not sure if I should chase? I know it’s soon that we met, but somehow it feels comfortable with him. I’m very cautious usually but I’ve let it down with him.

Just be you and do what you would do. That's what he's liked so far so don't play bullshit games or change. With regards to him liking you, his actions clearly show he does. You don't need words, they're usually lies so just see it for what it is in how he treats you. Cancer guys aren't the type to be texting all day, everyday, but if he's contacting you at least once a day then that's a good sign. Keep your expectations realistic. Expecting anyone to be available 24/7 will result in disappointment.

Posted by LadyLuna19

If you feel like you're the one initiating, step back a bit and let him pull you in. Otherwise you'll fall victim to "Cancer Man Ran Away," which is sadly 90% of the cancer forum

Completely Agree with @ladyluna

I dated 2 cancers and they will be nice to you even if you are just a hook up... Wait for him to make a move, Cancer guys are very attentive and detail oriented, if they care about you and really like you, they will not miss out any special day... nor making something special for you.. let him do the chase, Cancers go overboard for the person they really like, so much its scary sometimes. lol.

Usually cancers show their interest heavily. I wonder what his moon sign is because it might explain his slow moving nature.

The thing about all men is they’re not mind readers and they rarely do what us girls want them to do on their own. So tell him you’d love to spend Valentine’s Day and ask him if he has any ideas about what to do.