Do you ignore someone you like?

This may seem contradictory, but we Cancers always seem to be so. Do you ignore someone you have a crush on or are very attracted to? It may be out of fear, rejection or just because you are shy. It's said that running hot and cold is one the strongest signs of attraction. For example, you ignore someone one day and give them attention the next day. I am guilty of ignoring someone I like all the time. I dunno. I can be shy and nervous. It may not seem so outward but I am trembling inside if I really like the person. Do you end up doing the same? Sometimes the very person I am so smitten with thinks that I totally dislike them. This is not good. Have you experienced this and do you do this? Or am I the odd one out?

Posted by nycancergal
This may seem contradictory, but we Cancers always seem to be so. Do you ignore someone you have a crush on or are very attracted to? It may be out of fear, rejection or just because you are shy. It's said that running hot and cold is one the strongest signs of attraction. For example, you ignore someone one day and give them attention the next day. I am guilty of ignoring someone I like all the time. I dunno. I can be shy and nervous. It may not seem so outward but I am trembling inside if I really like the person. Do you end up doing the same? Sometimes the very person I am so smitten with thinks that I totally dislike them. This is not good. Have you experienced this and do you do this? Or am I the odd one out?

A LOT of Cancers have this problem, both male and female alike.

Just don't take it personal if one is rude or difficult with you.

It's the way they are sometimes.

If the inappropriate bad behavior gets to be too overwhelming, then find yourself a nice Taurus. They don't play mind games during courtships, and they are some of the most honest people I know.

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Posted by Jynja
Well, I'm not Cancer but I get shy, withdraw, run and hide, all that when I like someone a little too much too. 😛 Especially if I met them for the first time and felt attraction.

This is generally a Water sign opening move (and even finishing move if there was nothing to unpleasant near the end), and really, one that is never quite retired if the attraction is deep, even if a deep friendship is also present. But it too, is something that can be taken in stride (though it might take a little Air to get to that place.)

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Wrong as usual, asshole.

Many water signs are not afraid to speak to a woman that they feel an attraction toward. This is especially true for some Cancers, and many Scorpios and Pisceans.

There are plenty of people here who aren't any different.

Just above you, a few posters shared the opposite view. *shrugs*

You generalized what 3 entire astrological signs in the zodiac behave upon based on the statement of Jynya?

Hahahahahaha.

I can only imagine a turd like you conducting research in the lab.

Thanks for the laugh.

Posted by supershiwi
i'm a scorpio and i tend to shy out too. i've read that scorpio's tend to do this when attracted to someone because it can be quite overwhelming and we like to be in control of our emotions

Not necessarily.

I know a few Scorpios who are anything but shy when it comes to meeting a woman.

i cant say ignore... if i m really interested in someone...usually we find something to talk about..but i try to initiate because of obvious reasons... if shes smoking hot and others are all over her then i might ignore her just to make me feel a bit different..usually i initiate. about ending it...yes maybe true. i run away from situations... i do wanna change that aspect of life, i m working on it...but not yet fully by instinct. my sub conscious is still reverting me back to the old ways.

Posted by nycancergal
This may seem contradictory, but we Cancers always seem to be so. Do you ignore someone you have a crush on or are very attracted to? It may be out of fear, rejection or just because you are shy. It's said that running hot and cold is one the strongest signs of attraction. For example, you ignore someone one day and give them attention the next day. I am guilty of ignoring someone I like all the time. I dunno. I can be shy and nervous. It may not seem so outward but I am trembling inside if I really like the person. Do you end up doing the same? Sometimes the very person I am so smitten with thinks that I totally dislike them. This is not good. Have you experienced this and do you do this? Or am I the odd one out?

I have behaved this way in the past. I was very shy, I still get a little shy around guys I'm enamored with, however I will speak to them.
I believe I lost some potential friends, lovers because I was so shy and came off too aloof or mean.
Once I started to force myself to stand my ground, relax; strike up a conversation and communicate it became much easier for me.

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Posted by Jynja
Well, I'm not Cancer but I get shy, withdraw, run and hide, all that when I like someone a little too much too. 😛 Especially if I met them for the first time and felt attraction.

This is generally a Water sign opening move (and even finishing move if there was nothing to unpleasant near the end), and really, one that is never quite retired if the attraction is deep, even if a deep friendship is also present. But it too, is something that can be taken in stride (though it might take a little Air to get to that place.)

Wrong as usual, asshole.

Many water signs are not afraid to speak to a woman that they feel an attraction toward. This is especially true for some Cancers, and many Scorpios and Pisceans.

There are plenty of people here who aren't any different.

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Whoa ScorpioFish, why so harsh and aggressive toward Seraph?
The Lion is only expressing his opinion, like the rest of us.
Are you having a bad day fishy?

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Posted by supershiwi
i'm a scorpio and i tend to shy out too. i've read that scorpio's tend to do this when attracted to someone because it can be quite overwhelming and we like to be in control of our emotions

Not necessarily.

I know a few Scorpios who are anything but shy when it comes to meeting a woman.

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Is that why they put up an act when talking to them? 🙂

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Posted by Jynja
Well, I'm not Cancer but I get shy, withdraw, run and hide, all that when I like someone a little too much too. 😛 Especially if I met them for the first time and felt attraction.

This is generally a Water sign opening move (and even finishing move if there was nothing to unpleasant near the end), and really, one that is never quite retired if the attraction is deep, even if a deep friendship is also present. But it too, is something that can be taken in stride (though it might take a little Air to get to that place.)

Wrong as usual, asshole.

Many water signs are not afraid to speak to a woman that they feel an attraction toward. This is especially true for some Cancers, and many Scorpios and Pisceans.

There are plenty of people here who aren't any different.

Whoa ScorpioFish, why so harsh and aggressive toward Seraph?
The Lion is only expressing his opinion, like the rest of us.
Are you having a bad day fishy?

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You could say that.

Sometimes I identify more with the Hulk than with Dr. Banner.

Some people around here are literally human catalysts to the effect.

I am EXTREMELY shy, so if you do not approach me, I wont dare approach u. Even if I like you.

But if you do approach me, I will play a lil hard to get if I really like you. But after a couple of convo's I will loosen up and I become very inviting/open with u.