Do some people try to dominate or control you?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by ChildOftheMoon on Thursday, February 28, 2013 and has 8 replies.

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I guess I come across as a little abrupt or rude sometimes due to my Aries Ascendant, maybe even a little bitchy or agressive. So, many times I get the feeling that the dominant/leader types try to control or dominate me as if they want to put me in my place. Although I've been dominant in my relationships I don't consider myself dominant, I think I'm very mellow. Wonder if this ever happens to anyone.

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There are a few standard dominant signs of the zodiac (amongst others).
Aries, Scorpio and Leo
If unchecked, they will do so.

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Posted by ChildOftheMoon
I guess I come across as a little abrupt or rude sometimes due to my Aries Ascendant, maybe even a little bitchy or agressive. So, many times I get the feeling that the dominant/leader types try to control or dominate me as if they want to put me in my place. Although I've been dominant in my relationships I don't consider myself dominant, I think I'm very mellow. Wonder if this ever happens to anyone.

I didn't mean *Cookiemonstery* LOL I meant B****y!

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Yes and then I turn into the devil in human flesh, and they will scatter about, or be shocked and talk about me for it. Most of them have acted surprised that I can say no, or won't do what they want/ ask/ command.

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I think I am the most mellow scorpio in the world my ex cancer bf had me totally under his thumb.

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No, one guy tried many years ago and paid very badly. That's all.
Women do try to convince me that they are angels, I do seem to believe them quite often until I find out otherwise. But then I kick them out very swiftly when I realize that they are fake.

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Yes. They mistake my kindness for weakness and I hate that. It's true that if you are too nice, people will walk all over you. Sometimes you have to let your inner bitch out. I hate conflict and confronting people. It's draining since I am so sensitive. You gotta let some people have it sometimes. I usually walk away and end up ignoring the person. I can be passive aggressive sometimes.