Do you ignore someone you like?

Posted by nycancergal
This may seem contradictory, but we Cancers always seem to be so. Do you ignore someone you have a crush on or are very attracted to? It may be out of fear, rejection or just because you are shy. It's said that running hot and cold is one the strongest signs of attraction. For example, you ignore someone one day and give them attention the next day. I am guilty of ignoring someone I like all the time. I dunno. I can be shy and nervous. It may not seem so outward but I am trembling inside if I really like the person. Do you end up doing the same? Sometimes the very person I am so smitten with thinks that I totally dislike them. This is not good. Have you experienced this and do you do this? Or am I the odd one out?

Posted by seraph

Posted by Jynja
Well, I'm not Cancer but I get shy, withdraw, run and hide, all that when I like someone a little too much too. Especially if I met them for the first time and felt attraction.

This is generally a Water sign opening move (and even finishing move if there was nothing to unpleasant near the end), and really, one that is never quite retired if the attraction is deep, even if a deep friendship is also present. But it too, is something that can be taken in stride (though it might take a little Air to get to that place.)

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Just above you, a few posters shared the opposite view. *shrugs*

Posted by supershiwi
i'm a scorpio and i tend to shy out too. i've read that scorpio's tend to do this when attracted to someone because it can be quite overwhelming and we like to be in control of our emotions

Posted by nycancergal
This may seem contradictory, but we Cancers always seem to be so. Do you ignore someone you have a crush on or are very attracted to? It may be out of fear, rejection or just because you are shy. It's said that running hot and cold is one the strongest signs of attraction. For example, you ignore someone one day and give them attention the next day. I am guilty of ignoring someone I like all the time. I dunno. I can be shy and nervous. It may not seem so outward but I am trembling inside if I really like the person. Do you end up doing the same? Sometimes the very person I am so smitten with thinks that I totally dislike them. This is not good. Have you experienced this and do you do this? Or am I the odd one out?

Posted by ScorpioFish

Posted by seraph

Posted by Jynja
Well, I'm not Cancer but I get shy, withdraw, run and hide, all that when I like someone a little too much too. Especially if I met them for the first time and felt attraction.

This is generally a Water sign opening move (and even finishing move if there was nothing to unpleasant near the end), and really, one that is never quite retired if the attraction is deep, even if a deep friendship is also present. But it too, is something that can be taken in stride (though it might take a little Air to get to that place.)

Wrong as usual, asshole.
Many water signs are not afraid to speak to a woman that they feel an attraction toward. This is especially true for some Cancers, and many Scorpios and Pisceans.
There are plenty of people here who aren't any different.

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Posted by ScorpioFish

Posted by supershiwi
i'm a scorpio and i tend to shy out too. i've read that scorpio's tend to do this when attracted to someone because it can be quite overwhelming and we like to be in control of our emotions

Not necessarily.
I know a few Scorpios who are anything but shy when it comes to meeting a woman.

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Posted by LunarMaiden

Posted by ScorpioFish

Posted by seraph

Posted by Jynja
Well, I'm not Cancer but I get shy, withdraw, run and hide, all that when I like someone a little too much too. Especially if I met them for the first time and felt attraction.

This is generally a Water sign opening move (and even finishing move if there was nothing to unpleasant near the end), and really, one that is never quite retired if the attraction is deep, even if a deep friendship is also present. But it too, is something that can be taken in stride (though it might take a little Air to get to that place.)

Wrong as usual, asshole.
Many water signs are not afraid to speak to a woman that they feel an attraction toward. This is especially true for some Cancers, and many Scorpios and Pisceans.
There are plenty of people here who aren't any different.

Whoa ScorpioFish, why so harsh and aggressive toward Seraph?
The Lion is only expressing his opinion, like the rest of us.
Are you having a bad day fishy?

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