Do you cancer guys/gals ever...

Do you guys ever get sick or annoyed of people who are too sensitive, overreact, talk about their feelings about a relationship a lot? Do youg et sick of people telling you they care about you, only want you? What is too much? Does it depend on how much you care about the person, how attractive they are, or anything like that?

And if the attention/discussion about how much they care about you is appreciated, does it encourage you to feel the same way? Or would you just be like thanks... glad somebody cares about me, bye bye.

And to clarify, I don't mean like a random stalker person telling you they love you. I mean to refer to someone that you have an ongoing relationship or even friendship with.

I hate the feeling of being smothered. Detest it. I need space, and not the feeling of having to reciprocate out of neccessity. I want things to progress in a way that feels natural. For both of us.

One of my biggest petpeeves though is when you mesh, and they pull back after saying it feels "so right". Space is needed, of course. But dont say something feels right, and then turn around and say you feel it's too much. To me, that sends out red flags of insincerity, player, fake. That's when I pull back, and really begin to observe. It's also then when I no longer feel I can be myself, and generally the demise of what once was. And most likely the relationship. I no longer trust you.

meh, sun sag and cancer moon, complete clinger...even after I set boundaries, and told him no. Didnt last long, because he couldnt or didnt want to take that I was serious.

Spesh as in they are special to you? or special as in retarded...?