Does this mean that this cancer guy likes me?

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chantal3147
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So we have been flirting on and off for 3 months now.

But last week out of the blue he called me and said that something happened at work and that he was coming to meet me (I live nearly an hour and a half away from him), we hadnt seen each other in 3 weeks and he was so happy to see me. The minute I saw him he started pouring out the good news about his work and he told me that I am the first person he told and he's not sharing that news yet. He was so scared of teh change but happy at the same time. We spent like 4 hours talking not only abt work but about iur families, hobbies, spiritual views, then we kissed and I left.

But ever since that night (4 days ago) he disappeared again. I texted him last night to ask him abt updates at his job...he replied 5 hours later with "I'll update you :* :* :*" and he did not of course.

Did he get bored? Does he like me or m I just filling a void whenever HE needs it.

I am an Aries so the fact that I have been patient for 3 months is big to me, I am never patient, but I truly like him.

Any advices?
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Any time they get that happy and excited and sharing with you, it's taken a lot for them to be that open...I think sometimes being so happy can scare them. So after exerting all that emotional energy, they balance it out with their alone time.

I think the fact that he chose you to share his good news with, that he drove that far to see you, that he thought that highly of you...he likes you for sure. Don't let your Aries get the best of you because you will need patience in abundance to persevere with him.

Good luck 😉
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chantal3147
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Posted by phEnyxBull876
Any time they get that happy and excited and sharing with you, it's taken a lot for them to be that open...I think sometimes being so happy can scare them. So after exerting all that emotional energy, they balance it out with their alone time.

I think the fact that he chose you to share his good news with, that he drove that far to see you, that he thought that highly of you...he likes you for sure. Don't let your Aries get the best of you because you will need patience in abundance to persevere with him.

Good luck 😉




Thank you phEnyxBull876 ! This is such a relief, I think I will just step back, give him all the space he needs till he comes back 🙂 ! I think I will start doing some yoga to help me with tge patience issue hahah

Thanks again
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chantal3147
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Posted by kissmygrits
Probably busy. Send a random pic that's funny via text. Nothing teeny bopper just like you saw a dog peeing on someone's picnic in a pairk somewhere or a guy dressed up as Waldo hipster in a store etc.



Yea I believe so, I haven't seen any action on fb from his side lately so probably he is just focusing on work these days...it is just frustrating how cancer guys do stuff on their own sometimes rather than sharing...I mean they can get so much more support if they just let you in !!!

Well I believe I will give him his space for a week or so, if he still didnt initiate any contact I will go with ur advice and send him something random

Thaaankd 😄