Im a female cancer - jul 6
he's a gum - jun 10
Ive known my gem guy for 2 years. We dated and broke up for multiple reasons. I was willing to work through our differences but he ended it because of the following:
1. I would at times withhold things from him because of pride
2. I had male friends
3. I lied about occasionally smoking cigarettes (when I'm stressed, I smoke them)
4. I had social media (he doesn't have social media and avoids it like is a plague)
5. He said I make him think too much and he hates to think too much (whatever that means)
He said that he couldn't trust me and he didn't see me being his wife. He would always make up these CRAZY ass assumptions. For ex, he'll ask if I was at the bar picking up guys and taking them home to ave sex with them. lol. like crazy butter.
Fast forward, we've started talking again. I have deleted all my social media EXCEPT instagram. I've told every male friend that I want to work things out with this guy so I ended friendships with them. I'm also more transparent with him which he said he appreciates. Okay, so today we were talking and he says "Milly, if you hurt me or lie to me again I will hurt you because I know myself. I really loved you and tried to build a foundation with you but you hurt me."
Soooooo, is he saying this because he's guarded or....? I didn't like it honestly but I just let him vent. Also, Im a cancer and I don't know our placements. Sorry