Do some people try to dominate or control you?

I guess I come across as a little abrupt or rude sometimes due to my Aries Ascendant, maybe even a little bitchy or agressive. So, many times I get the feeling that the dominant/leader types try to control or dominate me as if they want to put me in my place. Although I've been dominant in my relationships I don't consider myself dominant, I think I'm very mellow. Wonder if this ever happens to anyone.

There are a few standard dominant signs of the zodiac (amongst others).

Aries, Scorpio and Leo

If unchecked, they will do so.

Posted by ChildOftheMoon
I guess I come across as a little abrupt or rude sometimes due to my Aries Ascendant, maybe even a little bitchy or agressive. So, many times I get the feeling that the dominant/leader types try to control or dominate me as if they want to put me in my place. Although I've been dominant in my relationships I don't consider myself dominant, I think I'm very mellow. Wonder if this ever happens to anyone.

I didn't mean *Cookiemonstery* LOL I meant B****y!

Yes and then I turn into the devil in human flesh, and they will scatter about, or be shocked and talk about me for it. Most of them have acted surprised that I can say no, or won't do what they want/ ask/ command.

I think I am the most mellow scorpio in the world my ex cancer bf had me totally under his thumb.

No, one guy tried many years ago and paid very badly. That's all.

Women do try to convince me that they are angels, I do seem to believe them quite often until I find out otherwise. But then I kick them out very swiftly when I realize that they are fake.

Yes. They mistake my kindness for weakness and I hate that. It's true that if you are too nice, people will walk all over you. Sometimes you have to let your inner bitch out. I hate conflict and confronting people. It's draining since I am so sensitive. You gotta let some people have it sometimes. I usually walk away and end up ignoring the person. I can be passive aggressive sometimes.

Gemini's for one ... My gemini sister causes me MUCH angst!! and is always contentious!!